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I Want To Wear A Dastar
by Guest :(- 8 replies
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What do you do when you want to wear a dastaar but your mum doesn't? Both my parents are Amrit-dhari but mum doesn't wear a dastar (please dont make this a debate about which amrit is better now). I dont want it to seem as though I'm telling her she's wrong (indirectly) by wearing a dastar once I take Amrit. My mum's a very strong person who's always wanting the best for me and usually makes a lot of the big decisions for me too. Now if I take Amrit and wear a dastar, she will without a doubt feel as though she's doing something wrong or I'm too religious :lol: and I don't want to hurt her feelings. I haven't discussed this ambition with her because I'm still trying …
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I have a major problem at a sangat i have been going too. People have been talking about me behind my back and people actualy phoned each other to tell them to let their children know not to talk to me. One aunti ji actualy told me that i am Bad sangat and than i should basicaly iscolate myself from everyone there. I am just getting on this path but every time i get close I just get driven away by what these sangat people do. AND on top of it all a baba ji comes here for around 2 months a year and he didnt do anything about it when i told him. whenever i tell anyone they ignore me and say that the adults are right. I feel so ignored and i feel as if the Sikhi path just is…
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Erm..read Pleasee.. 1 2
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Fateh Ji Evryone... i have a fwend...and they wanna knww, if ths is wrongg.....your with someone...like not a sxual relaship, but it is more than fwends....you dnt want to hav sx obvsly...cs u wanna get marrid n w8 til thn...but your still young and have to w8 long....rents dnt know, but u will tell em u wna gt hitchd wen olda...both r into Sikhi...is it stl wrng to hv a relshnshp now?
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Feeling Unmotivated
by Guest Guest- 3 replies
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I don't even know whats wrong with me these past few weeks. I'm taking courses in my college, but I feel so drained and so unmotivated. I used to be a great student, one of the most competitive in my class and now I'm doing just enough to get by. I would rather go online and listen to kirtan or katha, or practice kirtan on my own...thats practically the only time when my mind concentrates and focuses. I have big dreams though, and I know that if I don't get out of this phase that I'm going to ruin them because of this phase I'm in. I'm not really into the drama of my classmates anymore and could care less who is dating who, etc. I love my family and everything is gr…
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Scared To Talk In Public!
by Guest shy- 9 replies
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Ive read a post about this before but the answers didn't seem to help out a lot. I'm so terrified to do school presentations and talk in front of big crowds, I get so nervous like there's a frog in my throat and it looks really stupid because Sikhs are NOT supposed to be that way :e: Can someone help me pleeeease
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what would you do in a situation where your parent gets angry and tries to knock your dastaar off? :lol: i mean does it change the fact that someone is tryng to attack your dastaar if its one of your parent......(if that is an attack) ???
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Amrit Sanchar In New Jersey?
by Guest Guy- 2 replies
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I heard that there is usually an Amrit Sanchar in New Jersey around the first week of June? Someone got the down-lo? If so, respond with details. Most appreciated.
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Bhai Harnam Singh Jee-alpha Tv
by Guest *- 1 reply
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fateh sangat jee um does anyone no if i cn get bhai harnam singh jees keertan 4rm..the ragi who is shown after rehraas sahib on alpha... does anyone know the shabad he sings too.. ''harji ayee''....i cn find the translation :lol:
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I Cant Remember
by Guest hmm- 1 reply
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the new animation, by the producers of the sahibzadey film about baba banda singh bahadur could someone also provide me with the website link please? thankyou :T:
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“The Sikh Awareness Society will discuss in detail one particular issue that has torn-apart many families in our community” In Derby alone, we know of countless incidents of Sikh youth who have been influenced by members of fundamentalist groups who deliberately target our youth to undermine Sikhism. Parents and family members of these youth usually have no one to turn to for help or support, as it is considered ‘taboo’ or shame on the family. We MUST break away from this vicious circle of silence, and as Sikh youth, we must take responsibility for the welfare of our brothers and sisters. We have taken it upon ourselves to address this issue. Anyone who feels the…
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Hey peeps, my name is Brian and I am from New Delhi, Recently join this forum. itell u wat I love to learn and talk about sikhi more n more n more..I love to listen keertan...Akj Rocks!!!! Well I aint from ne jatha n stuff...but i love akj style keertan..i love manpreet singh kanpuri, bhai(sant) niranjan singh jwaddikallan, harjinder singh sri nagr, paonta sahib wale...and list is preety long actually...gotta know about this site from one of my friends whos also join this forum....So looking for friends ova here.... i use brian.singh@hotmail.com and brian.singh@yahoo.com so ne one is more than welcome to add me to his/her buddy list ....i hope some of u will 'dare' to h…
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Waheguru ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh hey guys :lol: .....uummm....i needed help with doing simran....cuz like ima gonna be doin simran on stage soon in about 2 weeks.....and ive never done it before.....i mean my two older panjian(not blood-related...but i wish) are gonna help but not wid evrything....i mean ive seen many people do simran b4 and i kinda have an idea....but if anyone could gimme suggestions on like how to start off.....wen to go fast,slow...etc...any suggestions pleez would be a great help!....and if anyone has a specific tune dat they would like to share da keys uv it then i would reeeeaaallllyyyyy appreciate it!!!!.....pleez help me out sangat ji…
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Explanation Please 1 2
by Guest no one- 11 replies
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mai moorakh kee kaethak baath hai kott paraadhhee thariaa rae || could someone please explain what each word in this shabad means?? it would be GREATLY appreciated, thankyou ji.
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Raj Karega Khalsa
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wt does the full shabad actuali meen?? :lol:
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Rajan Ke Raja.....
by Guest ..- 1 reply
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fateh sangat jee can someone please tell me wt da full shabad is of rajan ke raja...abt guru gobind singh jee please
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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