I'm not putting anybody into categories. I'm acknowledging a reality in certain cases. You're arguing those exceptions DON'T exist at all. You're denying truths because they make you uncomfortable, and shine a light on certain issues you don't want to see illuminated. Again, where's Bibi Nanaki come from in this scenario? And Mai Bhago? Were they the norm or the exception to the rule? Am I, as a normal guy without divine heritage, making my way in the world, supposed to believe every woman is a latent Bibi Nanaki or Mai Bhago, and therefore worthy of the same treatment? Would I treat every male as if they were Bhai Gurdas or Baba Bidhi Chand? You're hilarious.
No i mean theres nothing wrong with having a black baby if thats what the individual wants, but i mean traditional parents try their best to install culture and traditional values into their kids and hope they will marry som1 from the same background, but when your kid completely go'es against this it must be terrible for those parents, must feel like their whole world slipping through their fingers.