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He would say okay missy, go back to left, right, centre, upwards, downwards, diagonally, horizontally, vertically and clean yourself up... and if i fail again its a wuick slap across the face and back to reality!!

Satisfied Daas? :p

You can make me laugh but do you think you can joke around with dharam raj?

Singh Ji you have too much nimrita that is why you are a true Sikh.That is if you read raag mala ;)!

LOL i like the way you wrote that - like I said I have rectified my mistakes from the past. Your nimrata exceeds my nimrata by an infinity times more :)

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LOL i like the way you wrote that - like I said I have rectified my mistakes from the past. Your nimrata exceeds my nimrata by an infinity times more :)

ham kookar thaerae dharabaar ||

You are like guru ji standing there because you are guru the Sikh.

I'm just a papi and you can help me because you are guru the Sikh.

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All l said was women to cover up more thats all. Wear clothing that is more respectful.

How about this a sikh girl says to her dad l am going out dad and she is wearing short skirt and tight top looks likes shes an easy target. Thats not respectful to your parents..... same thing women going to the gudwara its not respecful as guru ji is our teacher too...

I never said anything about hijab but if you like women in a hijab then thats fine. But bit more covered up would be nice not coming to the gudwara looking like slags.

In Amritsar do they allow that in the gudwara?? No they do not so why here then? Dirty slags coming into the gudwara half naked nasty!!

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I personally believe if you do not wear bana to guru ji's darbar then you should not go at all. I think guru ji will get angry with anyone who is not wearing bana in the same way he would if someone is wearing low cut tops, sleeveless suits, sarees suits, low cut suits on the back etc.

Satguru mehar karan and bless sangat with bana rehit

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Brother...I am sorry, but I need to say this. Please do not spread mis-information about our Guru Ji. Please do not make things up that you have absolutely no knowledge about. You said that Guru Ji will get angry with people not wearing Bana at the Gurdwara. Our Guru Ji is not some dictator who gets angry all the time. Think about this, really think about this. You really think that our loving Guru will actually get mad at a Gursikh for not wearing a certain type of clothing? I don't think that's the way things work. I honestly think that its all in your head. The impression that many youth have of our Guru is extremely warped. Our Guru is loving and practical. You really think Guru Ji cares about what kind of clothes you wear? (i'm not talking about suggestive clothing here). I think Guru cares about our love and the way we act to others...how much kindness you have in your heart etc.

Many youth seem to have this image of Guru Ji watching our every move, waiting for us to make mistakes, so he can angrily punish us. Our Guru is our friend. Please stop spreading mis-information on things you have no idea about on this forum that has many young impressionable Sikhs on here. Thank you

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Everybody just teach your sons and daughters to dress appropraitely at the Gurdwara. That's the least we can do and that's that!! No point going round in circles and arguing

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Mr singh l am speaking the truth. Sorry l hurt your feelings. Okay well in that case your saying it does not matter what women wear? So them wearing shorts to the gudwara is okay?

If we cant stop this now few years time it will be that bad! Think about the future not about now.

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If everyone wears bana then thats great! But in reality thats not happening. So i think bibis should wear simple full sleeve suits that cover them up properly and not flashy shiny bright suits, only khalsa colours. Its not such a problem with guys as long as they dont wear just vests

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