Facial Hair

[Guest concerened]

Its me again from the Hormonal balances and hair thread, and i just wanted to say that my m8 is really distraught, surrely there must be some other reasons for facial hair

[Bored]

wats the deal with this post

[lowest of the low singhni]

vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh

You're right, there is another reason.

It's Hukam.

~l~

vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh

[Guest Gupt Singhni]

Ask her the following questions:

Who does she love more; Maya or Guru Sahib.

What does she love more; her sikhi or beauty.

[Guest Guest]

I agree with the above posts. I have not read the other thread, but just go to your doctors. It could be medical or it actually might just be that you are suppose to have that much hair. Also its probably not as bad as she thinks. People who care to much about beauty and looks notice it more. I actually think having no hair on the face looks horrible. It looks so nice to see some hair on the face. Tell your friend if she worries too much about it she might actually disrupt her hormones hence making her hair grow more and more noticable. Does she know you are writing on here? If yes, why does she not ask?

I did some research for you and sometimes you can make too much cortisol, which is released when you are stressed, so tell your friend not to worry too much about it. I think there are specialists in the field called trichologists. Look it up in the internet. Hope it was helpful.

Like someone said..........it's hukam! hope she has piece of mind soon. Get her to strengthen her character by reciting more bani and japping naam.

[B4ND4]

What does she love more; her sikhi or beauty.

Beauty comes with SIKHI

[Guest Papi]

if its bothering her THAT much, tell her to go ahead and get them removed.

[akaur93]

fathe ji ,

i agree with everyone else but ther is also a condition that sum ppl have. u gt the condition from ur father n its called polycystic ovaries sydrome. u have facial hair, u can put on alot of weight n uther symptoms.

tell ur frend to ask her docotor. - http://www.permanente.net/homepage/kaiser/pdf/30114.pdf go on this websute for more information.

fathe ji

[Guest Gupt Singhni]

So you guys don't mind if she will commit a cardinal sin and would have to endure punishments in her afterlife.

[CaptainC]

Only one person said something that stupid............Papi

Penji she has to get checked out for PCOS because if she gets treated for that much of her excessive hair growth will go along side saving her from many problems in the future. If your the same penji who posted a while back and a whole 2 page discussion came up with PCOS stamped all over it, please make sure she has been checked out and if she does have the problem then sort it out and she will have to be patient and wait.

Naam simran, Baani and courage from people in her surrounding atmosphere is the only thing which will make her stronger. If she not have that sangat to support her then sikh ithihaas and baani is the only other thing which will strengthen her. Tell her to read as much Sikh history as possible and read about those countless amount of Singh Singhniyaan who sacrificed their families and own lives but never let their Sikhi slip. Our priceless rich history is powerful enough to make others embrace Sikhi and so how can it not give those who are falling strength ?

I would not recommend her to remove her hair at all as its the biggest paap an amridhari can do.

This situation can leed to major depression but no good being depressed if you havent looked into any other causes for the hair growth. Many women to opt for Lazer hair removal but you know what, it all comes back! isnt that just a slap on the face? just another way of Maharaj telling us that its ment to be there?

you will probably hair again and again to jus recite more Baani and you will get stronger and in many cases that advice will be looked at and though tof "oh they always say that, that aint no help is it". Reality is that it IS the BIGGEST help and ask those who took the advice and did it.

Whether she wants to remove her facial or keep it, its up to her but always remember that it will be the biggest mistake she would have made whether she feels it is or not at one point, may it be after death, she will!

pauVI ]

pourree ||

Pauree:

vwhu vwhu isrjxhwr pweIAnu TwiF Awip ]

vaahu vaahu sirajanehaar paaeean t(h)aadt aap ||

Waaho! Waaho! The Creator Lord Himself has brought about peace and tranquility.

jIA jMq imhrvwnu iqs no sdw jwip ]

jeea ja(n)th miharavaan this no sadhaa jaap ||

He is Kind to all beings and creatures; meditate forever on Him.

dieAw DwrI smriQ cuky ibl iblwp ]

dhaeiaa dhhaaree samarathh chukae bil bilaap ||

The all-powerful Lord has shown Mercy, and my cries of suffering are ended.

nTy qwp duK rog pUry gur pRqwip ]

nat(h)ae thaap dhukh rog poorae gur prathaap ||

My fevers, pains and diseases are gone, by the Grace of the Perfect Guru.

kIqIAnu AwpxI rK grIb invwij Qwip ]

keetheean aapanee rakh gareeb nivaaj thhaap ||

The Lord has established me, and protected me; He is the Cherisher of the poor.

Awpy lieAnu Cfwie bMDn sgl kwip ]

aapae laeian shhaddaae ba(n)dhhan sagal kaap ||

He Himself has delivered me, breaking all my bonds.

iqsn buJI Aws puMnI mn sMqoiK DRwip ]

thisan bujhee aas pu(n)nee man sa(n)thokh dhhraap ||

My thirst is quenched, my hopes are fulfilled, and my mind is contented and satisfied.

vfI hUM vfw Apwr Ksmu ijsu lypu n puMin pwip ]13]

vaddee hoo(n) vaddaa apaar khasam jis laep n pu(n)n paap ||13||

The greatest of the great, the Infinite Lord and Master - He is not affected by virtue and vice. ||13||

thought ide give my 2 centzz worth

please forgive me if i have offended anyonee!!

P.S, tell her not to read magazines, as in girlie magazines as statistics say within 2 mins of reading a magazine a girl will be 70% more depressed than she normal