Do bossy dominating alpha mothers with beta male partners end up creating beta sons?

[ChardikalaUK]

15 hours ago, puzzled said:

Haven't watched the video, but I don't think it's true. One my cousin's back in the 90s was involved in gangs. He even had a gun when we went around their house back in the days. God knows how many women he has been with! He once told me he "im not racist when it comes to women, I dont discriminate" I know he was with a Muslim woman when he came out of jail.

On the other hand, his father was pushed around by his wife his whole life! He's the kind of guy who is really quite and only talks after he's had a few drinks. He spent most his evenings in the pub, to get away from his wife and kids!  

Depends on how society defines alpha. There are some quite men, have never hurt a fly, yet they've got absolute command over their wife, kids and whatever goes on in the house ... 

He sounds like a real pillar of society. What's he up to these days?

[puzzled]

1 hour ago, ChardikalaUK said:

He sounds like a real pillar of society.

1 hour ago, ChardikalaUK said:

What's he up to these days?

Approaching 50 and balding lol.

He's changed now, though he still has contacts.

I see a lot of regret in him, though he puts up a "I don't give a crap" attitude. 

[scali]

Mentioning Grasth Jivan is same as the insurance I stated. Wives are biased toward their own families while disrespecting husbands. Sikh women are no exception. Also save your Grasth Sermon for someone who cares. Living Life is a bigger experience. 

[jkvlondon]

5 hours ago, scali said:

So for you marriage is lifetime insurance of guaranteed sex.

interesting male perspective ...marriage for you is nothing more ?

[scali]

We are three brothers married to women from Sikh families with similar experiences, mostly negative with these women. Their side of families can come over stay for weeks while when our sides show up attitudes start flying. So I have stopped giving Spiritual meaning to Grasth Jivan. Three similar Sikh women experiences is enough data.

[ipledgeblue]

58 minutes ago, scali said:

Also save your Grasth Sermon for someone who cares. Living Life is a bigger experience. 

well since Guru Nanak recommended grihast jeevan, and Guru Sahibs and gursikhs practised this, then I guess a lot of sikhs do care! 

[scali]

Sikhism is neither pro or anti marriage. Lavans are a discourse of soul bride and groom GOD.

 

[Guest]

26 minutes ago, ipledgeblue said:

well since Guru Nanak recommended grihast jeevan, and Guru Sahibs and gursikhs practised this, then I guess a lot of sikhs do care! 

22ji, no point in explaining to these people here. These sikhs are totally brainwashed by kal jug and hold dear to such values only. 

[jkvlondon]

7 hours ago, scali said:

Sikhism is neither pro or anti marriage. Lavans are a discourse of soul bride and groom GOD.

 

you'll find that  Guru ji says that it is the highest form of bhagati , where we are not aa burden but a positive influence on the world around us

[scali]

Highest form of Bhakti per Sikhism is Simran not getting married and playing mind games with your partner. Charity begins at home if home life is hell how can one be a lighthouse for the rest. Let’s be real and stop sugarcoating the obvious.