Geezer i think u need to listen to yourself. Your washing your dirty laundry on a forum. U have no communication with your wife.
Read my comment. I told u to speak to wife openly about your relationship. If u cant talk to your wife then mate your marriage is already over. And its not your wife i blame. U need to wake up and take responsibility of your life. U coming on a forum and talking about your wife. She isnt and pet or an asset. Shes your wife. Listen to katha on Anand Karaj then come back and talk to me. And dont give advice on marriage. Ive been married along time. And it works with trust and compromise. And your view on women in your above comment is a reflection of your perverse thinking. So be a man. Grow a pair. And dont waste my time.
There's a theory called enantiodromia - excess of one thing gives rise to the opposite. E.g. no recession = confidence. Confidence leads to risk-taking. Risks lead to recession
My parents/grandparents generation came to UK because they were poor with little opportunity in India.
(1) Problem - Sikhs coming to UK didn't know English or have qualifications = had to work manual jobs = low income, trying to build stable life here
(2) Solution - Encourage their children to study hard = good qualifications = good jobs and higher income
(3) Excess - Comfortable off-spring enjoying the life their parents made for them here, 'wrapping our children in cotton wool' - not teaching them how to fight, defend themselves.
What happens next?
Comfortable life, living in a safe country = we think it will last forever, but it might not 🤔
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