marriage afteer death

[Guest sikhs]

we get married to live in gristh but what happens after we die? do we carry on married life in sachkhand with that partner? what happens?

 

also we still adhere to rehat in the afterlife or do we just chill and jap naam?

[jkvlondon]

gristh is a contraction of two words greh and sat in other words place or environment of Truth/ultimate reality, so we aspire  not to the human relationship of man wife  but a state of being in sat/full realisation of naam . A couple can be married but never reach gristh jeevan e.g. if they are manmukhs . After we live this life all relationships end except with Naam , Guru/Akal Purakh , so no we don't act like we are here over there setting up house etc like Christian/muslim concept or tv hindu dramatisations of gods and Goddesses.

 

[Guest sikhs]

23 minutes ago, jkvlondon said:

gristh is a contraction of two words greh and sat in other words place or environment of Truth/ultimate reality, so we aspire  not to the human relationship of man wife  but a state of being in sat/full realisation of naam . A couple can be married but never reach gristh jeevan e.g. if they are manmukhs . After we live this life all relationships end except with Naam , Guru/Akal Purakh , so no we don't act like we are here over there setting up house etc like Christian/muslim concept or tv hindu dramatisations of gods and Goddesses.

 

what happens there then

[JUSTAJATT]

On ‎6‎/‎7‎/‎2018 at 7:36 AM, Guest sikhs said:

we get married to live in gristh but what happens after we die? do we carry on married life in sachkhand with that partner? what happens?

 

also we still adhere to rehat in the afterlife or do we just chill and jap naam?

No, your spouse in this life, may have been your father mother, sibling, child in previous life. 

Gurbani calls all of these "bandan" chains/bonds of MOH.  The MOH has to be eradicated and overcome in this life by dying in the shabad. This shabad is not the shabad that is akhree (one you read). This shabad is Heard. Only heard in sukham ears.

[Not2Cool2Argue]

On 6/8/2018 at 8:13 AM, Guest sikhs said:

what happens there then

That wat gurbanis for. And with naam simran,.you can visit all the heavens and hells if u want. U sure u want us to spoil it for u?

Seriously tho, we r a soul. We are not a body. Our soul doesnt need food, partners, rehit. Our body does. 

So there are two steps in sikhi. First is finding or experiencing ur soul. Not just realizing that we r a soul. But seeing it, experiencing it, so that our body becomes not us, but like a cloth we r wearing. That we will take off when we dont need it. (Thats called death). This first step of realizing our soul is called aapa chinai or atam vigaas or  many names which i forget. This is the point buddhism takes u to. Realizing u r a soul. 

The second step is to realize that our soul is part of a greater soul Parm Atma. Like a drop from an ocean. Like that drop our soul yearns to become one with the ocean. In our case, the ocean is God. So basically if we do.everything right, we should become God or at least one with God. That is Milaap. 

Our partner is also a soul. So they are on their own journey to join the ocean. Who knows if we will even meet them next life. 

But the above only happens to ppl who meditate and those who free themselves from karma. For us normal, lazy ppl.there are 3 choices that we have after death. Our actions, good and bad deeds will be weighed. If we r bad, we get to go.to hell, pay for our crimes, then we get another chance at life. Either as human if were good or animal or plant. We can also go.to heavens. If we do some special good thing. But there are many different types. And u can only stay  a certain time then will have to be reborn.

So basically,.we keep.being born until we finally get it right and meditate and get mukti or liberation. 

 

[MisterrSingh]

On 6/7/2018 at 3:36 PM, Guest sikhs said:

 do we carry on married life in sachkhand with that partner?

"I thought this was supposed to be Sachkhand?! Why am I in hell?!!?"