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How many parents ask their daughters who earn money to contribute to house expenses ?

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Personally as a young woman i always contribute to the household. It is a core value for me to contribute to the place youre living in... i dont think there is anything wrong with it my parents provided for me with much care and love so the fact that i pay towards the house is the least i could do for being born! :-)

 

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ਘਾਲਿ ਖਾਇ ਕਿਛੁ ਹਥਹੁ ਦੇਇ ॥ 

One who works for what he eats, and gives some of what he has

ਨਾਨਕ ਰਾਹੁ ਪਛਾਣਹਿ ਸੇਇ ॥੧॥ 

- O Nanak, he knows the Path. ||1||

 

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https://www.sikhitothemax.org/shabad?id=4480&q=GKkh&type=0&source=all

 

 

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1 hour ago, singhbj singh said:

ਘਾਲਿ ਖਾਇ ਕਿਛੁ ਹਥਹੁ ਦੇਇ ॥ 

One who works for what he eats, and gives some of what he has

ਨਾਨਕ ਰਾਹੁ ਪਛਾਣਹਿ ਸੇਇ ॥੧॥ 

- O Nanak, he knows the Path. ||1||

 

Read Full Shabad at

https://www.sikhitothemax.org/shabad?id=4480&q=GKkh&type=0&source=all

 

 

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Thanks Bro! 

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"45. Putaree da dhan bikh jananaa "

Guru Gobind Singh Ji 52 hukumnama

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On 19/09/2016 at 10:25 AM, singhbj singh said:

Bhein ji life is all about choices !

Bibi can either be homely or career oriented.

Problem starts when you mix both lifestyles.

Alpha females usually end up with sissy husbands or toy boys.

They are also called home breakers by in-law's coz they are not wired to live in joint families.

I don't think this is fair.. The response seems to suggest some women in healthy marital relationships are incapable of also being successful in their respective jobs.. When I think of women of my mothers generation they often went to work, looked after the kids and cooking and cleaning etc. These days women are just more educated and don't hold down as menial jobs. Plus men are much more involved and supportive of their wives.. Couples are also very pragmatic if a woman happens to have the bigger earnings potential and ability why shouldn't she have equal rights to her husband to pursue 

 

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6 hours ago, Guest loonharami said:

"45. Putaree da dhan bikh jananaa "

Guru Gobind Singh Ji 52 hukumnama

If that was implemented then girl's would be married off at 16 or 18, legal marrying age !

Can you post present day examples of the above from your jatha & biradri so that Sangat actually gets inspired.

 

 

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4 hours ago, Sukhvirk1976 said:

I don't think this is fair.. The response seems to suggest some women in healthy marital relationships are incapable of also being successful in their respective jobs.. When I think of women of my mothers generation they often went to work, looked after the kids and cooking and cleaning etc. These days women are just more educated and don't hold down as menial jobs. Plus men are much more involved and supportive of their wives.. Couples are also very pragmatic if a woman happens to have the bigger earnings potential and ability why shouldn't she have equal rights to her husband to pursue 

 

Fair or foul is a matter of perception.

Whatever Almighty wishes that occurs.

Life is how you take it !

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7 hours ago, singhbj singh said:

If that was implemented then girl's would be married off at 16 or 18, legal marrying age !

Can you post present day examples of the above from your jatha & biradri so that Sangat actually gets inspired.

 

 

Also the girls (and boys) would have less ex partners before marriage, yeuch.

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