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1stly nufink rong with moneh, i got wicked moneh bredrins who are actually wicked amazin people!

1stly if u dnt chat2 moneh y though? cuz they cut their hair?

IF YOU DONT SEE GOD IN EVERYONE U DONT SEE GOD AT ALL!

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I am a Amritdhari. Is it okay to make Monays as friends.

This very Kaamaaee Waley Mahapurash said where ever a Negura (non-amritdhari) goes even the land and surrounding water gets filthy and dirty.

My advice is dont worry about others and concentrate on yourself on becoming a better sikh :TH:

Monays are cool not everybody is bad just because a sikh is cutting their it doesnt give us the right to jump to conclusions about what type of person they are.................i 'look' like a amritdhari i.e. beard an turban but its no indication on how i am on the inside (btw im a good person lol) anyway same goes for monay sikhs they may not 'look' a sikh BUT they may not just be ready to adopt Guru Ji's uniform if you get me.................EVERYBODY is at a different stage regarding sikhi so let them get there in their own time

what YOU should do is offer guidance and support..............you are not here to judge remember you took amrit and now belong to Guru Ji :TH:

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As an Amritdhari, I would have to say that unfortunately I have seen more general bad character - cheating, lying, bad feeling, pride, stealing etc within the Amritdhari community than within my non-religious group of friends.

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You are all entitled to your opinions but PLEASE lets NOT start generalising all it leads to is hate, anger and resentment.

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Would you think less of a surgeon, who operated and saved a member of your families life, because he was a mona?

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If a Monah had any respect for Sikhi, he or she would be in Sikhi Saroop. Double standards.

Those great Gursikhs never gave up Sikhi, inspite of being cut limb by limb and tortured by the Mughals.

These Monay say we have to cut our hair otherwise we won't get a job or be dissed on the street etc

And stop being over protective over these Monay, because of this attitude already over 80% of our so called Sikh youth in Punjab don't support Kes.

Look at the western hemisphere there's hardly a Sikh left, who have after leaving school or college still has his/her Kes intact.

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oh yes... and ur all Brahm Gyanee's right? HA...

Gurbani also says we are all manmukhs... every single one of us... yes, the sangat around you DOES make a difference... that doesn't mean that all monay are bad...

and trust me, NOT all "amritdharees" are good sangat either...

its amazin how amritdharee's like to put themselves on a 'pedastool' and think they're better then others...

MANY of us were once monay... and if it hadn't been for the Gursikh sangat we had around us, most'a us wouldn't have even pursued the path of Sikhi.. so why turn ur back to ur monay brothers n sisters now?... tha's selfish...

by staying away from them ur nah proving anything... in fact, that cud be seen as a sign of EGO... why not take the opportunity to spread the Guru's message... who knows, maybe they might decide to follow the path... we can only do that through love... we're all still learners.. nobody is better then nebody else.. realise this first...

yes, stay away from BAD sangat... but bad sangat aint limited to "monay"... i know many so called "amritdharee" singhs and bibian who are not the greatest sangat...

so before ne of u people start sayin 'stay away from monay, they're bad'... why nah read and contemplate bani... find the REAL message... rather then copyin n pasting from sikhi to the max... because at the end of the day.. we are ALL manmukhs...

LOVE ONE, LOVE ALL!! GURU IS LOVE!!

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If you are not going to consider monay as sikhs then you as well not consider sikhs who commit sins in general. If a sikh drinks, then he/she is not a sikh. if a sikh speaks with pride and ego, then he/she not a sikh. if a sikh threats to kill someone, then he/she isn't a sikh. I can keep going on and on.

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