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Need Software
by Guest yo- 0 replies
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i want a software simular to kazaa and napster, but wont give me viruses and has a built in scanner
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Nishaan Sahib 1 2
by Guest *- 19 replies
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vjkk vjkf. Could some one please kindly explain the importance of why the sangat wash the Nishaan Sahib with dehi. Thanks in advance. vjkk vjkf.
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Salary Increase?
by Guest Poor Guy- 9 replies
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wjkk wjkf i know this looks so stupid to ask here, but has any one been in this situation. I have been working very very very hard but my boss does not pay me what i deserve. Can some one tell me how can ask him to look into my salary and possibly increase it by another 40% - 50%. I know it sounds too much, but this is what i deserve now. trust me. :rolleyes: oh, by the way, I am an IT professional and working in a professional field and have many years experience....lol, sachi. :closedeyes: wjkk wjkf
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Brick Wall 1 2 3
by s8220- 22 replies
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So, I decided I was going to keep a pagh about two weeks ago. Told family, they seemed fine. I was happy. Turns out I apparently said "I'm *thinking* of keeping a pagh" when I told them. Must have been nerves. I meant that I was going to proceed. They assumed it was open for discussion. I told all my friends etc. Was recounting this to my older sister, who looked stunned. Turns out, they're VERY much against the idea. Has caused a lot of issues, made my older sister cry, has upset me in turn. They keep on asking me to wait. Talk of how it'll affect their lives, how the pressure on them from family and mum to keep hair when they're not ready for it/don't wa…
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Really Hurting 1 2
by Guest Its killing me- 15 replies
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vjkkvjkf hai ji im a uk singh and was allowed to give my head a few years back, but something has been really worrying me now for past 7-8 months or so its gradually been getting worse. My scalp dries up very very rapidly, and i dont get normal dandruff, it like clumps together and i get scales on my scalp. If you pick them off they bleed and you pluck out any roots of your hair, and if you leave them then what happens is the roots of your hair get clumped together by them, pulling the roots painfully ive seen the doctor and he says i have a condition called sebbhoreic demititus of the scalp or something and prescribed me a shampoo , but still nothing works... ive t…
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Sikhi Relationship
by Guest .....- 1 reply
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Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji Ke Fateh I have a strange question to ask the sangat but please i don't want any stupid answers. I have been talking to a friend and he was telling me that he is having a sikhi relationship with a singhni! Can someone please explain to me what a ''sikhi relationship'' is? Pull chuk maaf karni Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji Ke Fateh
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One of my turkish friends that i go out with quite alot alyways says this to me "If you aint allowed to eat egg, then why do u drink milk?" What should i say bak to remarks like that?
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Don't Want To Be A Sikh. 1 2
by Guest HELP!- 16 replies
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Dear Sangat, I became interested in sikhism 2 years ago. I was bought up as a sikh, going gurudwara etc. My dads amritdhari and my grandad is a amritdahri giani. However, I have recently lost all interest in religion. I just don't see the point. I tried being religious, but have realised it's not for me. I do believe in a superior being (God) but don't want to follow any organised religion. I am not amritdhari (yet...) and don't want to be. My dad's definitely going to force me to take amrit, and live my life as a sikh. I am keshdari and go grudwara with my family regularly. I can read/write punjabi and used to do nitnem everyday (when I was religious) but I dont fee…
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Regrets
by Guest _Singh_- 5 replies
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A poem by a Sikh girl seduced and betrayed by a muslim guy, a warning to all Sikh girls. Regrets.... I Have Many Life in leafy Edgbaston was cosy, routine and without much bother, Mummy and daddy where professional middle class, I was at college study for my A levels, I was shy and obedient but I wasn't content, I longed for excitement, I wanted to live the world, I wanted to be as bold as brass and that was my intent. At college one day, a lad approached me, as he towards me, I could see from afar around his neck, he wore the moon and stars around his neck. He was very persistent and sweet, Told me I was beautiful from my head down to my feet. In my innocen…
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Kaam
by Guest ----------- 3 replies
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vjkk vjkf sat sangath jee, i am a 17 yr old male non-amritdhari sikh who is having trouble with kaam. I hope to be amritdhari one day but my problems with kaam are impeding me. I hang out with a chungi sangath. The problem is that sometimes I'll just be hit with feelings of lust so powerfully, I forget evrything and act on impulse. Sangath Jee, I have read many posts on this subject before and have tried controlling these urges but have so far failed. Any advice would be helpful. vjkk vjkf
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Need Advice 1 2
by Guest _keskigirl_- 15 replies
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FATEH! A girl member of my family wants to marry a sikh boy who is does not keep his hair. She says that she loves him and she feels that he is the right person for her but her family is very against it. The family tells her that she is moving away from sikhi by marrying him and she says she is bring him closer to it. Her family says that she has to choose either him or her family but she doesn't understand why they just cannot be happy for her and why their love has to be conditional. She is very depressed these days and I want to be supportive of her decision but I am still having a hard time with it. She tells me that why should she have to sacrifice her happ…
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So here goes. I am a girl and I wear a dastaar. Therefore I normally never have my hair out. On Saturday I had washed my hair and I was walking around my flat when my friend was like STOOOOOOOP! I was like whaaaaaaaaat? Then she was like you have a WHITE HAIR. I was like no I don't. This went on for a bit. She finally took me to a mirror so I could see for myself. I saw my first white hair. I never felt so sad. Its tiny, on the front of my head and its only one strand. She told me not to worry cos she has a white hair in the exact same position. I rang my sister too who said white hairs come and go. My sister is 16 and had a white hair on her arm. It was weird cos she …
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Weight Loss 1 2 3
by Guest fatty- 23 replies
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VJKKVJKF this may sound stupid but here goes im looking to lose weight for my brothers wedding in july im 6ft and 180ibs ive recently got a job working at a gym and was wondering if anyone could advise me on the best way to lose weight ie give me a diet plan (begitarian obviously) and work out scheme thank you
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Karam
by Guest _Singh_- 2 replies
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could some one explain this in depth.....my understanding is that all you past deeds and actions have a direct effect on you future does include past lives etc?
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Some Wise Words Needed From Wise&slightly Olda Gursikhs!
by Guest no_body_no_one- 3 replies
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vaheguru je... basically dhass needs some advice. its about a loved memeber, they are getting hurt but will not tell anyone as they have previously done wrong.before questions are asked no they are not amrithari and yes they are older infact they are in there 30-40's but having been close to them for so many years dhass can not see them in the state they are in and therefore would like some advice on how to try to help them even though dhass is a youngster seeing this person get hurt like this is too painful for dhass's eyes. p.s. i am not a memeber of this site but as a learning sikh please share your advice without judgment.
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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