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Seeing Sikhs adopt much of the viewpoints of either right wing or liberals. And as incels are growing as well as theories of hypergamy,  MGTOW.

I was wondering what the views are of fellow Sikhs on these issues. And if you are married, did your view on the opposite gender change?

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What do I think about incels? The truth is that for some reason both men AND women are starting to have higher standards for their respective partners. A lot of people are not willing to settle. A lot of incels unironically want a hot girl or pretty girl or whatever, and a lot of fat/unfit/not so pretty women want someone like Henry Cavill. I honestly think it’s because of social media and the internet. That’s literally the main issue. Incels barely existed before (at least with not as much hate and pent up frustration) and that was because people met through family, friends, and social gatherings. Not the internet. Im sure there will be men that think that oh it’s so hard for me to get a woman. Women can get someone easily. True. However is it totally IMPOSSIBLE for a man to get someone? No. People are literally starting to lack social skills these days because of the Internet. 

For the record, in most couples I’ve noticed that it’s usually the woman dating down. (aka the woman typically tends to look better). Just food for thought.

Watch this by Contrapoints about Incels:

 

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1 minute ago, Jassu said:

What do I think about incels? The truth is that for some reason both men AND women are starting to have higher standards for their respective partners. A lot of people are not willing to settle. A lot of incels unironically want a hot girl or pretty girl or whatever, and a lot of fat/unfit/not so pretty women want someone like Henry Cavill. I honestly think it’s because of social media and the internet. That’s literally the main issue. Incels barely existed before (at least with not as much hate and pent up frustration) and that was because people met through family, friends, and social gatherings. Not the internet. Im sure there will be men that think that oh it’s so hard for me to get a woman. Women can get anyone easily. True. However is it totally IMPOSSIBLE for a man to get someone? No. People are literally starting to lack social skills these days because of the Internet. 

For the record, in most couples I’ve noticed that it’s usually the woman dating down. (aka the woman typically tends to look better). Just food for thought.

Watch this by Contrapoints about Incels:

 

Nice of you distil value down to looks. 

Sikhs are celibates not incels. It's not relevant. 

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Just now, Jassu said:

He asked what is our view about incels and I answered. What is your issue? And not every Sikh is celibate, especially some of these moneh Sikh. Sikhs can be ‘incel’ (even though I think incel is a stupid term) when they can’t find someone to get married to and reproduce. Like you and Dully for example

And I made a comment to you and a comment to that. I know what he asked. 

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