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I'm speechless! Gobsmacked      so he got married to another sikh man? But his in laws didn't want the community to know that their son is gay and that it's a gay wedding so they told this guy to dress as a bride?  

You really can't make this stuff up 

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It's like that weird thing apnay do, when they obsess about what other apnay think and get majorly insecure about it. I bet most of you lot on this forum are from families like this. lol 

This article is so outlandish I almost find it hard to actually believe. But then I know how weird certain types of families can be about some bull5hit notions of izzat they have, so on the other hand I'm like....hmmmmm

Is this for real though or is the gay man being a little dramatic...as they can get...

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His mother-in-law also told him he was too fat and wouldn't let him to use the toilet so he would often wet himself. 

 

What is going on with the other bloke (and his family) in the story???

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But four months later he found out his husband was set to marry a woman and he tried to kill himself.

He said: 'I put my wedding outfit back on and I went down to the river and slashed my wrists. I felt like they made me his wife so I was going to kill the wife.'

 

So they know their boy is partial to a bit of gand and they're still marrying him off to a women!!! WTH!! This family should be exposed before they ruin the girls life. 

This bit sounds like a queen doing drama....

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And he said he was treated like a slave in the home and was made to do 18 hours of chores a day.

Forget This gay guy, it's the actions of the other gay guy's family that shock me. How does a family get weird like that? 

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59 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:

Forget This gay guy, it's the actions of the other gay guy's family that shock me. How does a family get weird like that? 

Either too much God (in the sense of whatever their perception of religion happens to be) or not enough God, lol.

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22 hours ago, MisterrSingh said:

Either too much God (in the sense of whatever their perception of religion happens to be) or not enough God, lol.

I think you're well off the mark there. From what I see, these types of 'families' care more about what flaannaah timkaah in their social circles think, than anything about God. 

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13 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:

I think you're well off the mark there. From what I see, these types of 'families' care more about what flaannaah timkaah in their social circles think, than anything about God. 

I think most south Asian families are like that though. They are very concerned about what people will say or think.

Very strange behaviour. 

But I think to an extent it is good! Because without care for image people end up having no sharam and start doing all sorts of shameless things. 

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If you have no care for what people think of you then you do end up becoming shameless. 

We have this very gorafied Punjabi family live down our road and the mum and dad both get drunk and start swearing at each other in Punjabi in the middle of the road at midnight!  Their son also hosts massive house parties and his mum ends up getting drunk with all his mates  LOL! 

Iv seen the son bring random goris back to his house on weekends. While the daughter is in a open relationship with a paki.

Absolutely no sharam

That's what happens when you dont care about image 

So to an extent it's good to care.

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14 hours ago, puzzled said:

If you have no care for what people think of you then you do end up becoming shameless. 

We have this very gorafied Punjabi family live down our road and the mum and dad both get drunk and start swearing at each other in Punjabi in the middle of the road at midnight!  Their son also hosts massive house parties and his mum ends up getting drunk with all his mates  LOL! 

Iv seen the son bring random goris back to his house on weekends. While the daughter is in a open relationship with a paki.

Absolutely no sharam

That's what happens when you dont care about image 

So to an extent it's good to care.

I hear you and I agree. I'm talking about going weird with it like in the OP. 

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10 hours ago, dallysingh101 said:

I hear you and I agree. I'm talking about going weird with it like in the OP. 

Yeah the OP is some next level sh1t lol 

That is some real obsession with family reputation 

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It's good to have a good image not just for your family but for your community as well. 

When you do something stupid it's not just your family that get a bad image but your people and community do as well. So behave and carry yourself well. 

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12 hours ago, puzzled said:

It's good to have a good image not just for your family but for your community as well. 

When you do something stupid it's not just your family that get a bad image but your people and community do as well. So behave and carry yourself well. 

Yeah, but too many apnay turn that into something that equates to them never ever sticking their necks outs - even when they should. 

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hmmm

1. Gay marriage is NOT a sikh thing but a secular thing so only court marriage will do .

2. They the parents should be named and shamed for doing beadbhi of Guru ji's Anad Karaj and his Darbar and also to save an innocent girl from being trapped in a false marriage

3. WTH did the guy expect? if you are prepared to dress as the little  woman in a Punjabi family you will have to carry on in that vein , FOREVER. No pUnjabi family will do without their in house slave (nuh) so if you are that desperate to be married shut up and do your chores just like all the rest simples. wonder if he gave a daaj too (facepalm)

4. If you abandon your Guru don't expect his hand of protection ... so you take your shrabi kebabi life and the ish is will cause on the chin , nobody's fault but yours

 

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Marriage is a religious cermony so I don't understand why atheists get married!  Marriage was a revelation from our creator. No place for atheists in it. 

Atheists don't need to marry they can do whatever 

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