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wats wrong with me, wats wrong with the world. Why is everything soo messed up? i dont know anything about anythign why am i such a fool, sumtimes i just feel like sittting down and screaming and crying, why why why... wat can we do to turn it all around, i want to sort out my life.

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how abt just trying to sort it lol i felt like u but now im just like there isnt really anything to sort out, just get on with it and do what u can as u go along in life progressing onto middle age and then old age.

i guess all we can do is concentrate on helping our families and friends and ppl and also just getting on with the stduying or education or whatever else it is that is seen as normal to be doing.

the only thing that i seriously think can help everything is knowing ur secure in ur family and that u have God's love and them by ur side.

then everything is fine but else it is the fear of the future that unsettles us.

everything is messed up true but the thing is that others are coping so why not us?

oh but im just talkign abt my own self here lol i guess it would depend what it is that u feel u need to sort out

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it is the fear of the future that unsettles us.

depend what it is that u feel u need to sort out

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You siad it right there *sister, we are always worring about our futures. We have to learn live in the moment and to appreaciate it. Guest this is what I want you to do, wake up tommorow just before the sun rises, sit infront of the window, concentrate your mind on Ikonkar, "there is only one GOD", then wiat until the sun touches your face and think Vaheguru "wow God is great", think to yourself God has given each one of us life, life is our gift from God, life is great.

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lol when i was reading that reply i was like wow i dont know untitled singh but he knows im a girl wow but now i know it was edited lol im THE sister.

Dont be sorry .... just dont do it again :lol:

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its becoz people presume that the S in the middle of ur usernmae means singh, meaning that ur username is ure initials.

but for otehr poeple who dont know.. yes ssm is a penji.. and the SSM stands for..

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.. nice 1 :TH:

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Maybe it's sthg pyschological as well - like seeing the Singh's in the avataar? Who knows, smdy might think SSM is one of those 2 Singhs? LOL.gif Sorry panji!

lol when i was reading that reply i was like wow i dont know untitled singh but he knows im a girl wow but now i know it was edited lol im THE sister.

Dont be sorry .... just dont do it again :lol:

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its becoz people presume that the S in the middle of ur usernmae means singh, meaning that ur username is ure initials.

but for otehr poeple who dont know.. yes ssm is a penji.. and the SSM stands for..

Sikh

Sangat

Member

.. nice 1 :TH:

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Aaaaaaaarrrghhhhh........ I feel like that too, so so often! It's just so much stress...

... and yet it's a blessing from God. Stress, sadness - it makes us stronger, brings us closer to God, makes us appreciate so much more, makes us better people because it teaches us to feel empathy for others that are going through their own problems.

Your right, everything is SO messed up! That's what this world is, buddy! But then if it wasn't messed up what would be the use of heaven? And if you are a fool (I'm not saying you are, though) then CONGRATS! You're one of the few people that have recognised this about yourself and so you have not made the mistake of going through life thinking you're someone you're not! We're all fools here, we've all made fools of ourselves, we've all acted foolish, we've all made other people look like fools, we've all been foolish enough to think we're NOT fools, and we're ALL FOOL! Me too!! I'm probably the biggest fool! (No joke there!) And you say sometimes you feel like sitting down and crying and screaming... well welcome to the club! And you ask why you sometimes feeel like sitting down and crying and screaming - because God has thrown so many problems at you, of course! But just remember that He loves you - and if you want Him to help you all you have to do is ask.

One more thing. I want to say thank you. Because today has been a stressful day for me too, and you've helped me remember that I'm not the only one with problems.

Waheguru, Waheguru, Waheguru, Waheguru, Waheguru, Waheguru...... it's amazing how He plays his game

Waheguru Waheguru Waheguru Waheguru Waheguru Waheguru Waheguru Waheguru Waheguru

take a minute out of your busy life and say this, say Waheguru, with true love and compassion and let Him take care of all your problems.

Just meditate on His Name.

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