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I'am a Keshdhari Sikh, looking to take amrit soon . However recently i was at the end of some racial abuse on a bus. A few white youths (chavs) made some remarks about my dastaar. Upon hearing all this abuse i lost my sense of control and attacked the youths. I didnt use my sarbloh kara or any weapon just my hands, elbows and knees. A few passengers tried to hold me back, but my sheer rush of andrenaline was enough to push them away and i continued attacking these chavs until i got kicked off the bus. Ever since this incident, i have been lablled a psycho by my friends. Sangat jee what can i do to replinsh these sins i have committed?

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Now, these people who made racist remarks, just want to make you angry. You should of told them nicely ' It would be nice, if you could stop making prejudice/ racist remarks...' control you temper.

Paaji my reply was more like "What f***k did you say?" as i approached them. However if i did say what you said it would just make the situation worse, infact it would just infuriate me more.

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vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh

What's making you think you committed a sin? Is it because of what your friends are saying?

Don't be too harsh on yourself. We all lose our self-control sometimes in different ways. The best thing to do would be to do Ardas to Guru Ji asking to keep you on His path and for forgiveness if you think you need it.

vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh

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Guru fateh!

Don't take tension.U have done mistake by lossing temper.But every human being does mistakes.Guru ji da age patha karke ardaas karo sabha thik ho jayega.Guru ji tavahnu rasta(way) dikhanyanga.

But plz don't repeat the same mistake again.Control u'r anger read gurbani,try to understand it & follow it,do simran,do sewa.

When u'r friends call u smth bad then just ignore the bad don't loose u'r temper have patience.See good.

Don't complain about others.If u want peace change u'r self.

Bul chuk mafa!

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Im glad we finally have someone who stood up for themselve and their own beliefs.

Good on Singh (im sure im gonna get alot of people having a go at me now... but ive grown to get used to it).

It doesnt matter what your friends say. You did what you needed to do, and now i doubt these chavs will be saying anything again.

Listen to bani, further your Sikhi.

Well done again.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa

Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!

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You can still stand up for your self without karodh.... Just whoop them in a calm fashion if they draw the line.........

Dont have a bad reputation. People can label you what ever they want if its not true but if they call you crazy they might me correct. Let them call you names but when you label yourself then thats your fault.

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