My wife passed away

[Guest Ukman]

Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ke fateh

My wife who was 32 years old passed away 2 weeks ago in hospitial she was waiting for a heart transplant. She used to pray day and and night and listen and do simran too. I use to say to her i hope you get a heart quick and she said dont say that because that means someone has to die for me to get a heart. She used to say when she gets better we must not forget about waheguru in our good times and bad times. 

She waited 4 months for a heart transplant and when she got one she passed away two hours after the operation. Why does waheguru take people young? We were only married for 3 years and she had her whole life ahead of her. She was so postive and she always said she will be ok and come through this and that wahguru always shows her the way. I just miss her alot i feel alone and empty without her 

Thank you

[jkvlondon]

16 hours ago, Guest Ukman said:

Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ke fateh

My wife who was 32 years old passed away 2 weeks ago in hospitial she was waiting for a heart transplant. She used to pray day and and night and listen and do simran too. I use to say to her i hope you get a heart quick and she said dont say that because that means someone has to die for me to get a heart. She used to say when she gets better we must not forget about waheguru in our good times and bad times. 

She waited 4 months for a heart transplant and when she got one she passed away two hours after the operation. Why does waheguru take people young? We were only married for 3 years and she had her whole life ahead of her. She was so postive and she always said she will be ok and come through this and that wahguru always shows her the way. I just miss her alot i feel alone and empty without her 

Thank you

I'm sorry you have had such a huge loss in life so young ...but ultimately look at what she taught you , she truly gave you an example of being full of gratitude even in hard times , to stay in chardikala, to keep your thoughts unselfish and to always remember Waheguru ji with love ... that kind of gift most people don't get in their whole lifetime. The pain will be there always but it will lessen with time , honour her wishes and do what she intended to do afterwards - be the best sikh you can be , and encourage others in their journey too. Waheguru ji didn't do this to be cruel , it is just the number of breaths she had written here and as far as you told us she made the most of every day.

You are a lucky sikh to have had such a soul for a partner ... stay in chardikala

[DailyMail]

I'm sorry to read about your loss. I hope you have the appropriate support at this moment in time to enable you to continue on your journey, as we are all on our own journey. Condolences once again. 

 

[mahandulai]

On 9/2/2018 at 6:16 PM, Guest Ukman said:

Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ke fateh

My wife who was 32 years old passed away 2 weeks ago in hospitial she was waiting for a heart transplant. She used to pray day and and night and listen and do simran too. I use to say to her i hope you get a heart quick and she said dont say that because that means someone has to die for me to get a heart. She used to say when she gets better we must not forget about waheguru in our good times and bad times. 

She waited 4 months for a heart transplant and when she got one she passed away two hours after the operation. Why does waheguru take people young? We were only married for 3 years and she had her whole life ahead of her. She was so postive and she always said she will be ok and come through this and that wahguru always shows her the way. I just miss her alot i feel alone and empty without her 

Thank you

waheguru, youre never alone

[Guest London jwaan]

I'm also very sorry to hear about your tragic loss and offer my deepest condolences.

[Guest Ukman]

Will i get to reunite with my wife again when my time comes to leave this life? 

[Koi]

My condolences...

[Guest AjeetSinghPunjabi]

Thats really sad to hear . May Akaal purakh Waheguru give strength to your family and close ones. Please don't feel you're alone. Waheguru is with you and the sangat here . 

If you do have a child from this marriage, please do take care of him/her. 

As the saying goes "Thankfulness in good times. Prayers in the bad times. Rememberance in all times" .