Lust N How To Get Rid Of It

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Writing post in reply of the Lust-going crazy topic in Gupt section that didnt allow me to send post so i decided to put in here

Im telling you from experince this is how i got rid of my lust:

-Dont give yourself a chance to think about lust when you think you going to start think of lust just start saying waheguru or repeat the mool mantra.

-The other thing you can do is just remind yourself God created these ppl and therefore thier holy so try to think desiring them/thier body is a paap

-N another thing that will help is try to Think that these people are innocent and try to think what thier reaction will be if they found out you desired thier body? N think to yourself who gave you the right to desire thier/someones body without them giving you permission? (permission from them for you to desire there body is given when your married with each other).

-N another thing is try to think what your close ones (family ect) would think of you if they found out you were like this.

-N another thing you can do is keeping remind yourself the differnce between you WOULD LIKE to stop your lust and you WANT to stop your lust

-N another thing you can do is try to understand Gurbani alot more n listen to shabad Kirtan alot more n when you keeping listening to it you will fall in love with it n when you do you will keep on just wanting Gurbani n not lust.

-N another thing you can do is before going to sleep is leave the curtains open and switch off the light and repeat mool mantra or Gurbani shabads until you so tired you will fall asleep fast-then you will have no time to think about lust. (THAT WILL HELP YOU GET CLOSER TO GOD N FEEL BETTER ALONG WITH GETTING RID OF YOUR LUST) n think your not going to let the 5 evils beat n win you.

N in the morning soon as you wake up- Just keep on saying rab da naa.

WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH

[proud_to_be_singhni]

To paji/penji who posted this post.....amazing advice and really useful for evry1 trying to beat lust for good. keep up with the good work :TH:

[proud_to_be_singhni]

One of maskeenji's katha came to mind. He said that what paap we do outside in society, which is not hidden, is voisible...then the public is there, police, laws are there to punish us, eg. whther its stealing, rape, murder whatever. We do the act carefully aare we can get caught.

But the paap we do in our minds is hidden from there sources and also we do it so often fearlessly knowing...'no one knows whats in my mind'...God knows and everything is being written down and especially what were thinking and we will get punished in the court of God accordingly.

Maskeen ji said 99.9% of us are great paapi's but only 20% are punished here by laws in this world and so many of us walk around free from the clutches of the society but who will saveus from the laws of God. Do we really want to hug burning hot plates, cause according to bani thats what happens if one tinks about the most sex most of his or her time.

I'm just as bad as anyone else, guru ji help usall because especially at this age it can be difficult ,need to be strongcontrol our minds and read and understand gurbani as much as possible.

vaheguru j

[randip singh]

The Guru Granth Sahib Ji does not talk about getting rid of Kaam but controlling Kaam (Lust) and being the master of Kaam! Lust initself is an unhealthy obsession with sex, but this does not mean we seek to destroy the naturall sexual act itself, which leads to procreation. The ability to CONTROL is far stronger than the ability to destroy! :e:

[proud_to_be_singhni]

thas what i said paji , control :wub: @

[proud_to_be_singhni]

we're guna get married and how can one moveforward in family life without those aspects of human nature, think thas common sense

[Sunny]

You can't get rid of lust. It's part of human nature. The challenge is learning to control it.

Keep in mind our Guru ji's needed some degree of lust to reproduce. There had to be a sexual craving in their minds to be aroused before conception.

[proud_to_be_singhni]

um thats true :wub: but less detail please, it is our guru's your're talking about so a minimum about this topic on them will suffice dont you think thanx

[Sunny]

um thats true :wub: but less detail please, it is our guru's your're talking about so a minimum about this topic on them will suffice dont you think thanx

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Less detail? I didn't not produce any detail whatsoever in my previous post.

I expect members on this board to be mature, act mature and be able to discuss topics in a civilized manner.

I have not disrespected our Guru's, read my post carefully. This is a common problem on this forum. People try to read between the lines but fail miserably and totally misinterpret the message.

[proud_to_be_singhni]

wow..wow pajee sorry if comment hurt you in any way, i read ur comment very carefully, read urself again if you want and think bout it, i didnt say anything untrue about how i felt bout ur previous post

neways fateh ji