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20 hours ago, Ranjeet01 said:

Well, Poland is a fairly homogenous society where there are very few non-white people.

I recall of a few Sikh men that went to Norway and mentioned that blonde,nordic women went crazy over them because it was very rare to see a person of colour.

I suspect that a Sikh man/Punjabi male is seen as an "exotic" beauty by these women. 

 

Some people are easily impressed O_o

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It's easily understandable that some people would like a Singh for the exotic factor, but why would they, (The European Christians), go all the way to an actual wedding? If it was just the exotic factor, they would have left most likely after a few dates or whatnot? (Daas personally doesn't know why they would be willing to marry just for an exotic factor, adding to the fact most of the Sikhs doing this have weaker nationalities, then the Europeans, and probably since most of them are fresh of the boat, make considerably less than the those Europeans, and our religions aren't even the same, or even similar will they be teaching their kids Jesus Christ and Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Nanak Dev Ji?) If someone could answer that, (quite confusing why they would stay after a few dates, just for that exotic factor?)

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4 hours ago, StarStriker said:

Check this article and video out, it says 22,000 muslims have married out of their religion in uk, this was in 2012.

http://www.aljazeera.com/indepth/features/2012/12/2012122795639455824.html

 

What is interesting about this article is that it tends to be educated Muslim women that consider marrying non muslim men.

I think men and women marry for different reasons and Islam or no Islam, muslim women are still women and will marry for female reasons.

The more educated a woman is, the standard and caliber of partner will be far higher.

With these women, it seems the muslim male is not good enough for them.

 

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6 hours ago, Jacfsing2 said:

It's easily understandable that some people would like a Singh for the exotic factor, but why would they, (The European Christians), go all the way to an actual wedding? If it was just the exotic factor, they would have left most likely after a few dates or whatnot? (Daas personally doesn't know why they would be willing to marry just for an exotic factor, adding to the fact most of the Sikhs doing this have weaker nationalities, then the Europeans, and probably since most of them are fresh of the boat, make considerably less than the those Europeans, and our religions aren't even the same, or even similar will they be teaching their kids Jesus Christ and Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Nanak Dev Ji?) If someone could answer that, (quite confusing why they would stay after a few dates, just for that exotic factor?)

You are making the assumption that Europe is a Christian society, in fact with most Europeans it is a post Christian/ irreligious society.

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21 minutes ago, Ranjeet01 said:

You are making the assumption that Europe is a Christian society, in fact with most Europeans it is a post Christian/ irreligious society.

What about Eastern and Central Europeans? Everyone seems to know that Christianity has been in a decline in Western Europe ever since the rise of the Renaissance.

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4 hours ago, Ranjeet01 said:

What is interesting about this article is that it tends to be educated Muslim women that consider marrying non muslim men.

I think men and women marry for different reasons and Islam or no Islam, muslim women are still women and will marry for female reasons.

The more educated a woman is, the standard and caliber of partner will be far higher.

With these women, it seems the muslim male is not good enough for them.

 

Great point! Which is y, wen we dispair at wat is goin on in our kaum regarding marrying out of dharam, the 1 comforting thing i find is other communities r goin thru it too. No matter how much muslims try to deny this (esp that trouble making pak panjabi on this site), solutions will have to b found.

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5 hours ago, StarStriker said:

Great point! Which is y, wen we dispair at wat is goin on in our kaum regarding marrying out of dharam, the 1 comforting thing i find is other communities r goin thru it too. No matter how much muslims try to deny this (esp that trouble making pak panjabi on this site), solutions will have to b found.

Well there has been a narrative that has been pumped out for several decades of how Islam is the fastest religion so it drowns out other things that may be happening.

All that is happening is that as muslims interact with the mainstream society they will be affected by mainstream things just like everyone else.

At the end of the day, strip the Islam element and muslims are just people like the rest of us.

 

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