Marrying A Girl From India

[london001]

Does anyone know the best way to find a suitable girl in India for marriage? I know the family / friend route is most common. For example a relative back in India knows of a family who are keen to see their daughter married and so arranges a ristha.

However I don't have much family in India and those who still live there don't know any girls so I have to find someone myself. What would be the best way to find a girl outside the family route? I heard adverts in newspapers were common place.... can someone tell me which newspapers are used or how one should go about placing such an advert. Plus this carries a massive risk = not knowing anythingabout the girl's family or her upbringing.

[Amrit79]

From my view try your place first........try hard !!!

Use India as a last option

Many times you see girls in India seem nice and every thing but you late find out that it was just a big like to get out of the country

My mamma G's son got married to a very gur Sikh girl in India when she came to Canada it all changed.. She cut her hair and every thing !! In the end leading to divorce

[london001]

Hello Amrit,

I and my family are trying to find someone from here but it is hard. Most girls I am introduced have different aims in life to me - i.e career, friends, money. I am more interested in family and less so in money.

[jalandharsingh]

Be very careful in India, the youths (including girls) are more westernised than us in the UK. I know of several cases where they have used UK boys to get into the UK, getting their indefinite stay stamp and then divorcing to get their old boyfriend from Punjab over. Punjabi boys also do likewise.

They will present you with a picture of being very humble and kind till after meeting the home office requirement they get that indefinite leave stamp. I know of cases where they have even ditched their young kids just so they could get their old boyfriends over.

[Jag_Singh]

london jee why are you so scared?

Jaw mange takhur se, sio sio devvhe

YOU CAN ASK FOR WHATEVER YOU WANT, DHAN DHAN MAHARAAJ WILL BLESS YOU WITH IT. WHATEVERRRRRRR

I'm sorry If I offened you, but you got to listen to me Bhaji.

You can truly ask for anything you want jee, anything. To Vaheguru this whole world is nothing. So for you to even think/doubt that finding a gursikh bibi is hard, then all you are doing is drawing negativity my friend.

Believe me when I say this, forget everything, forget this world even exists, forget your family, forget EVERYTHING. Just go to your local gurudwara and do a plee(ardaas), beg, beg, ohhhh beg for a gursikh bibi, keep begging, beg like you've never begged anyone before, beg for a gursikh bibi at maharaaj's charan(feet). GO for it bhaji, I believe in you man.

Vaheguru Ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh

[Khaalis]

There are many shaheed Singhs daughters who have been forgotten about in India, as well as 'abandoned' girls (as babies - abandoned rather than murdered) who have been raised in Sikh orphanages and are Gurmukh through to the core - those who are open minded enough to marry a girl from India and want to perform an invaluable seva to the Panth also - should follow this route i.e. marrying these forgotten Gur-Sikhniyan - you don't have to worry about the above mentioned problems either - these Bibiyan are immaculate, inside and out.

Please, please consider this option.

Thanks.

[sikhizindabad]

There are many shaheed Singhs daughters who have been forgotten about in India, as well as 'abandoned' girls (as babies - abandoned rather than murdered) who have been raised in Sikh orphanages and are Gurmukh through to the core - those who are open minded enough to marry a girl from India and want to perform an invaluable seva to the Panth also - should follow this route i.e. marrying these forgotten Gur-Sikhniyan - you don't have to worry about the above mentioned problems either - these Bibiyan are immaculate, inside and out.

Please, please consider this option.

Thanks.

Very very well said. That’s the best thing that the Sikhs boys in west can try to help out the hurt souls & kuam

If the girls in these orpnage have done graduation in science ( any subject). They have done wonders in achievement under the circumstances,.

I am sure these girls will achieve good career in west too. Picking up local accent & frequency matching will not be problem.

[Jaspaul Singh]

london jee why are you so scared?

Jaw mange takhur se, sio sio devvhe

YOU CAN ASK FOR WHATEVER YOU WANT, DHAN DHAN MAHARAAJ WILL BLESS YOU WITH IT. WHATEVERRRRRRR

I'm sorry If I offened you, but you got to listen to me Bhaji.

You can truly ask for anything you want jee, anything. To Vaheguru this whole world is nothing. So for you to even think/doubt that finding a gursikh bibi is hard, then all you are doing is drawing negativity my friend.

Believe me when I say this, forget everything, forget this world even exists, forget your family, forget EVERYTHING. Just go to your local gurudwara and do a plee(ardaas), beg, beg, ohhhh beg for a gursikh bibi, keep begging, beg like you've never begged anyone before, beg for a gursikh bibi at maharaaj's charan(feet). GO for it bhaji, I believe in you man.

Vaheguru Ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh

Veerai, pyari benti, please quote gurbani tuks correctly.

jo maagehi thaakur apunae thae soee soee dhaevai

[Amrit79]

You make it all sound to easy .....

Really is it that easy

[Jag_Singh]

Jaw mange takhur se, sio sio devvhe

Veerai, pyari benti, please quote gurbani tuks correctly.

jo maagehi thaakur apunae thae soee soee dhaevai

Fateh jee

Bhaji, Just to confirm, I seriously didn't think of that line as gurbani. I thought of it as a just simply a line. I would of quoted gurbani correctly with page number, in gurmukhi etc. I regard bani too high to post it here jee. although it may sound similar, its not. To me, even if one letter of the gurbani is altered it's not gurbani. Believe me when I say I had no intention to misquote dhan dhan maharaaj's bani.

But thanks for your concern jee, it means alot at the same time to see that there are gursikhs around this world who care about gurbani, dhan dhan gursikhooo.

Truly gratefull for this man.

bhul chul maaf jee

vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh