well I wouldn't know. Nor am I amritdhari nor am I married. But I would expect that love and lust are two different things even when it comes to physical human relationship. Right? Or maybe both persons in relationship have to be at a high level to differentiate between lust and love and act accordingly.?
and if we are on this topic, is it not lust to use a natural mechanism, that is meant for procreation, to get the pleasure, and at the end simply pull out (sorry for being explicit). Is there a difference between making love and fu**ing?
Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh
as I'm fairly new to Sikh really want to engage with kirtan ,so I wanted to know if anyone know any places or teachers around Birmingham who teach kirtan on harmonium (vaja)?
iv been looking for a teacher or a gurdwara where they teach but iv been struggling and I really have a passion to learn so I would be grateful if anyone could guide me
many thanks ,sorry for mistakes
waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh
One should remember that if one is a sikh of the Guru, and moreover Amritdhari, one's goal is to stay away as much as possible from the 5 vikars, and gradually with His bhakti nullify the mind, consequently the vikars.
Our relation with Guru Jee and Waheguru is above any other relations.
Why do not try and substitute kamee impulses with devotional thoughts and focused mind on the Lotus Feet of Waheguru.
Give it a throughly thought bro...
Saas saas simro Gobind.
Try and love Waheguru. And you shall be ferried across the Mahabhavsagar.
What else is then left to be achieved?
Well I guess i would have to wait till I get married and see how it is then lol
But I dont share feelings with anyone not even friends or family Its safer to keep feelings and problems to yourself, at least I prefer it that way and deal better with it. There are some things I would have to share though.
Its difficult to open up with people, iv done it a few times and didnt like it very much. To much info out like that I dont like it. And I dont feel comfortable with that.
Iv only ever once had a deep conversation with a female but that's because she had similar problems at home so I just opened up as well it didnt feel that bad because she could relate.