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Trust me, if you are wanting to marry a Singhni then she'll be more than happy that you are a virgin and if you werent then shw would probably not marry you. Like other people have told you it is a good thing that you are a virgin and if someone didnt want to marry because of that then you are lucky because Maharaj Ji saved you from a horrible experience. From what you have posted you seem like a guy who wants to stay focsued on his Sikhi and want to marry someone whos into sikhi and you being a virgin is perfect. And is it great that you have stopped trimming your beard because most women hate that. They go either stop trimming or you might as well cut your hair too .. so its really good that you have stopped trimming and the only reason you feel isolated and depressed it is because you are self concious and have low self esteem. so just chill and study. Baba ji will you find the perfect bride who will respect you for your decision and help you dive deeper into your sikhi.

Keep it up and stay a virgin.

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um DUH if u were to marry a singhnee...they would be more than happy to know u havent messed around..personally..i would want a guy whos still a virgin and all that other stuffz....keep it up and DO NOT...seriously DO NOT..go out and try stuff just so you can get out of feeling guilty of something you should feel proud of!

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im 22, 23 in may. not married and ive never been with a women i.e. kissed etc........maybe due to the fact i used to be clinically obese and had bad teeth....since then ive lost 7 and half stone (100 pounds) and got my teeth straigtened up.any way now im soley concentrating on becoming a lawyer so i havent got time for a relationship and its likely i will be a virgin until i get married.........what i wanted to know was whether a woman would get put off or laugh at me if she found out i was a very and had no experience (not even kissed ever). would a women want to get married to a guy like me....i would like female opinions only.

what in the hell kinda girl are u looking for man lol...the only girls i know that would find you not having "experience" a turn off are the kinda girls that are sexually active with multiple partners, and if thats what theyre looking for, u can rest assured not marrying them, cus they dont like you, they like ur "experience"...in other words its just lust and it wont last.

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