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My friend who is 20 years old and is in the 3rd year of college just got fired from her part time job as a store clerk because she blown off her shift for the third time in a row despite two previous warnings. Now she told me she plans to make an accusation against her former boss who is a Sikh that he sexually assaulted her (which is not true) as a way of getting revenge. She did not know I recorded her telling me her plan but I am not sure where to go from here. 

Any advice?

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That is seriously sick.....she will ruin an innocent persons life just to get 'revenge'. You have to either tell her to not do it or tell the authorities of the false accusations she is about to do.

 

You have a duty now to act on what you know to do the right thing....not doing anything is as bad as you committing the crime as well. 

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Be ethical. Would you be on her side while she does these disgusting acts, or be on the side of the poor Sikh man who has to deal with such people?

If she does, show the police the recording.

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11 hours ago, Guest Blue_sapphire said:

My friend who is 20 years old and is in the 3rd year of college just got fired from her part time job as a store clerk because she blown off her shift for the third time in a row despite two previous warnings. Now she told me she plans to make an accusation against her former boss who is a Sikh that he sexually assaulted her (which is not true) as a way of getting revenge. She did not know I recorded her telling me her plan but I am not sure where to go from here. 

Any advice?

Your friend is crazy.

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16 minutes ago, NonExistant said:

Your friend is crazy.

 

 HIS friend is beyond scum , you would get a person labelled as a sex offender  for life because you were too slack to turn up for work ? wth is that , he's probably got a wife and kids too you will destroy their lives too ...imagine innocent kids getting bullied for your lies about their dad Day in and out at school.

Get a life dude and sort out your messed up friend... the guy gave her fair chances to sort herself out but she flaked on him too many times , he is within his rights to tell uh uh this ain't working.

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Actually it's irrelevant that the manager is sikh. Any poisonous female making these types of false allegations needs to anyone needs to be stopped.

If you have it recorded, it's your responsibility to take that to personnel and the police BEFORE she makes the allegation and unfairly causes reputational damage to the manager.

Do it now. Without any delay.

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I did turn over the recordings to the police this morning lland my friend was arrested a few hours ago and charged with public mischief and the police imformed her former boss of her plans. I am glad I did the right thing but i am sad because I just recieved  a text message from my best friend telling me I betrayed her and we are no longer friends.

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