Bullying

[Guest sady]

Bullying

If im geting bullied, is it because i derserve it? :sady: Is is down to me, because im weak? :sady: Even when i've done nothing wrong? :sady: my karam , my life :sady:

[Guest Guest]

No, it is because you do not stand up for yourself and perceived as an easy target by others. Stand up for yourself.

[Guest -MusicBaba-]

Sorry for sounding harsh but [Do not let yourself be bullied]. There's always something you can do to reverse the situation.

- Tell parents

- Tell teachers

- Tell the bullies parents

- Violence (.. it worked for me however I wouldnt suggest it. The anger built up and I went crazy. Teachers supported me due to my good school record and everyone else got shook up.)

- Direct solid request to those bullying to stop it and you have had enough. Sometimes a direct appeal makes the person think.

Hope one of these will help you out.

[SATORi]

Bullying

If im geting bullied, is it because i derserve it? :sady: Is is down to me, because im weak? :sady: Even when i've done nothing wrong? :sady: my karam , my life :sady:

You are thinking too far ahead. If I'd say anything right now, I'd say, because you chose to be. You have to explain situations which you get into. How are you being bullied? Verbal/Physical/Emotional? Where are you being bullied, and for what reasons do you think you are getting bullied?

Don't think too much about this. Many people have gone through it and the way I see it as, it's experience, a learning curve. Believe it or not, but bullying helps to strengthen and increase confidence in oneself, ofcourse they are others but these two are the most common ones.

However, bullying is also not good, it can be taken to extreme extents if it's prolonged and should be taken care of as soon as possible. This is why we need to know in which situation you are currently entangled in so that we may advise you what to do.

BTW: You got to remember that it can get darn serious, so put your self in a good situation by consulting people around you to help you whatsoever. Some guy over the internet on the other side of a PC can't do anything for you, only give advise on how to deal with the situation.

Regards,

[immortal57]

Bullying

If im geting bullied, is it because i derserve it? :sady: Is is down to me, because im weak? :sady: Even when i've done nothing wrong? :sady: my karam , my life :sady:

tell someone

a teacher, a parent, a close mate, someone who can actually do something to make a difference

[buddasingh]

you do not deserve it. where are you? age, city, country? Unless you are doing something about it locally, I want you to pm me. I deserve your pm with age, city and country for reading this and replying. If you can give more details please do.

i don't have a private jet, but the internet, telephone travel faster, and a few helpful bros/sis should be able to get you the backing you DESERVE. The backing will be in a form that you are OK with.

[THE WARRIOR]

A good slap (I meant for the bully, not you) :nihungsmile:

[Guest _jassa_]

in which city u are ???

[jassa]

in which city ur little brother !!!! if u are serious about being bullied not just at school level but from ur life ... just come forward and let me know

[AvnitK]

stand up for urself my friend

if u don't then they are going to bully u more

i used to be like u when i was in middle school

I learned by myself to stand up the bullies

and now nobody says anything to me so

god be with you ansd take care :lol: