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Is Honey Okay For Sikhs? 1 2
by Guest Honey freakkk- 11 replies
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Is honey OKAY for sikhs as it is extrated by killings loads of madhu makhiyan....and those who survive are homeless. Why do people make them homeless just for their taste?
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Fateh ji sangat ji Just wondering.. .. is it a crime to want to look good? my chachi thinks i should ease up abit because if i distract people from god, (eg when at gurdwara) it is an indirect paap?
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Is it allowed to stay unmarried?
by Guest Convertgirl- 6 replies
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I come from a hindu background but I believe in sikhi and taking steps towards amrit, but my family is against it and wants me to follow just in heart and not do anything that shows other's that I am a sikh and I should get married and live a normal life. They say conversion wouldn't be accepted in their society and people will say bad things and also marriage will be difficult. I am curious to know what does sikhi say about celibacy and how do I handle this problem?
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Is it allowed to stay unmarried?
by Guest Convertgirl- 4 replies
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I believe in sikhism and taking steps towards amrit, but being from a non sikh background my family seems to have issue with it, their argument is if I take amrit and my appearance changes I will not be accepted in their community (hindu) and creates obstacle for marriage.. So they say that you can believe but don't anything to anyone that you are a sikh and get married and live a normal life. So I am curious to know is it allowed to stay unmarried ?
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Is It Allowed? 1 2
by Guest Kulvinder Kaur Bajwa- 14 replies
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Sangath Ji My sister has been longing for a baby for like nearly 28 years. She's tried so many times for a child but no luck. She even got operations done to see if there can be a difference. Now the only option they can see is either bringing suragate mother (which she highly doesn't want) OR the doctors can implant it in. Is that ok? or not? because it isnt being done in the natural way and she is Amrit Dhari. Even she thinks that it isnt the natural way the way she wants it, but then again she is dying for a baby. Can I please have your advice on this, whether she should go ahead with it or not?
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Is It Bad To Be Good?
by Guest simran singh- 6 replies
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i am a 18 year old guy living in amritsar, i am not amritdhari but i wake up at amritvela and do paath. I was fully contented with my life and my life was going good,also i dnt drink or eat(alcohal and non veg). But right now i am feeling sad and rebellious and thinking of doing bad thing.now i am feel corrupted and ruined. Today,just a couple of hours before, two people came at our home,at that time only me and mom was present at our home.one of the person said that they are from some gurudawara and want sewa.i gave them some money then other one came and then he says look at my eyes,and he said that i am a very lucky person and guru di kirpa va mere te,then he told m…
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Is It Bizzare? 1 2
by Guest sikhinUK- 13 replies
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SSA EveryBody, I am currently in UK from last three months.I was engaged ( roka ) before coming to UK and that has ended recently.I don't have any good reasons for that but it has created a new set of problems for me.I came to India last year as well and I really liked this place and I went back to India just to close marriage chapter for me. Is it possible to find gursikh girl over here in UK first of all ? Now Whenever I think of going gurudwara and I think that I will get some good sikh girl over there.When I think this way this thought really gives me bizzare feeling...
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Hello, I have seen many people in south asia, particularly Sufi muslims have their hair down and have turbans tied on top. Is it compulsory for Sikhs to have the hair in the top knot form? If so, why?
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Sometimes she does act rude or unmannerly . And then says sorry sorry as if I am not auditing her each and every action and talk insofar it concerns me and my family. Her aunt cheated her at the last moment , considering my fiance is very poor and her dad prolly cant even throw a proper wedding . So she was expecting her uncle to help her . However the uncle ditched them . So uncle's done ! Her bros are already crrap and dirty guys . She doesn't talk to some of her sisters , but the some she does talk to are very close to her and sometimes I have a suspicion that they wind her up against my mom or me. You know girls saying things like "mother-in-laws are almost…
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Is It Just Me
by Guest Guest- 9 replies
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i don't no if its my imagination or reality. but sometimes mostly at night after eleven i hear gurbani. i don't no where it comes from but i hear it. i open all the windows to see if its coming from outside but its not. am i having some spritual experience or am i imagining it.
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Is It Kurehat Or Bhul
by Guest ram singh akali- 1 reply
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Gurmukho plz help me I live in the area where smoking is very much haptual and people dont stop if u request them so going on work outside the smoke is respired plz tell me,is I m kurehatiya.coz if u respire near a smoker your passive smoker
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Is it me or a lot more young people dying?
by Guest Curious- 1 follower
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Seems as a lot more deaths in younger age groups since covid began, mostly of heart attacks does all seem abit fishy
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Is it me or does this happen to you to?
by Guest Someguy- 2 replies
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Hey guys so ive been noticing this for a few weeks, everytime i get less sleep, i do paath much faster and can concentrate a little better. When i mean faster it usually takes me 1 hour 30 min to do Japji Sahib, Jaap Sahib, Tav Prasad Svyeia and Chaupi Sahib. I also do ardas at the end. But when i get less sleep i can do everything in 1 hour. Does this happen to you guys as well?
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Is it necessary to take bath before Nitnem ? 1 2
by Guest Guru ka Sikh- 15 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh. I have taken Amrit 4.5 years back and tried to follow everything from Rehat Maryada. Before starting daily errands, I take a bath and do the Nitnem. I am a software engineer and as a part of my job, I have a hackathon organized in my company, wherein we are required to work for around 24 - 30 hours continuously. I won't be able to take bath on Sunday morning in the company but can do Nitnem in the cabin through my laptop/phone. I went through Rehat Maryada and it is clearly written there that I should take a bath before doing Nitnem. What should I do in such situation? At one side I feel that I should …
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Is It Ok To Ask This To Possible Future Spouse?
by Guest still_free- 9 replies
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Vaheguroo Ji Ka Khalsa! Vaheguroo Ji Ki Fateh! Is it ok to ask passible future wife, who claims to be amritdhari, if she keep ALL 5 Kakkar?
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Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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