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I Flipped - What Do I Do? 1 2
by Guest me- 14 replies
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I am a really good person. I'm always calm and if I have something to say I say it gently. I never flip at people. Admittedly I will say a few things back when people say inappropriate things to me but I am never the one to flip. However for the first time I flipped at my friend over nothing. The flip was really bad: 3 other people were involved. It was just before his exam which was an accident and it ruined his birthday celebrations. I really regret it. I tried apologising but he won't accept. He wants to know why I said all these things which hurt him but how do you explain the logic of a flip. I regret everything I said. I've openly admitted I was wrong and what I d…
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Dhadrianwale Kirtan 1 2
by Guest _Guest_- 15 replies
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WJKK WJKF Sangat Ji I was just wondering, I know Ranjit Singh Ji Dhadrianwale does katha, but when he is actually singing kirtan, he doesn't do it the way typical ragi's do. Also instead of a tabula, someone is playing a dhol, and the way the chimta's are played are kinda different. Is this a specific style of kirtan, and does it have a name? WJKK WJKF
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Dastar -asap 1 2
by Guest _moorakh_- 13 replies
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wjkk wjkf please help me sangat ji my datsar at the moment is sooo tallll...... how do i tie a small dastar? my kes is sooo thick, so jora is even bigger, omg, help mee.... need a small one asap lol give me tips, please :WW:
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Remarriage?
by Guest _lost soul_- 7 replies
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I may sound a bit weird, here is the deal. When I first got married, I thought it was the perfect thing that happened to me. Then, when days, weeks, months, and years passed by, I became weak. I didn't know what to do. I still don't know. I thought, coming from India, to the U.K., is a relief, however, it is the opposite. I an tired of my married life, and don't know what to do. I am always, just sitting in my room, when my Singh is not home, and just think about India, and my family there. My Singh is always busy for work, or with friends, and his family is jut not my type. There has been many issues with his family and me, but my goal is to not care what they say, just…
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Parents
by Guest _jaz_- 4 replies
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i have a very stubborn father who always thinks he's right. he's runined my life and my siblings lifes. and most of us dont talk to him apart from me. although he isnt that bad. he always thinks he's right and when challenged he's starts raising his voice. he didnt talk to me for 5 years aswell and hasnt really helped me in life. ie. except put a roof over my head. he never helped me finding a job. and infact used to fight with us alot in our teens. which is partly why mey education didnt go to well. now im thinking of leaving the house. because. he wont ever say im wrong. or admit to being wrong. the latest issue is food. he's always forcing me to eat fo…
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Taksal Santhiya In Birmingham? 1 2
by Guest _Sikher_- 15 replies
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Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh Does anyone know of any Santhiya class's run by Taksal in Birmingham? I need to learn from scratch and want to start learning asap as I feel ashamed that I cant read Maharajs pavitar bani shudh. I know of Punjabi class's but theyre run just to learn Punjabi not Gurmukhi so theyre no good to me. Please help a Singh out.
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A Gyani at the local Gurdwara asked me for a site if he could listen to a broadcast from the Golden Temple 24/7, does anyone know such a site?
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Radhaswamieess 1 2
by Guest ????- 11 replies
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who the hell are these people radhaswamiyass and why many sikhs follow them ?? shouldnt us sikhs be only lookin upon and following what guru granth sahib ji say ?? i have a very little knowledge on these people so can someone please explain who are radhaswamies ?? forgive me for my spelling mistakes ..thankyou !!
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I just wanted to share how I have been feeling past few days..I am a regular Sikh , not an amritdhari , I may look like a normal Sikh walking down the dusty streets of Punjab (and other places,I travel a lot) .. But things have been troubling me . I am not a regular at doing bani or visiting Gurudwara but I read a hell lot about SIkhi on the net , and have that inner great feeling of being a Sikh , with Singh as my last name (P.S I deny belonging to a caste which my parents even tell me to , but I don't put it at the end of my name , because I believe Singh is enough as my last name..) ..I mean is it fine?? ...Though majority of my family blood members , use a caste after…
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Gyani Thakur Singh Ji's Schedule In The Uk?
by Guest Unjaan- 4 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh! I know about the Hayes program, but does anyone know their full timetable while in England? Are they going to spend some time in London? Thanks, Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!
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Im Confused..
by Guest -?-- 2 replies
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Hey guys i have 2 quick questions to ask the sangat: 1) kk we know how our guru's said something along the line of "i dont worship any hindu idol, i dont keep fasts, and i dont make pilgrimage's to mecca" ...so with tht said, i wanna no why we have nagar kirtans then?.. i mean we walk from 1 place towards a gurdwara.. but isnt tht sort of like a pilgrimage also?? 2) Wht did guru nanak mean by "there is no hindu, there is no muslim" sry if i offend anyone but i jus want to know, so incase any one ever asks me i have an answer for them instead of jus looking dumb and not knowing about my own religion =)
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Katha
by Guest Bibi Ji- 2 replies
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vaheguru ji ka khalsa, vaheguru ji ke fateh. has anyone got any katha in english on relationships/lust. by relationships im mean gf/bf. vaheguru ji ka khalsa, vaheguru ji ke fateh.
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Audio?
by Guest Guest- 0 replies
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Does anybody have an audio of this shabad in akj? jIau frqu hY Awpxw kY isau krI pukwr ] jeeo ddarath hai aapanaa kai sio karee pukaar || My soul is afraid; to whom should I complain? dUK ivswrxu syivAw sdw sdw dwqwru ]1] dhookh visaaran saeviaa sadhaa sadhaa dhaathaar ||1|| I serve Him, who makes me forget my pains; He is the Giver, forever and ever. ||1|| swihbu myrw nIq nvw sdw sdw dwqwru ]1] rhwau ] saahib maeraa neeth navaa sadhaa sadhaa dhaathaar ||1|| rehaao || My Lord and Master is forever new; He is the Giver, forever and ever. ||1||Pause|| Anidnu swihbu syvIAY AMiq Cfwey soie ] anadhin saahib saeveeai a(n)th shhaddaaeae soe || Night and day, I serve …
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I Am A Khalsa So I Am Better Than You! 1 2 3 4
by Guest Guest- 38 replies
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WHY in the world are people still thinking in that way? Does being a khalsa make you better than an amritdhari sikh with no khalsa on their name? The whole reason why Guru Gobind Singh Ji named us SINGH and KAUR was to show we are the same, WHY are people, even amritdhari sikhs acting in this way? Isn't that being disrespectful to our guru. Why are people going against the Guru by not keeping the names KAUR and SINGH!
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Plz Clear My Doubts...
by Guest scorpio1234- 5 replies
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I am going in business sector as i have joined a business school in (MBA)IT-Networking this year. I have seen/heard that in business people tend to speak lie and hide negative things about their products. I have been seeing ads on TV where reputed companies only tell good side of product and hide the negative effects. Is it right to ignore and hide the negativities from people?(I have no business background.) - Suppose i know that my competitor's product is better than mine, even then I(or company where i will work) promote(or marketing) my product's positivity (and not negativity) much more than my competitor's. - Company(in which i will work) saves taxes by using tri…
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Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it. -
Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well.
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