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can sikhs who keep hair and beard compete with clean shaven guys cos these days women only want clean shaven guys even religious sikh women run off with non sikh guys and prefer clean shaven guys!...........is that why guys are cutting their hair now?

Sikhi can't die my friend. People in the past tried to kill sikhi, but instead, Sikhi end up killing them. LOL.gif

As for the hair issue, well everybody has their own preferences. You can't force some Sikh women to marry amritdharis/keshdharis like you can't force some Sikh men to marry sikh women who have a lot of facial hair on their face and body. That is life.

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can sikhs who keep hair and beard compete with clean shaven guys cos these days women only want clean shaven guys even religious sikh women run off with non sikh guys and prefer clean shaven guys!...........is that why guys are cutting their hair now?

you cant say tht all sikh women want a clean shaven guy.

im a ''sikh woman''----- do i want a clean shaven guy??? rolleyes.gif errrrr NO!

HAHAHAH ur funny 'maha moorakh'..... u obviously get it from me!

yeh, dont categorise all sikh girls into this category...anyway ive found the oppoiste 2 what u found. alot of punjabi/ sikh girls i no WANT 2 marry an amritdharee/keshdharee guy cos 'their parents like it' or 'they treat u better'.... soo dont go round generalisin :TH:

I thought you should only marry a person because you love them, parents liking it makes it sound like they're forced or something.

I didnt mean their parents are forcing them. i meant that a lot of girls that i no hav said that they would rather marry an amritdharee/keshdharee sikh boy becos of their parents agreeing wiv it more than if they were moneh etc.the parents like the boys more etc haha u shud only marry a person if u love them... hmmm well then how do arrange/assisted marriages work?? the 'love' ur talkin about isn't real love...ur makin it sound a bit westernized.

so you're saying that if it wasnt for their parents then they wouldnt get married to them?

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Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ki fateh,

jus my opinion..... marry someone who you know you want to spend the rest of your life with. Love or Arranged or a bit of both ways( the way mines happened)

please dont do it for the sake of making Anyone Happy, its your life and His/Hers and Maharaj ji, The one Who is going to keep you guys together strong.

The issue bout women like modern, men like modern, Just like No one looks the same No one had the same characters either, we generalise way to much, media influenced and our individual thoughts and perceptions

The perfect guy/girl is there already planned by Guru Sahib ji

Take Care

Wahe guru ji ka khalsa Wahe guru ji ki fateh

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its only important what the other gender thinks when we see marriage as the end goal of our life

when we realise joining with akaal puraakh, god, vaheguru, our beloved father is the goal of our life then it isnt so hard to live within hukam

well said!

and u can see that lotz of people think that way in our society.

bhul chuk muaff karni

waheguru ji kakhalsa waheguru ji ki fateh!

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female sheep (dont know whats it called) can never want to or will make a lion as life partner they will go for other male sheep ... only lioness can mate with a lion ... so are we trying to get a new thing half sheep half lion .... i think amritdhari singhs should avoid such bibis who born in sikh family going out with mona guys .... a singh is son of guru gobind singh and believe me our dad will find best match for his son ....

fathe ....

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can sikhs who keep hair and beard compete with clean shaven guys cos these days women only want clean shaven guys even religious sikh women run off with non sikh guys and prefer clean shaven guys!...........is that why guys are cutting their hair now?

you cant say tht all sikh women want a clean shaven guy.

im a ''sikh woman''----- do i want a clean shaven guy??? rolleyes.gif errrrr NO!

HAHAHAH ur funny 'maha moorakh'..... u obviously get it from me!

yeh, dont categorise all sikh girls into this category...anyway ive found the oppoiste 2 what u found. alot of punjabi/ sikh girls i no WANT 2 marry an amritdharee/keshdharee guy cos 'their parents like it' or 'they treat u better'.... soo dont go round generalisin :TH:

I thought you should only marry a person because you love them, parents liking it makes it sound like they're forced or something.

I didnt mean their parents are forcing them. i meant that a lot of girls that i no hav said that they would rather marry an amritdharee/keshdharee sikh boy becos of their parents agreeing wiv it more than if they were moneh etc.the parents like the boys more etc haha u shud only marry a person if u love them... hmmm well then how do arrange/assisted marriages work?? the 'love' ur talkin about isn't real love...ur makin it sound a bit westernized.

so you're saying that if it wasnt for their parents then they wouldnt get married to them?

no, the girls would only commit to it if they wanted to do it...u think anyone would marry someone that they were disgusted by? women do find amritdhari men attractive in terms of both their souls and a singh looks wonderful if you look at it physically as well...i can tell u that as a female..i also happen to know that males like women who are amritdhari too..

so dont worry people, it will all work out when it's supposed to :@

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