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Forgive me for asking this, but was just wondering . .

would one have to go for pesh if for example

an amrithdaree talked dirty s** talk with the opposite

gender?

I know this is something amrithdarees shouldn't induldge in.

But if they did would they have to go for pesh?

Sorry if I offended anyone.

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Guest Gaddi.Othhei.Khari

you say that I touched myself .

lol ur jokes.....hahahha

but to be honest to the poster Singh, going pesh for the act,,,, wont stop IT.....

IT never stops....

I have gone pesh....i still do IT....maya is powerful and ppl like me underestimate it

what im sayin is

THE ACT will never stop

...either IT will be delayed

.........or.....i firmly believe the fight must begin from within with all the testosterone u got.... ...like a frikin rising pheonix.....i mean blow the rooftop ... i mean go crazy....go nuts against this one thing...make it your objective

the best way to do that is Naaaaaam....but lets be real, I fall asleep during simran.....last ime i DID do simran was abt a month ago

but visiting SS after 4 years and reading one of the mods' post.....it hit me

once i start doing the Kriya for 30 days....which i just learnt abt today BTW

i think things will be good AGAIN....and my mind will find it distasteful/bland/or just wont think abt it...like the way it was when i was 7...lol....im 26 dude...still in the mess...even after pesh....pathetic isnt it

one of my close singhs told me this once and he judged me quite right. he was wicked BTW

KALI ANDAR NANAKA JINNA DA AVTAAR

(you can do 2 meaning easily;

one abt Guru Nanak Sahib coming in this dark age,

the other about 'Jins/ghosts' like me born in this age....which is why its called Kala yug..the dark age)

BUT U KNOW

i frikin cant wait get out of this mess...and live a life of freedom...as i was instinctively designed to do

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When daas did seva in punj some singhs who have come to pesh would say stuff like "mai kaam de parbhaav vich aa gya see te mere to hath saaf ho gya see", one way you can put it in front of the punj pyaare.

Look at it this way, think of what you are looking at when you are getting aroused is made up of blood, puss, guts, bones, veins, etc. all contained in flesh that most of the world eats and when you think of it in this sense, hopefully it will disgust you enough to put your mind off of it. Whenever you're alone at home, wear a chola with sri sahib on top, stay tyaar bar tyaar and these thoughts won't hurt you.

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Guest LIfe is hard

I don't think it is a Kureat. Scientificaly You are headed to problems. Cyber stuff or whatever is only going to come between you and your future spouse. You will be confused when you have a partner. What you see on Net is totaly different in reality. You will not be satisfied with your spouse the stress the depression that you will aquire make you a person like this. Other men/women must be better than my spouse. Until you can find from your mind how to control this you are in life time trouble or you get married as quickly as possible. Your habit and depression will create a Kureat.

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