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On 9/23/2019 at 4:06 PM, Redoptics said:

Again it's fine if a guy dates a gori other way around and its hell fire I just give up.

Lol sexism is still alive, kicking and spread wide and far my dear. 

 

I live in a middle eastern country, its the worst here. Judging someone by the colour of their skin is totally intolerant and racist. Do what you want, live and enjoy your life, youre free to do what you want.

 

Marrying someone a different skin colour to you is actually a stunningly beautiful thing, and if everyone around you is opposed to it, and you do it regardless, then even more stunning. This is what Nanak taught, He has no colour, no caste and no creed. He is free and fearless. This is how we should learn to be. 

 

God bless you and everyone else who gets up and challenges racism, sexism, castism and whatever other rubbish many humans spread and practice. 

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19 hours ago, GuestSingh said:

op sounds like one of those metrosexuals whos happy livin in his bubble n spendin more time matchin the colour of his turban wiv the latest clothes

dont think metrosexual is the right word but i know the sort your talking about lol   they dress very quirky with bright coloured paghs, shirts and blazers    like bright yellow, pink, blue etc  and then they where those colorful glasses with a thick frame haha    fitted trousers and  silly accessories like bow ties, or bright coloured socks etc    

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20 hours ago, puzzled said:

dont think metrosexual is the right word but i know the sort your talking about lol   they dress very quirky with bright coloured paghs, shirts and blazers    like bright yellow, pink, blue etc  and then they where those colorful glasses with a thick frame haha    fitted trousers and  silly accessories like bow ties, or bright coloured socks etc    

its gay.

theyre not men or singhs.

they need a gd slap hard enough to knock their giant sized joora off their heads.

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18 minutes ago, puzzled said:

i dont get it

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yh seen these ones on here before.

one in middle first pic aint dressed badly but the rest of him is as camp as the rest.

top left one in first pic wiv shawl n 3/4 pants still looks odd. that face doesnt help either.

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On 9/20/2019 at 7:14 AM, Guest Jasmeet Singh said:

So I’m going out on a date with this white girl i met through mutual friends and have only met each other once. She gave me her number and we decided to meet up. She’s only seen me once, and not at my best (I was at work). She’s pretty decent from what I can tell. 

However, I heard from one of my mutual friends that she has eitraaz over my beard as I’m a kesadhari khuli dhari wala sikh. She hasn’t seen me in a pagg, she saw in my patka under my hardhat. 

How do I approach this situation, cutting/trimming is off the table, not happening. So do I call the whole thing off? Or do I give it a shot and just go even though she could be put off by it and then it would be a complete waste of time for me. ?‍♂️ Any suggestions would be appreciated. Thank you

waheguru ji ka Khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh!?

।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖ਼ਾਲਸਾ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫ਼ਤਹਿ।

Sikhs shouldn't be dating at all anyways. She's not into Sikhi so what are you going to if you want to get married to her?

।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖ਼ਾਲਸਾ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫ਼ਤਹਿ।

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2 hours ago, GuestSingh said:

yh seen these ones on here before.

one in middle first pic aint dressed badly but the rest of him is as camp as the rest.

top left one in first pic wiv shawl n 3/4 pants still looks odd. that face doesnt help either.

then again everyone has their own look and dress what they feel right in. 

some people would probably say that i dress chavy  lol  

each to their own ...

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4 hours ago, puzzled said:

then again everyone has their own look and dress what they feel right in. 

some people would probably say that i dress chavy  lol  

each to their own ...

in my eyes dressin in a self deprecating manner is a sign of attention seekin n low self esteem. its also an unmanly n unsikh like trait. maybe they were bullied growin up n instead of bein angry they decided to rebel thru fashion rather than fitness?

at least if u dress like a chav wiv sporty/dark clothin it says ur simple n carefree. both manly n sikh qualities.

anyway sikhs r already bullied/teased/harassed enough as it is. we dnt need more dumbos like param singh makin things worse for us later n destroy the image of a manly sardaar.

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On 9/27/2019 at 1:05 AM, GuestSingh said:

param singh makin things worse for us later n destroy the image of a manly sardaar.

westernized sikhs from urban cities in india are very embarrassing and effeminate! they wouldn't last a week in Punjab. these daler mendi types have made Sikhs look like absolute clowns. Even in Punjab people are embarrassed by the daler mehndi types and take the p1ss out of them     his music flopped in Punjab    if this param guy walked into punjab dressed like that he would get called a kusra 

I guess they take this clownish image to entertain the mass indians who want to laugh at sikhs clowning about on stage. most people in india dont like sikh men with a more dominant image they prefer these clowns. 

heres another urban westernized Sikh man probably from delhi or mumbai 

 

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