The Disease!

[Pwalla!]

Waheguroo ji ka khalsa, waheguroo ji ki fathe!

Daas had a situation recently of a bibi (family friend) really close to daas and a Singh, Daas is not going to mention names but daas hopes they don’t mind me telling there mistake to the sangat so that others can also learn from these examples.

It starts of with ‘how you doing?’ on msn, these few words start of the conversation, which we like or not will get us in to a lot of trouble. The conversation carried on and they started to talk on a regular term. At the end it went to flirting and they started to ‘like’ each other within a few months. Before anything went out of hand, the messages were seen and they were caught. With Mahrajs kirpa they had their brothers and sisters to help them and they got out of the mess, before it got worse.

There was also a situation where a Bibi went to meet a Singh, they lived far apart from each other so they spent money on train trips to come down and go to Cinemas etc. waheguroo knows what else they did, which daas does not want talk about, thy are so disgusting that it was hard that a amrit thari bibi can do such a thing, this also started of msn. The Singh (which daas also knows personally) now got caught by his parents and has realised his mistake, the bibi carries on talking to other singhs and meeting other people. The bibi was amritthari!! These issues have just come up so please if any one does know anything tell the elder gursikhs and not to spread there names around forums or other people, it has no benefit talking about these people.

Sangat ji daas would like to advise the gursikhs (Bibi and Singhs) to stay away from this disease, msn, talking freely to bibi and singhs and also mobile phones, texting each other. There have been many articles and emails going around about bibi and singhs talking freely, yet our brothers and sisters are ignorant (including my self) and wont listen to the advice, these gursikhs have wrote emails and articles through experience, WE SHOULD LEARN FROM THEM.

When Singhs went to the recent smagam, the elder gurisikhs were telling the singhs and bibia of these problems coming in to the youth, yet we carry on until we get in to the mess but be aware not every one is lucky to have the right sangat around them to advice them about this disease.

Please this is a benti to all the gursikhs, get off msn. Stop the texting and spend those seconds doing mool mantar da jaap. Stop chatting freely with the opposite gender, as this will get us in a lot of problems as shown above. When you do have to speak to a bibi then always recite the word penji and speak little, carry on reciting naam. If we are serious with our sikhi then follow these guides, if not then may mahraj protect you. There have been many articles please read them and bring them in to your lives and jeevan, practice them.

If daas has said anything wrong or done a mistake by telling others about these experiences then daas asks for forgiveness, but these are live examples for the people that argued about these points. Daas will not post again on this issue, unless in maharsj hukam but every one knows what is right and wrong. May mahraj do kirpa on all of us and protect us! Don’t turn around and say Mahraj didn’t tell us, because these posts and articles also come to mind because of Mahrajs Hukam, he knows all! He loves us a lot but only a few will realise this!

Waheguroo ji ka khalsa, waheguroo ji ki fathe!

[god is great]

EXCELLENT POST VEERJI!I ALSO THINK IT SHOULD BE EMAILED AROUND!!

[One Man Army]

the situations getting to that level, that even on alot of amrit sanchaars, the Panj piareh are bringing it up as an issue, and giving some sort of rehit to keep away from such items, where males and females can have such type of contact.

[khalistan_zindabaad]

i congratulate pwalaa for an excellent post. . . keep it up. but lets have them panthic and ekta based

thanks again

[Balwinder Singh]

we should contact microsoft.

[Bored]

we should contact microsoft.

wat will that do?

[Guest Bass Singh]

VJKK VJKF

This Article has been added to www.sikhsoul.com aswell!!!

It is a excellent Article which tells us the reality of how things are!!!

guru Jis Kirpa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

VJKK VJKF!

[Akaali]

we should contact microsoft.

If you get a hold of me I will tell you something similar. :nihungsmile:

[davindervirk]

how old is bibi and singh?

[BABBAR KHALISTANI]

I would advise youngsters to visit punjab and follow the lifestyle ....how mingling freely wiv opposite sex is considered bad. Here is western society gursikhs have are also western and hence obviously problems have to be typical of western kind. I found really wierd when i saw gursikh bibiaan's profiles posted on hi5.

Gursikhs should try and follow the footsteps of our puratan gursikhs who did not have such distractions in their lives ....and such gursikhs are here also in u.k.