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23 hours ago, Guest Blue_sapphire said:

My friend who is 20 years old and is in the 3rd year of college just got fired from her part time job as a store clerk because she blown off her shift for the third time in a row despite two previous warnings. Now she told me she plans to make an accusation against her former boss who is a Sikh that he sexually assaulted her (which is not true) as a way of getting revenge. She did not know I recorded her telling me her plan but I am not sure where to go from here. 

Any advice?

Tell her u recorded it and you'll tell whoever you need to.

This is a no Brainer. Anyone with a normal conscience would do that. 

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12 hours ago, Guest London jwaan said:

Actually it's irrelevant that the manager is sikh. Any poisonous female making these types of false allegations needs to anyone needs to be stopped.

If you have it recorded, it's your responsibility to take that to personnel and the police BEFORE she makes the allegation and unfairly causes reputational damage to the manager.

Do it now. Without any delay.

Same as above. 

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9 hours ago, Guest Blue_sapphire said:

I did turn over the recordings to the police this morning lland my friend was arrested a few hours ago and charged with public mischief and the police imformed her former boss of her plans. I am glad I did the right thing but i am sad because I just recieved  a text message from my best friend telling me I betrayed her and we are no longer friends.

Youve done the right thing. Be glad, ofcourse she will say that but I would not like to be friends with people who harbour such bad thoughts and behave in such a manner. 

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15 hours ago, Guest Blue_sapphire said:

I did turn over the recordings to the police this morning lland my friend was arrested a few hours ago and charged with public mischief and the police imformed her former boss of her plans. I am glad I did the right thing but i am sad because I just recieved  a text message from my best friend telling me I betrayed her and we are no longer friends.

I wouldn't worry about it. Your ex friend clearly belongs in the zoo.

Where are you based?

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You had knowledge of what happened. If you had done nothing, your actions would have been as bad as your "friend" false accusations. If the police found out you had withheld evidence, it could have gotten you into trouble (since the evidence could have freed an innocent man). 

At the end of the day, do you really want to be friends with someone who planning to commit a crime? Friends will come and go like the wind. Guru Ji tells us to avoid the company of people whose actions are not good. 

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I am based in Canada. My ex-friend was also in the third year of a Bachelor of Science in Nursing Program and because she has been charged with public mischief, I know she will be expelled from the nursing program she is currently enrolled in because the nursing profession requires registered nurses to be honest.

Public mischief
  • 140 (1) Every one commits public mischief who, with intent to mislead, causes a peace officer to enter on or continue an investigation by

    • (a) making a false statement that accuses some other person of having committed an offence;

    • (b) doing anything intended to cause some other person to be suspected of having committed an offence that the other person has not committed, or to divert suspicion from himself;

    • (c) reporting that an offence has been committed when it has not been committed; or

    • (d) reporting or in any other way making it known or causing it to be made known that he or some other person has died when he or that other person has not died.

  • Marginal note:Punishment

    (2) Every one who commits public mischief

    • (a) is guilty of an indictable offence and liable to imprisonment for a term not exceeding five years; or

    • (b) is guilty of an offence punishable on summary conviction.

 

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14 hours ago, Guest Blue_sapphire said:

I am based in Canada. My ex-friend was also in the third year of a Bachelor of Science in Nursing Program and because she has been charged with public mischief, I know she will be expelled from the nursing program she is currently enrolled in because the nursing profession requires registered nurses to be honest.

Public mischief
  • 140 (1) Every one commits public mischief who, with intent to mislead, causes a peace officer to enter on or continue an investigation by

    • (a) making a false statement that accuses some other person of having committed an offence;

    • (b) doing anything intended to cause some other person to be suspected of having committed an offence that the other person has not committed, or to divert suspicion from himself;

    • (c) reporting that an offence has been committed when it has not been committed; or

    • (d) reporting or in any other way making it known or causing it to be made known that he or some other person has died when he or that other person has not died.

  • Marginal note:Punishment

    (2) Every one who commits public mischief

    • (a) is guilty of an indictable offence and liable to imprisonment for a term not exceeding five years; or

    • (b) is guilty of an offence punishable on summary conviction.

 

Yep wouldn't expect anything less. I wouldn't want to be treated or cared for by a nurse whose actions are dishonest. Her own fault not yours. 

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VJKK VJKF

 

ਦੇਹ ਸਿਵਾ ਬਰੁ ਮੋਹਿ ਇਹੈ ਸੁਭ ਕਰਮਨ ਤੇ ਕਬਹੂੰ ਨ ਟਰੋ ॥

Deha Sivaa Baru Mohi Eihi Subha Karman Te Kabahooaan Na Ttaro ॥

O Goddess, grant me this that I may not hesitate from performing good actions.

ਨ ਡਰੋ ਅਰਿ ਸੋ ਜਬ ਜਾਇ ਲਰੋ ਨਿਸਚੈ ਕਰਿ ਅਪੁਨੀ ਜੀਤ ਕਰੋ ॥

Na Daro Ari So Jaba Jaaei Laro Nisachai Kari Apunee Jeet Karo ॥

I may not fear the enemy, when I go to fight and assuredly I may become victorious.

VJKK VJKF

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On 04/12/2017 at 8:12 AM, Guest Blue_sapphire said:

My friend who is 20 years old and is in the 3rd year of college just got fired from her part time job as a store clerk because she blown off her shift for the third time in a row despite two previous warnings. Now she told me she plans to make an accusation against her former boss who is a Sikh that he sexually assaulted her (which is not true) as a way of getting revenge. She did not know I recorded her telling me her plan but I am not sure where to go from here. 

Any advice?

VJKK VJKF

There are 2 things which you can/should do:

1) Tell her boss immediately and let him know what is going to happen but tell him to keep it quiet for now because you are going to carry out Step 2)

2) Anonymously, tell the police and let them know this could happen. Dasmi Paatshah gave us the kirpan to remind us of fighting injustice daily. This is a test Ji. Hope this helps.

Vaheguru Ji.

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