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Sister Is Marrying Out Of Faith 1 2
by Guest Guest- 14 replies
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Dear Sangat Ji, My sister sister wishes to marry out of faith and is causing our family a lot of heartbreak, she has a found a person on her own, in another country. and she wanted my blessings for her marriage. For me, I felt ashamed and said no, and told her, that if you turn your faith on Guru Gobind Singh, who are you to me. She had kept this secret, so I told my parents, Sangat ji, is there anything I can do. I feel my parents pain, and my dad is very sad inside. I THINK as children we have a duty to keep our parents happy and respected.si
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Sister-in-law believes pakhandi babe and pandit
by Guest Gupt sad- 3 replies
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Sat Sri Akal everyone, I'm writing to you all because the situation at home is now unbearable. My elder brother was married to a girl, it didn't go on well between the two and they got a divorce. My younger brother got married to a girl (from India) and she came at home abroad just a year ago. The issue is that she, and her mother, go to pandits and pakhandi babe. We did not know that. Any issue happens, they go see the pandit, someone fell off the scooter --> they go ask the pandit why. And whatever the pandit says (put a coconut during 9 days in some place etc, avoid eating garlic etc) they listen. My sis in law suffered from some allerg…
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Site With Good Info On 1984 Riots Report
by Guest Guest- 0 replies
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http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/jaskaran/news...epartments/1984 Please check this site out thanx
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Sittin In The Gurdwara For Too Long 1 2 3 4
by Guest guest- 31 replies
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normally when i go to the gurdwara i could only sit with my legs crossed for approx 15 mins @ LOL yh i know its not alot, n i tink im becoming old already! but i start to get backache n especially my knees, hai hai, i cannot even move after sitting there for that time...and i soo hate to be in that situation! ... and normally when im going to sit down, i could actually hear the cracking sounds in my knees lol, this is how unhealthy i have become, meaning i wasnt like this before lol, hmmm prob cuz i put on weight anyways...so i was just hoping that i could get some tips on how to escape this pain while im sitting there and tryin to concentrate :wub: thank juu…
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I need help regarding my dilemma. I met a transgender woman at a social event a few weeks ago and she told me I was very attractive and wanted to go out on a date with me. I told her she was a nice person but I am not attracted to transgender women. She then got furious and accused me of trans-phobia. A week after meeting her, she got a hold of my work place and started sending emails to my co-workers and boss saying that I am a pervert. What should I do?
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Six Flags Magic Mountain LA
by Guest Singh- 1 reply
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I was wondering if any Amritdhari Sikhs have ever visited Six Flags Magic Mountain in Los Angeles and if they have were they told to remove their Kirpans? And if you were, were you detained and not allowed entry? Lastly were you patted down? Dhanvaad.
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Size Of Kashara 1 2
by Guest Chandler- 17 replies
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Friends, I have come across a question amongst my colleagues and my discussion partners. We have come to ask anybody who has the information regarding the regulation size of the KASHARA. I know that some higher ranking singhs where large kashara because they can turn them into a tent while living in the jungle. However some singhs argue that a smaller kashara is also sufficient for the duties it is intended for. Some of the bibian have argued that the size does not matter however we are the having mixed information regards in this topic. Some Singhs I have contacted in the European market have advice me that velcro is being used because of its efficiency and ease …
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Skin Problems
by Guest :(- 8 replies
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fateh when i was 4-10 years old, i had exzema. however, with maharaj's mahan kirpa, someone told me about a herbal cream, which worked perfectly, all the Eczema went. i was so relieved because i had it mostly on joints, neck and arms. however, at present my skin is covered in dark black patched of where the Eczema used to be. my neck is so dark, and it doesnt look right beacause my face is very fair compared to my neck. rest of body is fine, but my stomach, my joints in arms and mostly my neck is very very very dark because the Eczema has left patches. is there any way i can get rid of these? i asked my doctor, he said no. i asked the guy i got my herbal cream fr…
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji K Fateh I wanted to ask something as I am not sure about it and was hoping someone can shine some light or knowledge on my question. Basically, I have a friend, who has really bad acne prone skin- like the acne she gets is really big, angry, painful, and if they do shrink in size (eventually) they leave massive dark scars that stay for months on end , sometimes possibly years! She has been trying so many natural skin products and cleansers but nothing has worked, but somewhat made it worse... diet is not an issue as she has a very strict and healthy diet (apart from the few cheat days everyone is allowed) and drinks plenty of water... h…
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I would like to know the meaning of 'slander' as it occurs in Sikhism. 'Slander' it mentioned many times in the SGGS, specifically in Sukhmani Sahib. My understanding of what slander is, is saying untruthful things which are harmful to another persons reputation. But, I have some friends who think that even if we tell the truth about someone that we had a bad dealing with, we are engaging in slander. For example, if we had a bad dealing with an autoshop and they ruined our car & then we told all of our friends not to go there, would that be considered Nindia/Slander? Wouldn't we be doing a good thing by informing others so they don't have to go through the same thing?…
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sleep amritvela Sleep
by Guest Gagandeep Kaur- 4 replies
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Sat sri akal I am going to gurdwara regularly, i feel asleep while listening gurbani. Please suggest what to do to get rid of it
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Sleep Problems And Amrit Vela?
by Guest Jacfsing2- 6 replies
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Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh! Recently as I have been trying to stay on an Amrit Vela, I've felt some sleep problems, (before I was trying to start the routine, I hadn't been a strong person in GurSikhi, also having some strong-minor withdrawal symptoms of previous kaam problems), I want to know if anyone else has this a problem getting to sleep at night, while trying to wake-up early in the morning, and what I can do, (With Gur-prassad of course), to hopefully sleep at the night and be capable of Waking-up early at Amrit Vela, (sometimes I can't sleep until 12 A.M.) Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh! (It sometimes makes me feel weak that I can't wa…
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Sleeping After Amritwela
by Guest m- 5 replies
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Vahegurujeekakhalsa Vahegurujeekeefateh Sangath jeeo, i know this question has already been asked, and i tried searching for it bit could not find it. So my question is, is it wrong to sleep after amritwela? Like today, i woke up and did my nitnem during amritwela and then went back to sleep and woke up at 11 am. @ .. is that wrong? Im very unsure.. Vahegurujeekakhalsa Vahegurujeekeefateh
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Sleeping And Reciting 1 2
by Guest _sleeping_singh_- 18 replies
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Might be a wierd question but it is something that I thought about after it had happened. Sometimes (when I say sometimes, I mean like maybe once every 5-6 months), when I'm asleep I kinda wake up. I'm still asleep, my body is still asleep, I know I'm still asleep. I know of nothing around me. I don't whether it's day or night outside or anything but I'm awake. Wierd to explain - bit like a lucid dream when you know you're dreaming and you can start to control it, except on these occasions, I'm not dreaming. Any way, I'm asleep and awaken gradually whilst still in my sleep. As I wake up whilst still asleep, I find my mind reciting Japji sahib. It's wierd, it's like a ta…
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Sleeping Towards God 1 2 3
by Guest stupidness- 20 replies
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im writing this with out givng my name cos i dnt wana ofend neone.. but i have babaji photo in my room on the left hand of my bed in a wardrobe whos doors i always keeps open (can be abit dangerous seeing as thou im always walking in to the doors n bangin my head lol) but i was thinking about changing my bed so that when i lie down my feet are going to be directing towards the photo is that wrong? n anova thing i sometimes turn my bak towards the phto during the night but obviously not on purpose because im a sleep is that wrong aswell?
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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