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Women who date non Sikhs - What should we do with them?


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On 12/4/2018 at 3:47 AM, KhoonKaBadlaKhoon said:

LOL. They're not your property. All you can do is choose to avoid them. It's their choice who they want to date. 

Would you have minded if your mum dated different races before met your dad?

Also we need to set a president about these things. 

Girls should know they will be looked down upon for being a race traitor. 

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6 minutes ago, Big_Tera said:

Would you have minded if your mum dated different races before met your dad?

Also we need to set a president about these things. 

Girls should know they will be looked down upon for being a race traitor. 

I hope that president isn't a stereotype like you...

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4 hours ago, Amit12 said:

I hope that president isn't a stereotype like you...

Your obviously a liberalist that believes its okay to marry a Sikh girl after she has dated half a dozen different races before you marry her.No wonder punjabis are in such a mess with guys like you who encourage this promiscuous behavior.  

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1 hour ago, lostconfussedsingh said:

Its not even the girls fault as its just the crap sh!t they have been brought up with influences their minds with these ideas plus as western people like goris kaalis have got so many partners before marriage is also a influence on them as they think they are white western british etc. 

 

Its the lack of religious knowledge that makes them like this.

Its also the media with music vids talking about sex then bollywood movies and english movies and soaps like eastenders programe their minds from a young age.

 

Maybe they professional sikh couselling services for mental health to help them rather than making them a outcast as this will put more oil in the fire.

everyone has a choice.

if they know its wrong from young but continue with it then it becomes damage limitation imo...

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8 hours ago, Big_Tera said:

Would you have minded if your mum dated different races before met your dad?

Also we need to set a president about these things. 

Girls should know they will be looked down upon for being a race traitor. 

Who are you to decide? Sikhi has nothing to do with race.. Have you ever had a girlfriend? 

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4 hours ago, Big_Tera said:

Your obviously a liberalist that believes its okay to marry a Sikh girl after she has dated half a dozen different races before you marry her.No wonder punjabis are in such a mess with guys like you who encourage this promiscuous behavior.  

Lol, again pre-assuming everything...... I like people who thinks that they know everything..... Like they are GOD or something.....

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Can you please delete this topic, not just archive but remove it completely because the topic itself and the discussion level is a very child like reflection on a NON issue. It's the wrong question and the comments that people are coming out with are clearly their own insecurity.  When a non-sikh/new-sikh comes here and see's this he/she will be put off by the idea of what we're about. This kind of behaviour should not be allowed to be representative of the voice of "Sikh youth".

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7 hours ago, Sukhvirk1976 said:

Who are you to decide? Sikhi has nothing to do with race.. Have you ever had a girlfriend? 

Wow, asking if someone has had a girlfriend in order to denigrate him?

Of course, in your mind, a person who doesn't drink, do drugs, sleep around, etc., is just a loser.

I guess this entire Panth was just founded by a bunch of losers (10 of them, in fact).

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22 minutes ago, BhForce said:

Wow, asking if someone has had a girlfriend in order to denigrate him?

Of course, in your mind, a person who doesn't drink, do drugs, sleep around, etc., is just a loser.

I guess this entire Panth was just founded by a bunch of losers (10 of them, in fact).

PRE-ASSUMPTIONS XD

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19 hours ago, Big_Tera said:

Would you have minded if your mum dated different races before met your dad?

Also we need to set a president about these things. 

Girls should know they will be looked down upon for being a race traitor. 

why are guys not looked on  as race traitors then ? Give an actual answer don't dodge . Besides isn't that water under the bridge kids don't get choice of parent do they ?

precedent not president

sikhi doesn't recognise race so if your mum married a gora singh  before your Dad  do you have the same vitriol ?

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