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vaheguru jee ka vaheguru jee kee fateh iam singh in uk and i'm in my late teens i am amritdhari and i face a huge pornography addiction iknw its wrong but i really need help iam scared of telling anyone cuzz i know ill be judged.

its an addiction its not even jus hindering my sikhi but its ls also making me fail my a levels.

cuzz of the pornography addiction i cant complete my assignments and iam failing and my parents just think iam lazy thats why iam failing as humble brother i need in the dark age of kalyug can anyone help me please i would reallly appreciate

 

vahegurooo jee kak khalsa vaehguroo jee kee fateh

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seek help from older gursikhs, dont confide in any random person. get professional help too. maharaj kirpa rakhan. 

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14 minutes ago, jathasingh1978 said:

singh can you please give daas some advice iam really struggling would appreciate payerio

Whenever you think about watching it or even think about another woman think about Kalgidhar Paatshah and think would he be happy. Would it make him pleased that your lusting over a woman? Maharaj says we should look at a woman older than us like a mother, a woman similar age as us like a sister and younger than us like a daughter.

Bhai Sahib explains in many many videos (more than what I've linked above) on why Kaam is dangerous and how to face it.

Hopefully that helps

ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖਾਲਸਾ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫਤਿਹ

 

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3 hours ago, jathasingh1978 said:

singh can you please give daas some advice iam really struggling would appreciate payerio

Look no one can help you other than you yourself. Its your mind that is directing your attention to that stuff. As harsh as it might sound at the end of the day it is your hands that type the website in and click the video,  so how can anyone help you other than yourself ?   It is with your hands that you search these videos, so just stop!  you have more control over this than you think. practice more control over your body and mind, it all comes down to you ...

be strong, take your mind off that stuff, when the thought comes to your mind then occupy yourself with something else.

Masturbation really drains you, Porn really dumbs you down so i am not surprised you are flopping your exams. the videos leave a lasting impression and the images you see stay stuck in your mind. If you stop masturbation you really do feel so much better about yourself and you start seeing things differently! trus me ...    abstaining from masturbation really clears your mind out, you have better concentration and can focus on sikhi with a clear mind.

i just turned 26 last month and now i can say i have some control over my kaami thoughts.  learn to take focus away from kaami thoughts, occupy your mind with something else, its takes practice and discipline.  

stop acting all helpless because that makes you think you are helpless, give yourself some authority over your issues, stop thinking you are helpless and that your addiction takes control, put yourself in control.  like i said no one else can help you but you need to do it yourself 

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And you do know that suicide, abuse and drug/alcohol addiction is high in the porn industry?  how do you not know that one of the girls your jerking off to isn't mentally stable or has issues?  that would be you taking advantage ... 

you could possibly be jerking off to a girl that is close to suicide or self harm,  how does that make you feel?

 

Porn industry reeling after five deaths in only three months

FIVE porn stars have died in the last 12 weeks alone as a crisis rocks the sex industry, with workers revealing just how badly they are treated.

Staff writer
News Corp Australia NetworkJANUARY 29, 20189:41AM

 

 

 https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/news-life/porn-industry-reeling-after-five-deaths-in-only-three-months/news-story/e779587b387f0ad2b3ae71ec45f0c631

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what do you mean by addiction? like how many vids do you watch? how many hours do you spend watching that stuff?

Most importantly ask guru ji for guidance, tell guru ji that you are helpless and ask guru ji to guide you ... 

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Porn star Honey Gold, 25, is admitted to Las Vegas mental facility after attempting to commit suicide

  • Adult film actress Honey Gold has been hospitalized following a suicide attempt
  • The 25-year-old said she has suffered longtime mental health issues and PTSD
  • Gold, who identifies as bisexual, began working in the industry two years ago
  • She was nominated Female Performer of the Year and Best New Starlet at the 2018 Adult Video Awards
  • The attempted suicide comes nearly a year after five other women in porn died
  • Others have died by suicide, infection, drug overdose or from unknown causes
  • There is nothing to suggest the deaths are linked but the sheer number has rattled the industry 

 

 

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58 minutes ago, puzzled said:

Porn star Honey Gold, 25, is admitted to Las Vegas mental facility after attempting to commit suicide

  • Adult film actress Honey Gold has been hospitalized following a suicide attempt
  • The 25-year-old said she has suffered longtime mental health issues and PTSD
  • Gold, who identifies as bisexual, began working in the industry two years ago
  • She was nominated Female Performer of the Year and Best New Starlet at the 2018 Adult Video Awards
  • The attempted suicide comes nearly a year after five other women in porn died
  • Others have died by suicide, infection, drug overdose or from unknown causes
  • There is nothing to suggest the deaths are linked but the sheer number has rattled the industry 

 

 

Same with wrestling industry  sheer amount of deaths are next level.

Then you get Chyna who goes from wrestling into porn and she committed suicide.

 

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22 minutes ago, Redoptics said:

Same with wrestling industry  sheer amount of deaths are next level.

Then you get Chyna who goes from wrestling into porn and she committed suicide.

 

Yeah there is a lot of mental health problems in this that industry, jerking off to those girls is wrong coz you just don't know what they going through.

i used to watch it but stopped. It wasn't an addiction though. But i remember once watching this video and the girl had tears coming out of her eyes, and when the camera man laughingly asked her why the tear she replied saying its only sweat,  but it was obvious it was tears. 

This guy at work was telling me that a lot of the men struggle getting it up after taking v!agra and other stuff 

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