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Vengeance/revenge/punishment
by Guest stealth- 6 replies
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I know Sikhi does not condone violence unless the actions are just, but what are the parameters for this? Is it justified to kill a man who abuses and mistreats his wife? What if the police, despite being involved, take no action? Is it justified to kill a criminal who repeatedly escapes justice, either through loopholes in the law, or is just too slippery for the police to catch? Is it justified to kill a drug dealer to prevent them from carrying out their criminal actions? Is it justified to kill a paedophile who, despite having served a sentence, continues to abuse children? Is it justified to kill someone to ensure the safety of your family, even though there is …
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Verbal Abusive Father 1 2
by Guest Kaur2312- 14 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khaka Waheguru Je Ki Fateh Please could i get advice on my dad. My dad swears alot and i mean a lot. Swearing is like breathing to him. He swears when we are doing bani and when Kirtan is on. Then he goes the gurdawara dressed in Bana and pretends to be into sikhi. I know that i sounds so ego and im just complaining but it really gets to me. Bhul Chak Mafka. Sorry Jee
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SSA ji. I have searched hard for Ebook on sikhism politics, but they have not been uploaded anywhere as far i could see. Other religions have ample amount of literature published on internet for free, to let it reach maximum people. Please share any resources if you are aware of. SSA
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Very Very Mature Topic 1 2 3
by Guest alone- 29 replies
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I am often left feeling alone, partly because I do not know anyone like me. These last few days have probably been the climax, or least thats what it seems like. I have finally decided that I am different, something which of course I have known a long time ago (afterall girls wearing dastaar are rare to come by) But this time I strangley realised that I am different from my own type too. I'm looking out of a window from a 15 floor block of flats as I write this. The view isn't spectacular (mainly floodlights) and thats exactly what life is like. I made some huge decisions this last month. I have with the help of a white vegan friend taken on a vegan diet. Its a cause …
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Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji ki Fathe. Saadsangaat ji, This is Varinder Singh :nihungsmile: from Auckland, New Zealand. There was an exhibition healed by Hamilton city council they asked following questions to every religion in Waikato region. 1) Why is your religion important to you? 2) Some people might say religion and faith are not relevant in a modern society – what would you say to that? 3) How is your religion/faith part of your everyday life? 4) What does your religion and faith offers you? E.g. what is the appeal 5) How does going to Gurdwara make you feel? 6) Does music play a part in your faith/religion – how important is it to you – what does…
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Very Wrong Happening
by Guest --gupt--- 9 replies
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------------------------Both girl and boy should respect each other--------------------------- jago SIKH jago eda girls da naal galat ohnada kida dekha sakate ho??????? Jado vi girls di marriage hondi sab bolade girls nu adjust karna padata jhukana padata kyu ki boys akhadu honda par this is wrong girl jhuka is vicha koi burai ni kyuki GURU sahib ji na Shri sukhamani sahib ji vicha likhaya hai jo ahapne ahapa nu niva samjhata hai wo sab sa upar hai.Par jab self-respect di gal ahandi toha girls nu ahapne haka vaste ladana chahiya. This is warning to all sikh boys who are doing bad with girls or usa giranda rehanda hai...................... Waheguru ji dekha rahe hai...…
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Viah (expense)
by Guest ^&^- 0 replies
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A question for the sangat. Generally speaking, who pays for the viah? Kuri wale or mundae wale? Is it split half-half? Main ceremony in the morning, reception (celebration) in the evening etc. I am clueless. Thks.
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Vichar On This Shabad And Message Of This Lines In Shabad
by Guest MrHSinghK- 1 reply
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Hi , I would like to learn this shabad but i am afraid of these two lines i found in the shabad and i would like to know the message and meaning of whom it refers to thanks ਜੋ ਜੋ ਗਰਬੁ ਕਰੇ ਸੋ ਜਾਇ ॥ Jo Jo Garab Karae So Jaae || जो जो गरबु करे सो जाइ ॥ Whoever indulges in egotistical pride, shall waste away to ruin. ਜੇ ਕੋ ਬਹੁਤੁ ਕਰੇ ਅਹੰਕਾਰੁ ॥ Jae Ko Bahuth Karae Ahankaar || जे को बहुतु करे अहंकारु ॥ Whoever takes great pride in himself, ਓਹੁ ਖਿਨ ਮਹਿ ਰੁਲਤਾ ਖਾਕੂ ਨਾਲਿ ॥੩॥ Ouhu Khin Mehi Rulathaa Khaakoo Naal ||3|| ओहु खिन महि रुलता खाकू नालि ॥३॥ In an instant, shall be like dust mixing with dust. ||3|| http://www.sikhitoth...p?ShabadID=3246 I want to learn the sha…
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Victorinox Kirpans
by Guest ---Singh---- 3 replies
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WJKK WJKF Sangat Ji I'm trying to find those swiss army victorinox kirpans but I can't find them on the website at all. Does anyone have a link or know how to find the prices? WJKK WJKF
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Video
by Guest .....- 1 reply
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does anyone know where i could get this video..its a tribute to sikh women...i cant remeber what site i got the video from???..anyone plz??
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Video On Our Shaheeds And Enemies!
by Guest Guruvah- 1 reply
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N1i6H9KFBrM
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quik question 2 penjis & paajis... would it be all good to take say a gori to the gurdwara if she wore the correct clothes etc? please no debates just straight answers/views... forgive me for my mistakes i am a sinner....
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Vikaar
by Guest gupt- 4 replies
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WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA!WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH! Somebody had said me that i m not capable of taking amrit as i have vikaars more than a normal person. my problem is i get attracted towards opposite sex and i sometimes have no control on myself and i talk about sex with opposite sex. don't do sex but talk about it and feel it. somebody said me according to 4 kurhita which is against rehat will break u'r amrit so better prepare u'r self first. 4 kurhita is taking tobacco,kesh ki beadbi,halal or <banned word filter activated> mass khana, par-istri ya par-purushgami hona. But i am trying my best to control.No one say in future what a person do its not in his/her hand…
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WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA!WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH! B4 i had taken amrit i was in love with a amritdhari boy. I was very impress by seeing his love for sikhi and human kind.I had decided b4 taking amrit to not to talk with that boy but i had lost my control and i became very kammi then after taking amrit also i had talked with him as he leave far away i had chated with him online and in phone while thinking that i will marry him then it will not be against GURMAT. I had talked very vulgar and we both had lost our control we keep in talking very vulgar. We exchange wrong pics with each other. I had started 1st b'coz being a boy he was fear from me but osdi vi icha c. So he never…
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Vintage Punjab 1 2 3
by Guest Guest- 1 follower
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Some vintage photographs and paintings of Punjabis and Sikhs A Nihang bodyguard serving in the Nizam of Hyderabad's irregular Sikh army A Sikh woman, Punjab 1870s Men of the 2nd Regiment of Sikh Infantry, Punjab Frontier Force, later 52nd Sikhs (Frontier Force) circa 1890s A Sikh Couple circa 1805, 19th century A Muslim Arain from Jullunder (Jalandhar) with his wife. Painted mid 19th century. A Nihang with his wife and child, circa 1840 Darbar Sahib 1907 A Sikh woman looks herself up in the mirror, painting inside the Khem Singh Bedi Haveli, Rawalpindi Pakistan 1860…
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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