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I dont know if its just my eyes but that dhari does not look real! If it is then..... :faint:

good for her...im glad she has the strength and wish her all the best...but my opinion is based on the fact a line between two genders is being broken

A line has defientely been broken...I can't really expand any more than that. This level of facial hair on women is extremely abnormal. She should be allowed to sort this out...she should sort this out!

See now treatment is an altogether different issue. What we're adoring her for is the fact that she is keeping Guru Sahib's roop. Nonetheless, any sort of removal of kes is beadbi.

I understand this 100% Veer Ji but seeing as women arent supposed to have such excessive facial hair its grown abnormally, she doesnt really have any mouchan and an overly prominent dhari...does this remind you of a particular style favoured by another community?? Wouldnt say it looks entirely like "Guru Sahibs Roop"

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Why should she sort it out?

Because we as a society have set a norm???! This has been happening for generations! The era of armpit hair, chest/leg hair etx. It will continue to happen, tomorrow people will say hair is bad fullstop and we should all go bald!! THEN WHAT???

I dont think its a norm. I dont know of any civilisation where women had a dhari!

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I was speaking to senior gurmukh regarding excessive facial hair on female . Their first response is they should get it checked out for- hormone imblances. He said back in the puratan times, sikhs in general were more in touch with being healthy and more in touch with their body knowledge- chemical reaction so on and so forth (estrogen/testorene etc) and seek ayurveda treatment if required including bibiya with excessive facial hair. Now days we are quite obivilous with our body functions so much so any suggestion of getting treatment regarding improper hormone imbalances are consider against nature, going against guru's will. We turned guru maharaj into protestant version of wrathful vahiguroo just waiting with shastar on other side with countless jiv in que waiting for in turn to doom them into some narak khand.

Anyway, coming back to this particular case. This singhani shows strong character by not seeking the treatment. I would expect same strong character shown if someone does not wish to treat deformities in the body. i wish her well in long journey a head (real actual battle is inside of beating panj choors) and work towards milaap with vahiguroo.

Her strong character should go in history books but With that being said, we need to be extra careful we don't let someone hijack and turn this into - some maryada barometer or merit system thats the only and true way to show strong characters in Sikhi.

I have studied in christian school in calcutta. I know how exactly right wing mindset works. Most right wing do the same thing of all religions, they will speak staunchly against it but when it comes to personal life, they are first one to follow things which they are so staunchly against.

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Being a female I will give my opnion too. if she has no health condition, and she is ok and comfortable with, then why should it be a problem for anybody else?

Her life let her do what she wants. On one hand people are saying females should not do waxing this and that, and on the other saying she should get rid of it. Its got nothing to do with us, its her hair let her do what she wants with it. She is educated and Im sure her doctors would have discussed any health conditions with her.

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As a Singhni with a "beard" this whole thing strikes a nerve. I don't think that people realise the following two things; firstly, that we face ridicule every time we leave the house, and it's terribly difficult to stay strong. So to have unsupportive comments from within the panth is like getting kicked in the face. Secondly, treatment is not a simple option. As I've said before, the cause is not treated by medicine but the symptoms (excessive hair, being one of them) are targetted and thus reduced (IF you have an hormonal imbalance). So some of us would worry that this isn't in line with Gurmat. It's a hard battle but it centres around not wanting to upset our Guru.

I'm glad this whole situation was created. It's allowed me to see the views of the majority of Singhs. I can now pray wholeheartedly to Maharaj to find me somebody better than that.

He said back in the puratan times, sikhs in general were more in touch with being healthy and more in touch with their body knowledge- chemical reaction so on and so forth (estrogen/testorene etc) and seek ayurveda treatment if required including bibiya with excessive facial hair.

What does that mean?

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