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  1. 1. Do you have bf/gf

    • Yes.
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    • No.
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    • Don't want to have one.
      7
    • Want to, but could not find one yet, or its hard to find.
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    • Its against Sikhi.
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Hanji...

I agree with Ryu Hayabusa....that is a very good and valid point, something I was going to post, but I realise that people start to get all political that way, therefore I tried to keep to logic which people will understand...

I really do hope 'gursikhs' or people aiming to becoming gursikhs realise the truth, which is basically this NO DATING, NO BOY/GIRL FRIEND ETC ETC....

Why does everything have to be complicated? If you believe in guru ji's bana (will), you'll work on your jeevan and let 'nature take its course'...by that I mean that you'll focus upon sorting yourself out and when a rista comes along (when you're at the right age etc), then see what happens...

I'm NOT perfect :@ , BUT I would really like to make others aware of the consequences/outcome of engaging in such things...PLEASE, think about it...

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Well, here's the thing, having a "girlfriend" is not gonna get you any closer to God is it?

As Pheena posted.......Sure love his creation, love mother nature, love everyone. Isn't that what Gurbani says, but too often we overlook it? Guru sahib says see god in everything, and everyone, since its all HIS creation.

Relationships are falsehood, you think your girlfriend is gonna save you from JUMDOOTS?

I know there was a post about love in the past, and it said how any real love you see have heard about doesn't last (romeo/juliet, etc.) I know it was very enlightening for me.

My half a cent, bhul chuk muaf ji! ^_^

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chakk deyyyy p singhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa   :wub:

ki aivain chakde chakde laaee aa, kade banda nahi dekheya????

Oi, stop changing the subject

ke dhar ge ooh, ke eeh ta Suchi kuri laabh e re gaa :@

javab dau jee :ww::

Blonde, Latino, Kali Appni :@

Whats ur preferance :ww::

ke hoon tusi mukarna e :) ?

bhull chukk maaf

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