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Intercaste Marriage - Jat Sikh Girl Vs Ramgharia Boy


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Go to your local gurdwara find out when is next amrit sanchar is and go around that time to speak to them take your parents with you. If it's urgent find out if you can speak to local gyani ji at the gurdwara.

You should also take hakumnama from Sri guru granth sahib ji and deeply reflect , contemplate on it with full openess,receptivity,with your intuition(surti) or gut feeling not with condioned mind.

Hope everything works out for you ..Good luck.

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The very first words in the very first sentence in the very first post in this thread say it all to me.

Is this really whats become of us ? Are we really now a society whereby a daughter and sister feels pride instead of shame about telling the world about her 'boyfriend' ?

Trust me, your parents have already been disgraced in society due to the fact that they've got a daughter that carries on with international boyfriend / girlfriend relationships. I don't see how their reputation can sink any lower.

Oh wise one, judge appointed by the smiter himself, take a chill pill!

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Thugger any chance b) might apply to yourself also?

At the end of the day we base our convictions on what we understand to be the truth, we can easily be misguided. .

Bhenji, i agree with neo the best thing to do is approach the wisest gursikhs you know and ask them to guide u based on their experience of gurbani.

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U say ur parents say ur disgracin them coz ur marryin a "lower" caste, u shud tell them that according to the stupid hindustan caste system, jatts and ramgharias r both lower caste. I assume that tellin them the caste system is anti-sikh, is a waste of time,so anotha thing to throw at them is, they shud b happy ur bringing home a sikh, n not disgracin them genuinely with a muslim or hindu adhmi. Tell them to think that atleast their grandkids will b sikhs. Things like this really really pee me off man. These tribal obsessed mugs shud spare a thought for those parents whom have brought home a gangu/sullaahh, n thus lost anotha generation of kids.

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'Jatt' and 'Ramgharia' are not castes. The term Jatt simply describes the amalgamation of rural peoples who existed outside the caste system of the Hindus and were animated by some sort of tribal nationalism rather than caste loyalties. It is an ethnic group. Likewise, a Ramgharia is a descendant of a member of the Ramgharia misl. Most Ramgharias happen to be Tarkhans, but they don't have to be.

Perhaps a more learned member of the Sangat could clarify why exactly these two groups appear to have become known as castes when in fact they aren't?

My digression aside, a Jatt Sikh should still be allowed to marry a Ramgharia Sikh.

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Just find a jatt keep your parents happy. Problem solved there are many other fish in the sea. Even though sikhs dont believe in caste but a lot of people still do. Your parents been with you for so long by your side allow making them sad.

Jatt and Juliet all the way!!

Yes OP, just follow this sound advice.

Marry a Jatt in order to appease your casteist anti-Sikh relatives, shun the man you love because he is a Ramgharia, and spend the rest of your natural life screaming on the inside.

A recipe for true happiness.

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Just find a jatt keep your parents happy.

Even though sikhs dont believe in caste but a lot of people still do.

Jatt and Juliet all the way!!

You sound like you got dumped by a jatt?

Hindu Jatt 1968 now that you are 47 years old and still a virgin why dont u find urself a nice Hindu Jatti?

At least then u could kindly leave this site free of your posts where u laugh at the rape of innocents?

http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?/topic/76484-two-minors-gang-raped-in-separate-incidents-in-punjab/

One troll should always listen to another.

Now that everyone knows u are a Hindu Jatt troll why dont u spare us the continual bs in your posts?

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