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38 minutes ago, sikhni777 said:

Thats why our giani ji told us to shut our eyes... and he dimmed the lights.We had real fun.   Divine bliss. Our concentration was only on the one God. We hope he forgave our many sins that instant.  I tried hard to look at the other ladies suits but could see nothing.  

I left the gurdwara with a completely different sort of bliss that day. Dhan dhan giani ji. I think he lives in India. So next experience when he returns.

 

Dimming the lights is a good idea, as I have problems with bright lights and it would help with concentration. But penji, my post was written in a joking way. I don’t do that myself, but I can imagine others doing it. My concentration tends to divert to other things. 

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7 hours ago, Kira said:

Forgive me Gyani Ji. I did a terrible thing, I kept going back for prasad, but then when they stopped me. I sent a relatives child to get me some.

3 hours ago, simran345 said:

Doabe gyani ji, I looked at some auntyjis suits n wanted the same one. I was trying to concentrate, but ki kara ina sona suit c, mera dhian ode te c. Fer main dream kardi c, ke kaash mera v suit ida da hunda, nice nice. ? 

 

 

In the Name of Akaal, of Guru, and of Shakti. Gurprasaad.

My Children, you have both committed venial sins, and with such you have weakened your bond with God. You must repent.

Kira My Son, for your penance there must be an act of contrition for your overbearing greed; prayers are to be held and there must be the giving of alms. The prayers of Japji must be recited and 5 bowls of communion are to be prepared which the congregation shall receive. For almsgiving you must set up a communal meal.

You are forgiven.

Simran My Daughter, for your penance there must also be an act of contrition for your ignornace towards the Name of the Lord; there must be 5 hours remembrance and recitation of the Name. For the period of 11 days you shall only wear a simple white suit. For almsgiving you must donate clothing of the highest quality to the needy.

You are forgiven.

 

Victory to the Lord!

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17 hours ago, Guest OP_ said:

WJKK WJKF

lol that made me laugh paji. Goodness I just don't know how to word it... can't really confess to something without saying what we did...genuinely require help please...

WJKK WJKF

If you really must go for pesh, just say kaam di galti ho gai. Or some variation of that. Make sure you're clear it was with your husband though.

Still don't think you need to go but up to you.

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We all have difficulty penji. Halfway during  the katha I remembered that I had not locked the back door.  Going back home would get me a mad hubby. So I was so scared,  I was saying bye to the computer,  my cards, my mobile and any money plus anything else valuable.  Then I thought I am in the gurdwara,  God can't let such a thing happen. Then I relaxed and then started thinking perhaps I had locked it. 

I concentrated a bit more on the salok mahalla nauva. Forgot all about the door,  came home slept. Awoke next morning.  Before going t the gurdwara the next morning,  my husband asks - who left the door unlocked? I had no words. We slept the night too with the door unlocked! !!!!

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7 hours ago, MrDoaba said:

Simran My Daughter, for your penance there must also be an act of contrition for your ignornace towards the Name of the Lord; there must be 5 hours remembrance and recitation of the Name. For the period of 11 days you shall only wear a simple white suit. For almsgiving you must donate clothing of the highest quality to the needy.

You are forgiven.

Okji I will try to do. 11 days going to be hard work as there’s only 7 days in the week. And I don’t like white, pattern wala mix white suit v chaluga hana ? (U have to say yes). ? I will do the last one too in the coming year. Oh we are in 2018 already, okji I will try the last one too. 

Thank you Doabe waleo gyani ji.?

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2 hours ago, simran345 said:

Okji I will try to do. 11 days going to be hard work as there’s only 7 days in the week. And I don’t like white, pattern wala mix white suit v chaluga hana ? (U have to say yes). ? I will do the last one too in the coming year. Oh we are in 2018 already, okji I will try the last one too. 

Thank you Doabe waleo gyani ji.?

Simran, My Child, your attitude is not in the least bit pleasing to God. In fact it is an affront unto the Holy Laws of God and the sanctity of the Sacrement of Pesh. I cannot absolve you of your sins as you have not shown a commitment to be truly repentant which you have demonstrated by saying that you will "try".

11 is an auspicious number in the Church of Nanak, for the Light of The Lord shone through 10 forms and continues to shine through the 11th.

White is the colour of the robes of Our Heavenly Father symbolising piety and purity in both thought and action.

For your soul I will say 11 Hail Bhagautis.

Gurprasaad.

 

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7 hours ago, MrDoaba said:

Simran, My Child, your attitude is not in the least bit pleasing to God. In fact it is an affront unto the Holy Laws of God and the sanctity of the Sacrement of Pesh. I cannot absolve you of your sins as you have not shown a commitment to be truly repentant which you have demonstrated by saying that you will "try".

11 is an auspicious number in the Church of Nanak, for the Light of The Lord shone through 10 forms and continues to shine through the 11th.

White is the colour of the robes of Our Heavenly Father symbolising piety and purity in both thought and action.

For your soul I will say 11 Hail Bhagautis.

Gurprasaad.

 

Manu koi samj nai ayi ki kehgea. Babaji. But okji ok. 

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6 hours ago, simran345 said:

Manu koi samj nai ayi ki kehgea. Babaji. But okji ok. 

Doabe vale gyaani khush nahi hua!!

 

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28 minutes ago, simran345 said:

Ki gal a, bhoond patake larde a? ? sorry ji no rishvat ?

Doabe vale Gyaani khush nahi hua but.......

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