Somebody help me with this

[dallysingh101]

2 hours ago, puzzled said:

westernized sikhs from urban cities in india are very embarrassing and effeminate! they wouldn't last a week in Punjab. these daler mendi types have made Sikhs look like absolute clowns. Even in Punjab people are embarrassed by the daler mehndi types and take the p1ss out of them     his music flopped in Punjab    if this param guy walked into punjab dressed like that he would get called a kusra 

I guess they take this clownish image to entertain the mass indians who want to laugh at sikhs clowning about on stage. most people in india dont like sikh men with a more dominant image they prefer these clowns. 

heres another urban westernized Sikh man probably from delhi or mumbai 

 

How comes this fudhus mum and dad don't say anything to him?

[puzzled]

40 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:

How comes this fudhus mum and dad don't say anything to him?

shocking isn't it?  worse thing is that he says every sardar he comes across supports this bakwaas

Punjab is culturally corrupt but i know for sh1t that this would never be accepted there! 

[puzzled]

Another spaz .  who the hell calls their cooking show "turban tadka"    a lot of these Sikhs outside of Punjab behave in this clownish behavior to entertain Indians.   I change the channel whenever i see him on tv      

 

 

[dallysingh101]

1 hour ago, puzzled said:

Another spaz .  who the hell calls their cooking show "turban tadka"    a lot of these Sikhs outside of Punjab behave in this clownish behavior to entertain Indians.   I change the channel whenever i see him on tv      

 

 

Nah man. I like this guy. He's not remotely in the same bracket as the belly dancing fairy.

I've done a good few recipes from this guy over the years. I ain't seen much that is cringeworthy. Okay, he very occasionally does this minorly silly 'namak namak' dance thing when he adds salt to the recipes, but even that isn't that bad compared to pics posted previously here. 

I didn't know he was on TV, I thought it was just Youtube. Maybe he's worse on TV? 

[puzzled]

1 hour ago, dallysingh101 said:

Nah man. I like this guy. He's not remotely in the same bracket as the belly dancing fairy.

I've done a good few recipes from this guy over the years. I ain't seen much that is cringeworthy. Okay, he very occasionally does this minorly silly 'namak namak' dance thing when he adds salt to the recipes, but even that isn't that bad compared to pics posted previously here. 

I didn't know he was on TV, I thought it was just Youtube. Maybe he's worse on TV? 

he still behaves clownish    he falls in the same category as deler mehndi         yh but we dont have sky we have this other satellite box thing   you pay once and then get all the channels for free   i dont even know if its legal lol   dad got it from a paki he knows     

[dallysingh101]

17 hours ago, puzzled said:

he still behaves clownish    he falls in the same category as deler mehndi         yh but we dont have sky we have this other satellite box thing   you pay once and then get all the channels for free   i dont even know if its legal lol   dad got it from a paki he knows     

Delar Mandi is on a next level though. His grinning bootha alone is offensive.  

[Guest Singhni]

On 9/23/2019 at 4:03 PM, dallysingh101 said:

If the stuff coming out about gender birthrate discrepancies in the community is true, be that through selective abortions

Yes because of the anti-Sikh imbalance of male versus female in Punjab plus NRI grooms finding wives from back in Punjab further reducing the number of Sikh women available there is a high percentage of unmarried male Sikhs (especially Amritdhari) in their 30's in Punjab nowadays.

And on the other hand we have about at least 20% of Sikh guys in the West marrying goriyah and other races and I'd guess about 15% going back to Punjab to find a wife so right from the get go it means that about 35% of Sikh women born in the West cannot find a Sikh partner and are getting to their 30's unmarried.

Fair enough some 10% of women might end up with goreh due to working in all white environments but now even those are being driven away from the community by Anand Karaj protests.

But at least 25% of Sikh women are being left unmarried to their thirties due to Sikh guys marrying goryah so much (at least twice as many as women the other way round). And yet it's women that are always blamed when it's Sikh men who are the main problem chasing after goriyah as backed up my census statistics!

No disrespect to the Amritdhari Singhs with gori wives like Bhai Jugraj Singh etc

[Guest guest]

On 9/28/2019 at 6:58 PM, puzzled said:

who the hell calls their cooking show "turban tadka"   

 

that is a stupid and degrading name.

[dallysingh101]

On 9/29/2019 at 6:47 PM, Guest Singhni said:

Yes because of the anti-Sikh imbalance of male versus female in Punjab plus NRI grooms finding wives from back in Punjab further reducing the number of Sikh women available there is a high percentage of unmarried male Sikhs (especially Amritdhari) in their 30's in Punjab nowadays.

And on the other hand we have about at least 20% of Sikh guys in the West marrying goriyah and other races and I'd guess about 15% going back to Punjab to find a wife so right from the get go it means that about 35% of Sikh women born in the West cannot find a Sikh partner and are getting to their 30's unmarried.

Fair enough some 10% of women might end up with goreh due to working in all white environments but now even those are being driven away from the community by Anand Karaj protests.

But at least 25% of Sikh women are being left unmarried to their thirties due to Sikh guys marrying goryah so much (at least twice as many as women the other way round). And yet it's women that are always blamed when it's Sikh men who are the main problem chasing after goriyah as backed up my census statistics!

No disrespect to the Amritdhari Singhs with gori wives like Bhai Jugraj Singh etc

It's not as simple as that.

Our own culture, with its hypergamy, doesn't help. Families are frequently the biggest obstacle when apnay want to marry an apnee. Plus a certain section of apneean don't help either. They haven't exactly made a great name for themselves (not all though - there are still plenty of decent apneean out there). 

This isn't a simple matter of patriarchy. There is plenty of blame to go around, and apneean can't play the innocent victim card. Some of them are so gullible that they keep getting caught out in the most horrendous of situations with poor choices like falling into grooming and prostitution (or just generally living a completely Godless life). This pretty much compels some apnay to look outside. I don't have a problem with that as long as they try and preserve their heritage with their kids. Like I said, given circumstances, whether we like it or not, a certain degree of this is inevitably going to happen. 

There is nothing wrong with mixed marriages (which seem inevitable anyway) if the children are connected to Sikhi - like Bhai Jagraj Singh (and others) have done.  Really (from what I can gather) a lot of people seem more concerned with preserving some notion of racial identity (which is usually just a cover for their caste pride) over Sikhi anyway. And if we are going to grow and spread as a community,, we'd better get used to, and be ready to deal with children of such unions. Which we can do infinitely better than we do now. 

People in the UK have got good reason for objecting to these 'Anand Karaaj's'. Those of us who are clued up at ground level know exactly why. It does get abused by people who are essentially indifferent to their heritage but strangely still want a traditional Sikh ceremony on top of the other one - presumably for a photo opportunity? Then there are people from other communities who are determined to try and undermine the community via females. We can't be oblivious to this. 

[Guest]

On 9/28/2019 at 10:32 PM, dallysingh101 said:

How comes this fudhus mum and dad don't say anything to him?

I am gay and even I find him highly annoying. He deserves a tight slap on his face ? Je eh khusrapuna hi karna hai taa , kes kata dene chahide isnu !  rather than making a laughing stock out of singhs !