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VjkkVjkf Guru Pyareo, soo over the past few weeks i feel kaljug is taking over my Mann Tann Dhan,every night i go to sleep wanting to wake up at Amritvela knowing that will fix everything but then laziness kicks in ,then the 5 mins after the alarm goes( 5 mins more to sleep) end up in  missing amritvela, then i spend all day playing catch up, prior to going pesh kaam was my biggest problem and now its coming back and truely right now i am dying everyday and the worst part is now stupid doubts are coming to my mind against guru sahib and vaheguru, pls pls sangat jee help me i love sikhi but now kaljug is taking me over to throw me off and i need help.

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On 07/12/2016 at 3:34 AM, Guest Lost Singh said:

VjkkVjkf Guru Pyareo, soo over the past few weeks i feel kaljug is taking over my Mann Tann Dhan,every night i go to sleep wanting to wake up at Amritvela knowing that will fix everything but then laziness kicks in ,then the 5 mins after the alarm goes( 5 mins more to sleep) end up in  missing amritvela, then i spend all day playing catch up, prior to going pesh kaam was my biggest problem and now its coming back and truely right now i am dying everyday and the worst part is now stupid doubts are coming to my mind against guru sahib and vaheguru, pls pls sangat jee help me i love sikhi but now kaljug is taking me over to throw me off and i need help.

 

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Symptoms of Spiritual Sickness From discussion forum

Here are some symptoms that your spiritual Jeevan is in trouble:

Slipping amrit vela and even attempts to wake up are not successful. Waking up consistently after amrit vela is the eventual conclusion of this trend.

Increased time on internet and in front of TV

Less paath and missing banis; no desire to do paath

Dropping "small" rehits like doing keshi ishnaan, doing kangha twice a day etc

Less concentration and ability to do paath and simran

Less desire to go to gurdwara and stay in sangat

Increased vikaar especially anger and kaam

Rationalizing faults and mistakes in rehit as "acceptable" and "understandable" or "I'll fix it later..."

*Root Causes:*

Serious mistake in personal rehit

Ego and pride

Looking down and belitting other Gursikhs

*Cure:*

Ardaas to Guru Sahib for forgiveness

Speaking to other Gursikhs about problems

Peshi before punj pyarai for serious mistakes in rehit

Going to sangat even if there is no desire. Forcing yourself to fo no matter what.

*Note*: It's best to recognize the sickness early and combat it. Otherwise, things keep getting worse till you're in real trouble and recovery is a big uphill battle.
 

 

 

 

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On 7 December 2016 at 3:34 AM, Guest Lost Singh said:

VjkkVjkf Guru Pyareo, soo over the past few weeks i feel kaljug is taking over my Mann Tann Dhan,every night i go to sleep wanting to wake up at Amritvela knowing that will fix everything but then laziness kicks in ,then the 5 mins after the alarm goes( 5 mins more to sleep) end up in  missing amritvela, then i spend all day playing catch up, prior to going pesh kaam was my biggest problem and now its coming back and truely right now i am dying everyday and the worst part is now stupid doubts are coming to my mind against guru sahib and vaheguru, pls pls sangat jee help me i love sikhi but now kaljug is taking me over to throw me off and i need help.

Do naam Simran from 12:30/1am onwards, it's  a really powerful time to do it. 

 

When you read paath, understand it, read a translation if needed, and apply it in action to your life. Don't lie, not even white lies, practice good deeds-do bandgi. 

Mediatatmeditate on the meanings of Gurbani, Japji Sahib Ji is beautiful, it mool mantar is really all that's needed- Gurbani is an extension of mool mantar. 

 

Japji Sahib tells of different beings, of different khandhs, of what's needed to be a good soul. God bless you

 

 

 

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i had thought to check this again and truly maharaaj jee dee kirpa the advice of all u pyare gursikhs will truly help daas, vaheguru Jee bless,vjkkvjkf

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