Beadbi! Racist Attacks! Grooming For Sex!

[Medallion Stallion]

like i said...........well men who do 'bad' things havent got a leg to stand on to argue BUT what about guys who dont smoke, drink etc how do you think it makes them feel........................plus of most these 'sikh' women spit in your face if you say anything to them so the solution is for sikh women to support other sikh women.

i guess we sikh women who dont drink sleep around feel the same when we are attached to this label the same as you guys...........take me for example.............i dress very unconventionally..............people may say shes fashionable or she luks like a <admin-profanity filter activated> but unless the know me, speak to me, im being simply judged on my looks and appearance..........witch in my eyes is wrong.........maybe appraoching she types of women is wrong but by showing our society as being tolerant and supportive maybe these girls would realise that "yeah there is a place i can go to speak to someone about it" rather than thinking im gonna be judged and persectuted..............maybe some of these girls are too frightened to deal witht the consequences of their actions bcos of fear of how they will be treated afterwards so they continue on this path of destruction............if we show we are willing to understand we can bring our women back off this path and get them on the straight and narrow.....

again this is just what i think but i know in reality this is much harder to achieve............. :umm:

I agree with you people can go off the rails and i know this may sound like a bit of a cliché but the only thing that will bring them back is their Guru............we may judge these people even sometimes unintentionally or even out of anger and we may even abandon them because of our own weakenesses but their Guru will never abandon them...........thats what they need to be taught but it shouldnt be used as excuse to do anything you want................just my humble opinion.

[wjkk wjkf]

i think we're kinda goin in circles here, you guys are all talkin sense but you're chattin bout the problems.......does anyone have a solid answer?

[Medallion Stallion]

i have a solid answer:

K!LL the people who target our brothers and sisters!!!!!!!!!!

[wjkk wjkf]

lol i mean a REAL answer :umm:

[Medallion Stallion]

Real Answer:

Its gonna take a very long time even a generation to sort out our problems i.e. to undo what the elders have done.............look at what they did the fathers who first came to England cut off their hair........from that moment onwards their sikhi died........only the young who know a thing or two about sikhi can save it.

[Guest Papi]

this thread has a bunch of people finger pointing at others, kadi apna haal dekhia? :ysad:

[rupinder singh]

this thread has a bunch of people finger pointing at others, kadi apna haal dekhia? :ysad:

i am the best finger pointer in the whole of the JUUKAY! it's all uncles jis fault, damn those olden men

[JustME]

Real Answer:

Its gonna take a very long time even a generation to sort out our problems i.e. to undo what the elders have done.............look at what they did the fathers who first came to England cut off their hair........from that moment onwards their sikhi died........only the young who know a thing or two about sikhi can save it.

a very good comment.................our sikhi is slowing dying as the generations progress........only our generation, you right instead of finger pointing shud begin to take steps to undo the damage that has been done..............only we as a community can do it................if Guru Nanak, can give birth to sikhi then surly the few who still value their sikhi can help brings todays generation back to how it was..................

also just my humble opinion...........bhul chuk maaf

JustME

xx

[wjkk wjkf]

Real Answer:

Its gonna take a very long time even a generation to sort out our problems i.e. to undo what the elders have done.............look at what they did the fathers who first came to England cut off their hair........from that moment onwards their sikhi died........only the young who know a thing or two about sikhi can save it.

a very good comment.................our sikhi is slowing dying as the generations progress........only our generation, you right instead of finger pointing shud begin to take steps to undo the damage that has been done..............only we as a community can do it................if Guru Nanak, can give birth to sikhi then surly the few who still value their sikhi can help brings todays generation back to how it was..................

also just my humble opinion...........bhul chuk maaf

JustME

leh i get all that all i'm askin is if anyone has an actual plan to change things...we know we gotta change things I'm askin if anyone is willing? You know like makin leaflets, parchaar at gurudware - i know some gurudware have monthly talks to the youth in english about this kinda stuff...how bout that?

xx

[Medallion Stallion]

we are our own worst enemies!

first: need to sort out gurdwaras, personally think that women need to run it more.

Second: need to reach out to youngsters..........make the gurdwara more open to youth. not just a place for elders to scorn everyone.

Third: nobody can destroy sikhi, in 1984 an whole indian army couldnt destroy our Guru Maharaj, their ancestors couldnt do it............what makes you think these people with half of thier d!cks cut off are gonna destroy it! NO CHANCE