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Where did the "relationships before marriage are forbidden" thought in sikhi came from?

Can someone give me a Rehatnama or a quote from the Guru that forbids a relationship?

umm yeah

how about the panj pyare?

right....so then this commandment is given at every Amrit Sanchaar by every Panj Piyaray?

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Where did the "relationships before marriage are forbidden" thought in sikhi came from?

Can someone give me a Rehatnama or a quote from the Guru that forbids a relationship?

umm yeah

how about the panj pyare?

right....so then this commandment is given at every Amrit Sanchaar by every Panj Piyaray?

if i go to every amrit sanchar ill let you know, until then im afraid i cant be sure

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Didnt Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji say no relationships before marriage or am i wrong?

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How many times has this been discussed - lohk thahkdheh nee nonono.gif Asking the question over n over again won't change whats been said or written....

(don't get offended)

I've seen many discussion, but never saw any references. If I missed them in some post then perhaps giving me links to where references have been discussed would help.

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Where did the "relationships before marriage are forbidden" thought in sikhi came from?

Can someone give me a Rehatnama or a quote from the Guru that forbids a relationship?

umm yeah

how about the panj pyare?

right....so then this commandment is given at every Amrit Sanchaar by every Panj Piyaray?

if i go to every amrit sanchar ill let you know, until then im afraid i cant be sure

Is it not safe to say that there is a set number of commandments that are given to those who are participating. Is this one of them?

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Where did the "relationships before marriage are forbidden" thought in sikhi came from?

Can someone give me a Rehatnama or a quote from the Guru that forbids a relationship?

umm yeah

how about the panj pyare?

Your right a Panj Pyar'eh's word over our Guru Maahraaj is ALWAYS correct... :lol:

How many times has this been discussed - lohk thahkdheh nee nonono.gif Asking the question over n over again won't change whats been said or written....

(don't get offended)

I've seen many discussion, but never saw any references. If I missed them in some post then perhaps giving me links to where references have been discussed would help.

Put it this way Bhenjee i suggest you do what your parents say cos am PRETTY sure they'll tell you whats right - rather than weirdo's like me giving you references. I got a feeling that no mom or dad wants their daughter gettin locks with sum boy...

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Where did the "relationships before marriage are forbidden" thought in sikhi came from?

Can someone give me a Rehatnama or a quote from the Guru that forbids a relationship?

umm yeah

how about the panj pyare?

right....so then this commandment is given at every Amrit Sanchaar by every Panj Piyaray?

if i go to every amrit sanchar ill let you know, until then im afraid i cant be sure

Is it not safe to say that there is a set number of commandments that are given to those who are participating. Is this one of them?

This aint like Christianity Bhenjee - i think they have the 10 commandments etc - It comes down to common sense before you take your Reyath Maryaadha and ask one of the Panj Pyar'eh

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