Marrying To An Indian Girl

[Guest Papi]

the girl;s side agree but he have not asked his parents n i am very sire his parents will not agree too..bcoz he told me by himdelf that his mum will nvr agree..he say punjabi girls dont wan him coz he is dark n not their choice...i was thinking the same as u thought papi..one day he will realise his mistake...

if his parents wont agree then i guess theres nothing to worry about. unless he's thinking of like running away with the girl or something.

[Manjot_13]

im with pappi on this one. The guy shouldnt put him self down jus cuz the gurl said she was dark. I mean i would never even talk to a gurl that shallow :e:

[manjot]

I agree, too.

[Akhoza]

the girl;s side agree but he have not asked his parents n i am very sire his parents will not agree too..bcoz he told me by himdelf that his mum will nvr agree..he say punjabi girls dont wan him coz he is dark n not their choice...i was thinking the same as u thought papi..one day he will realise his mistake...

He could do what Michael Jackson did :T: :umm:

[singh_sandhu]

i take it this indian girl is not a sikh.

guru's never wrote that one should marry within ones community. a sikh should marry a practising sikh n no other (doenst mean one has to marry a punjabi sikh only, there are white sikhs n black sikhs too) n here's why.

the goal of every sikh should be to advance their sikhi, when you marry a non-sikh, that goal is goin to be become 100 times tougher to achieve if not impossible. its much easier to fall in sikhi then to rise. so if your partner is not a sikh, theres a big fat chance that they'll bring your sikhi down.

so logically it makes sense that sikh should marry sikh for the sake of sikhi. hope that helped.

now, if your friend is in "love" with this girl, you can say what you want it will not change his mind. you know what they say love is blind. and they are right, i'm saying this from personal experience. so just try to explain the deal once, and if it doesnt work then accept it as guru's hukum and let it be.

guru rakha.

:TH: well said i agree wid papi

the girl;s side agree but he have not asked his parents n i am very sire his parents will not agree too..bcoz he told me by himdelf that his mum will nvr agree..he say punjabi girls dont wan him coz he is dark n not their choice...i was thinking the same as u thought papi..one day he will realise his mistake...

He could do what Michael Jackson did :T: :umm:

lol

not sure bout that 1..

[kaur_khalistani_lioness]

How old is your friend?

[naam simran]

he is 21 this year

[Guest Papi]

he is 21 this year

am i the only one who thinks thats kinda young to be getting married. :umm: 21 is the age where u THINK you have grownup but you really haven't. so i dunno..... :lol:

[WGJKKWGJKF]

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I never read all the posts but....

I thought this may help.... click on the link below of a Sikh getting married to a Hindu (Indian) and what happened... show this to the Sikh getting married to the Hindu...

http://www.sweetsikhi.com/?p=inspi

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[Lionchild]

i don't know... someone said to me it would be better to marry a good respectable hindu/muslim/christian, than a fallen sikh... i don't know... i wont be getting married any time soon.