'surjit Has Brought Shame On Us. We Must Get Rid Of Her'

[Jonny101]

Raising their children the Sikh way? Stupid punjabis?

The mother in law was a full on Sikh. She was even respected by the Sikh elders.

You can't be a "full on Sikh" if you murder someone. She's as much of a "full on Sikh" as Jagir Kaur who used to do beadbi of roms on her face and kill her daughter. Such people are Bhekhi Sikhs. Plenty of them out there. Also, I don't understand why some of you are so hung up on to her appearance I know dozens of non religious Punjabi women who also abuse their daughter in Laws, that doesn't mean all regular Punjabi women are evil. This sadly is just the nature of a lot of women. MILs and DILs cannot get along with each other. Religion has nothing to do with it.

As for the article, I think it is an excerpt from the book of the surviving daughter in Law. While I sympathize with her and what she went through, but I think some parts are probably added by the editors or co writers of the book. Because no woman who is born and raised in Punjab would say some things like it is against the Rehit maryadha to go against the family or that it is a Sikh tradition to sleep with your elders. Because a women who is born and raised in Punjab knows this is not a Sikh tradition. This is something that a western person of non Punjabi background would say or should I say would have added into this piece of writing to make it sound more interesting and sensationalized for the western reader.

[Singh559]

Bro if the ghost writers version (book) has been printed it's already out there but we can contact the publishers and offer sister Sarbjit our support rather than attacking her for what the ghost writer has sensationalized against Sikhi

I agree, but who is the ghost writer? We should support and make it clear this isn't Sikh supported.

[isingh1699]

I agree, but who is the ghost writer? We should support and make it clear this isn't Sikh supported.

That's the thing Veerji, ghost writers are anonymous professional writers. My guess is some dude who is a journalist for the paper. Best way to get our feelings heard is by finding out the publishers and contacting them. If we do it early enough we could get revisions printed but it might be too late and only happen in the 2nd edition.

[GPS]

This is story of children with low moral values and looking down upon ethical values of our system.

Even though they have been brought up in sikh households they seem to pretend to be unaware

of sikh culture and want to copy gutter habits of western culture.

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[Deletedkp]

This is story of children with low moral values and looking down upon ethical values of our system.

Even though they have been brought up in sikh households they seem to pretend to be unaware

of sikh culture and want to copy gutter habits of western culture

they seem to pretend to be unaware of sikh culture and want to copy gutter habits of western culture?

First GPS ji, Sikh culture? There's is no such thing as Sikh culture. Sikh faith is a philosophy to reach enlightenment and to be one with God.

Culture is no part of this philosophy. This has nothing to do with cultures but a women who is more interested in what others are going to think and going to the extremes to justify her way of thinking. You can call this Punjabi culture or any other culture but western culture this is not.

[Deletedkp]

K.Phull Ji The mother in law is NOT Sikh. Murderers of innocent people don't get any respect from Sikhs and are never classed as Sikh just because they try to keep a disguise externally like Beanta + this evil murdered. If the ghost writer of the book says something that she was respected it doesn't mean it's true.

Ur totally right Neo Veerji. She is a dog. She isn't Sikh and has dragged the reputation of the Panth down via her evil actions so she has to be condemned more than people like Neeru Bajwa etc.

isingh1699 ji, I apologise for the misunderstanding. This is not the Sikh way, this has nothing to do with the Sikh way of life. This is a lot to blame on family cultures that have been passed on from family to family.

[N30S1NGH]

Every potential Amritdhari who wants to take amrit or already Amritdhari should go through small interview by panj pyares to probe- to find out where their loyalities lies and find out if they put their group (be it punjabi castism or any group) tribalism over khalsa panth or not and to make sure all the punjabi tribal garbage/controlling freak nature is out of their mindset before taking amrit.!!..panj pyares should also create pre amrit ritual (pre amrit which are now for kids) should be available to all- intitate first people to pre amrit and after certain period and test of mind and virtues then full khanda batta da amrit that should filter people like her and other potential murders.

[N30S1NGH]

She is a big stain on amritdhari community, are we going to be come up statements condemning her or we as panth would brush these type of people under carpret like we did in the past? If she is someone else(like muslim community) you guys be up in arms...lets be candid and honest about it and acknowledge there is a fascism (arrogance mixed with ego pride) in the panth and lets make attempts to clean it instead of living in denial.....!!

[Singh559]

She is a big stain on amritdhari community, are we going to be come up statements condemning her or we as panth would brush these type of people under carpret like we did in the past? If she is someone else you guys be up in arms...lets be candid and honest about it and acknowledge there is a fascism (arrogance mixed with ego pride) in the panth and lets make attempts to clean it instead of living in denial.....!!

Take lead, but just remember when it's someone else, it's because their religion is the backbone of their actions.

In this case, it is not. This is cultural.

[N30S1NGH]

I already mentioned - She should be excommunicated from the panth. Panth as in collective panth (UK Sikh Body) among other media needs to come up statements to condemn her to uphold khalsa values and to save image of sikhs..!! While others are more concerned about incorrect article rather than her. Sure bits of articles is incorrect but her actions should be part of the discussion first.