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Its different here in Canada. Sikh girls run away from guys :wub: i dunno why.. we once went to a store and there was this apni bibi. we were like 5 guys and on seeing us she went to the other side of the store.

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hmmm i wouldnt go up to a random singhnee walkin down the street and just start a convo, because she may misinterpret it in the wrong way and think why is this random singh coming up to me and chatting to me.

Some singhnees may not like that. Others may not be bothered. Infact even if i saw another random singh walking down the street it would be the same

I see your point tho, next time i see a singh/singhnee whom i dont know, i will make an effort to approach them and discuss something lol

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I dunno if this happens to anyone else though - sikh guys don't talk to u though. I think they get embarassed at seeing a sikh girl or something...anyone else experienced that??? :wub:

Yes!

Nah I mean it as a serious issue. Like when muslims thought I was muslim they were so nice......even the guys....but like I have been watching our sikh people and they don't have that same community feeling...I sometimes get the feeling the guy is like oh there's a sikh girl...how do I act....do I say hi....omg.....lets just cross the road...what will people tink...and they make it out to be AWKWARD when it should be like its not a big deal that you also wear a dastaar tooo.....

yea i get u esp. down green street so many sikhs but with cut hair and big khanda wen i nod my head to say hello they ignore me only the singhs on some of the stands who sell goods say hello.........................its like people are ashamed to be even seen with you or somthing............or maybe its just me..............

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Its different here in Canada. Sikh girls run away from guys :wub: i dunno why.. we once went to a store and there was this apni bibi. we were like 5 guys and on seeing us she went to the other side of the store.

Really? Sikh girls are cool here in Canada. They don't run away from me, but they do have staring problems though. :D

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sitrgirl...thats really bad, but to me it seems like you are making a lot of persumptions. I dont see why any singh would treat you differently/loook down on you/feel uncomfortable because you are wearing a dastaar. I think it looks really good on singhnees and im so happy that more and more are choosing to wear them now. i wish all would.

Its prob more to do with shyness maybe in the instances you've highlighted. Or maybe they are just brought up to think that its not ok to go start chatting to random girls. if it is really bothering you, take the initiative and greet singhs you see and start a convo.

im sorry if i have said anything wrong or offended any1

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