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Army Requires You To Shave On Certain Tasks.
by Guest Kumi- 9 replies
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I am a Sikh will I have to shave off my beard? No. But if you're on operations, and respirators have to be worn because of a threat from Nuclear Biological or Chemical weapons, shaving will be needed to guarantee an effective seal 12:45:12 You - i cannot shave my head or take off my turban 12:46:05 You - Does that mean i cannot become a pilot? 12:46:12 CSjt Gary Harriss - you will on some operation tours wear army helmets 12:46:32 CSjt Gary Harriss - you wont get pilot then 12:46:41 You - damn ________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________ if u can make sense, what u fink of this. if you haven't g…
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Paaje Veerjee 1 2
by Guest mai nah- 16 replies
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gurfateh where did th word 'PAAJI" just appear from?? and what does it mean :S if everyone is brother sister why are so many kaurs not saying veerjee anymore? It only makes more sense. can someone please explain
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Is He Cheating On Me? 1 2
by Guest _need advice_- 18 replies
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Sangat Jio, I have a dilema. I am not sure but i think my husband (to be) may be cheating on me. I cannot be sure 100% and I don't want to make things worse by confronting him but I just need some advice. He gets a lot of phone calls that he doesnt answer when i'm around him and seems to text all the time around me. Also, i recently found parts of an email he sent to a girl from a dating site. There was nothing untowards in the email and he doesnt do seva for various Sikh organisation helping Sikh women. Now inside of me I am sure he is not cheating on me....he is a Gursikh, has high values....but then there is always that little bit of doubt. This email is bugging…
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Please Help With This Issue
by Guest ad- 1 reply
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i been working with law firm as receptionist for a year and stduied same time in my final yr degree, after a year when I ask for a full time contract he said u just a casual worker i cant offer you a contract cant afford to. Early on in the first month i was there he talked about me having a contract and how I was soo needed away from study but i managed to do both and wokred really hard for him doing rep stuff at the hopme office central london and going indiain high commision , taking on workload a receptionist never has to do, because he made me. I legally have oral contract and i worked like part time hrs, he called me CASUAL and said you were called in just when nee…
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Yatra Sroi Hemkund Sahib
by Guest _Kulpreet_- 1 reply
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WJK WJF I tried it in youtube and google video but couldnt find it. Can anyone suggest where i can watch it online?? Regards Kulpreet
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Golak Thief On Tape 1 2
by Guest _Gsingh_- 10 replies
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VJKK VJKF Just found this link after hearing about it on punjabi radio. GOlak thief in brampton Glidden gurughar Sangat needs to beware! http://www.esikh.com/bottom-about-us/29-ot...-golakchor.html
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Bani talks about nine treasures, what are they???
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Salt Wash!
by Guest jastmai- 4 replies
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gurfateh sangat jee i just recently started tieing keski and no one else in my house does. (i'm a bibi)I have just recently got a navy blue and black one and they are really starchy. I know you are suppoes to wash them and i did. but when they dry its still not easy to tie. this is the only material i can have for now. I read online somewhere that you should soak them in salt water overnight? what do you guys do and are you suppose to strech them? what is that for and is it good to iron them too afterwards? what do you guys do to make it the easiest to tie thank you so much im really sorry so many questions im jus a confused child
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I was just wondering about this thing. I am a Sikh (non-AmritDhari) with uncut hair and wear a turban everytime.I am going to be an engineering graduate in a year. But I am like very much into sports ,I have been a state Cricket Player ,and recently I have been playing Golf , and during long Sunday mornings in Greens , Sun really beats the hell out of me , if I don't wear a cap , So I generally , wear a patka and a cap on top of it , and even when fielding in Cricket for long time , I do wear a cap. So is this wrong? , I know wearing of anything else but Dastaar is not permitted in Sikhism . But what about SIKH sahibaans who do other stuff than Bhakti? which is definitel…
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Getting Married...hair Problem 1 2
by Guest hairy_issue- 16 replies
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Ok as I have already indicated in the subject my problem is with that unwanted body hair. I will come straight to the point.I am an amritdhari girl and I have always had a lot of hair growth on my arms, legs and face. I have been so conscious of it that I have never worn half sleeve shirts and for that matter not even quarter sleeves. I recently got engaged. (arranged)My fiancé had come to see me. On that day also I was wearing a full sleeve shirt so he was not able to see all that hair. And yes he couldn’t even have noticed the facial hair because I bleach that. ( I know its manmat to do so but I just can’t gather the confidence to carry myself with that hair coz I ha…
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Alton Towers 1 2
by Guest _Singh_- 14 replies
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Im going to Alton Towers soon BUT i wear a turban BUT i dont want it to come off wen im on the rollercoaster, im not sure what to do..........should i wear bandana etc but i dont like going out without ma turban SO could someone give me some advice???
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Toronto Akj Samagam 2008 Recordings Now Up!
by Guest _preet_- 2 replies
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http://www.ontariosikhs.com/keertan/index....-+July+1-July+7
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erm ive herd of a few like ju jitsu kickboxing thai boxing tae kwondo ninjitsu judo just wanted to know wich would be the overall best
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I feel sooo alone at the moment and am constantly thinking negatively i am trying to get out this by exercising/eating etc its helping but not alot. I feel alone because my social life has become non existent because all my friends drink etc but i dont like to go to those places and feel excluded so dont get invited out alot. im in my mid twenties and long for companionship too but soo far no woman has ever shown a interest in me and that has had a negative impact on me. Im not immature and understand that by marriage time i might end up marrying a girl who has been in one or two relationship (hopefully non sexual) and when i think about that i feel depressed because what…
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I was wondering what is the need of Khalistan? , Well I know the whole background about 1984 and aftermath , and debates about Sikhs being unequally treated at different places etc etc. But its all leading to a very protesting-wing of Sikhism , I see young people wearing Singh Shirts/Hoods , idolizing Bhindrawale , and acting as if they are the warriors . I almost agree everytime I see atrocities on Sikhs anywhere in the world. 'But begging for a land and not winning it' is not something Sikhism does. Now a days Sikhs are becoming very insecure about their own identities and demanding separate rights and land for themselves like we are some oppressed African refugees (#!…
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Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it. -
Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well.
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