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To be fair Gujaratis also pursue money but they still respect their religion more I think.

Punjabi culture really is heavy on nasha.

When I went out clubbing in my younger days, the vast majority of fights were caused by drunk aggressive Punjabis, people who would call themselves Sikhs.

The Hindu Punjabis were not like this.

There is something really wrong in this 'Sikh' culture.

True.

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This Punjabi-ism taking over Sikhi is so true. Went to a Nagar Kirtan recently and I was quite close to the palki sahib but at some point someone was playing music so loud no one could heear the kirtan. Something about "punjabian di shaan vakhri" and the worst thing is that is wasnt supposed to be an ambush and yet it was just beadbi but they probably didn't even know. Punjabi-ism allows for so many things to be linked with Sikhi that are anti-Gurmat. For example someone was saying that the sign of a Sardar is "akhaan laal te mooh te gaal" ie drunk nd swearing all the time. Its just sick

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'innergear', on 05 Nov 2012 - 6:15 PM,

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The older women need to get off their fat backsides and man up to what is happening. No guy can say it women on women need to be representin

Spot on. Men should stay out of this issue without a doubt. Why? It will appear as if the men-folk are dictating how women should dress, i.e. an accusation levelled at Muslims about how they keep their women down apparently. It will give further credence to the inaccurate assertion that orthodox Sikhi is male dominated and controlled, with Sikh women have little or no say.

We all know our elder ladies aren't shrinking violets when it comes to speaking up, so they should sort this issue out amongst the ladies.

The girls that dress like when they go to the Gurdwara don't listen to their own mothers.

So why would they want to listen to some next aunty???

Many of these girls are highly rebellious. It's a trait which they have manifested, developed, and practised since childhood. As a result, they regularly got away with murder at home, due to the weakness of their parents.

They aren't about to see the error of their ways anyone soon now.

And they certainly don't appreciate being told what to do by older females.

Ironically, they are more likely to listen to a FIRM MALE. They respect men far more than they respect themselves. In fact, they live and die for men!!!

The parents of many of these girls have given up on them.

The only answer for "proclaimed offenders" like these is to be strict and refuse entry to the Gurdwara for those who cannot muster up the respect to at least dress modestly in front of the Guru.

You need a firm alpha male to lay down the law for these types; they simply don't respect anyone who respects them, because, fair enough, they know themselves that they're too dirty to be worthy of the respect (!!!), and can see straight through such "pleasing" behaviour as a lack of confidence, which they eat up.

Once this becomes a norm, s2appers will think twice before turning up to the Gurdwara dressed like a hoe, because no one wants to have to go back home and get changed.

And, just to make it absolutely clear; if they can't respect Guru Ji; they CAN go straight to the wedding party.

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We are not fanatical muslims- my grandma shows a whole lot of arm and my aunt wears low cut suits to the gurwarra (she is in her 60's). Id like to see someone tell her to cover up, she'd beat the crap out of u!

But remaining lowest of the low, to live at others feet is.

ROTFL.... LMFAO!!!! :lol2: :lol2: :lol2:

This reminds me of a Punjabi Comedy, one of many directed/produced by the legendary Gurchet Chitarkar, who always focuses on dysfunctional families.

This one is FAMILY KHUSREYAN DEE.....!!!! :biggrin2: :biggrin2: :biggrin2:

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So you bend over to give your respects and your tits are haning out.. thats okay?

Benji, your post is quite amusing.

So your 60 year old aunt gets her jugs out in the Gurdwara, - koi sharam nahi?

On one hand you say we should kill the ego and on the other your aunt would beat the crap out of u, what about her ego? why you think people wipe and clear sangats shoes ? clean the toilets?

LMAO!!!!

Yes, truly "PUNJABIYAN DEE SHAAN VAKHRI"! :biggrin2:

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The girls that dress like s2uts when they go to the Gurdwara don't listen to their own mothers.

So why would they want to listen to some next aunty???

Many of these girls are highly rebellious. It's a trait which they have manifested, developed, and practised since childhood. As a result, they regularly got away with murder at home, due to the weakness of their parents.

They aren't about to see the error of their ways anyone soon now.

And they certainly don't appreciate being told what to do by older females.

Ironically, they are more likely to listen to a FIRM MALE. They respect men far more than they respect themselves. In fact, they live and die for men!!!

The parents of many of these girls have given up on them.

The only answer for "proclaimed offenders" like these is to be strict and refuse entry to the Gurdwara for those who cannot muster up the respect to at least dress modestly in front of the Guru.

You need a firm alpha male to lay down the law for these types; they simply don't respect anyone who respects them, because, fair enough, they know themselves that they're too dirty to be worthy of the respect (!!!), and can see straight through such "pleasing" behaviour as a lack of confidence, which they eat up.

Once this becomes a norm, s2appers will think twice before turning up to the Gurdwara dressed like a hoe, because no one wants to have to go back home and get changed.

And, just to make it absolutely clear; if they can't respect Guru Ji; they CAN go straight to the wedding party.

The girls that dress like s2uts when they go to the Gurdwara don't listen to their own mothers.

So why would they want to listen to some next aunty???

Many of these girls are highly rebellious. It's a trait which they have manifested, developed, and practised since childhood. As a result, they regularly got away with murder at home, due to the weakness of their parents.

They aren't about to see the error of their ways anyone soon now.

And they certainly don't appreciate being told what to do by older females.

Ironically, they are more likely to listen to a FIRM MALE. They respect men far more than they respect themselves. In fact, they live and die for men!!!

The parents of many of these girls have given up on them.

The only answer for "proclaimed offenders" like these is to be strict and refuse entry to the Gurdwara for those who cannot muster up the respect to at least dress modestly in front of the Guru.

You need a firm alpha male to lay down the law for these types; they simply don't respect anyone who respects them, because, fair enough, they know themselves that they're too dirty to be worthy of the respect (!!!), and can see straight through such "pleasing" behaviour as a lack of confidence, which they eat up.

Once this becomes a norm, s2appers will think twice before turning up to the Gurdwara dressed like a hoe, because no one wants to have to go back home and get changed.

And, just to make it absolutely clear; if they can't respect Guru Ji; they CAN go straight to the wedding party.

How uncouth you are. maybe it is you who needs a "FIRM MALE" .

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