Reading the comments on IG by Sikhyouthuk ...they're saying she ran away with a 'guy' that parents didn't approve off and came back she was 'scared' and bf was 'threaten'....
Curious to find out what type of 'bf' was this??
You are right about use of 'grooming'...its taken out of context from our community...you make your own choice...and esp when you are grown adult...using 'grooming' is silly imo
I think parents get exhausted by those 'strong willed' apneean who insist on pushing the boundaries, and just give up for an easier life. This 'strong willed' 'independent' types also inadvertently make themselves more vulnerable to predators who seem to hone in on them, from what I've seen. They bring attention to themselves like that.
Ok i've been told that this is fake rumor that it had nothing to do with grooming by usual 'suspect'.., no involvements with boys, she doesnt do drugs alcohol, she does paah everday and is good girl and that she been 'depressed' due to the lockdown and was fedup at home...my mum told me this because her parents called radio station this morning to mention shes safe and returned..
Initially when i saw this, i myself thought immediately the location she lives, convinced to do with having a non-Sikh bf...and you can guess the rest
I think it's because the younger ones feel less agency and so have just given up and accepted things maybe? Older lot (not the ones from back home) would try and shape things, most younger lot seem to think that being shaped and not shaping is a natural.
I think the W.L lot aren't very streetwise compared to say people from B'ham or E.L, so you get all manner of stuff going on under their noses and they are oblivious. They seem slow witted?