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Life...
by Guest ~guru ji's daughter..- 6 replies
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" Really, what good aare people/friends/family? Yes, they do mean the world to us at the time. However, if you were single-handedly alone, would they come? comfort you? No, guru jis is the one. He will never leave any of his children. We are his life, and he is ours." " How do i even describe, what runs through my mind? Well, what runs through someones mind who is confused, worrried, and numb all over? Guru ji will save me." " Why do i feel like im not worth it? Arn't all of guru jis creations worth something? The contentness and joy i used to feel has evaportated. My heart feels heartless, and my soul feels soul-less. Oh!, almighty guru ji sav…
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Tribute Video
by Guest pardeep- 6 replies
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sant baba takhur singh ji - tribute
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Difference Between Kaam And Prem 1 2
by Guest daas- 10 replies
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What is difference between Kaam and Prem. If you love some one from your heart without thinking about his/her physical condition..and you marry to that person is it a Kaam? or it's a Prem. So how come love marrige is aginast Gurmat. Guru Sahib himself teaches us to do "prem", prem with akal purakh. So if we haven't learned to "prem" (love) with ourselves how can we love God. Guru Gobind Singh sahib, "Jin Prem kiyo tin hi prabh payo" by loving God, you are marrying Him abd being one with Him. So it's our spirtual marrige with Waheguru akal purakh through Love (prem) not Kaam. And this way while living in this world, our worldy marrige done with love (prem) not kaa…
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The Best Type Of Seva 1 2
by Guest guest in this world- 12 replies
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I once heard someone say the best type of seva is simran. Do you believe this is true? If not, what do you think the best types of seva are for the Panth
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Does It Matter
by Guest we- 2 replies
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In the end Does it realyl matter who you marry... If you marry a good amritdhari person who is close to God, do the details really matter, like looks, background, family, the amount of seva she or he does, how involved she or he is in panthic matters, how big their name is how well known they are, do any of these things even matter in the end? Isn't it just like, whoever you marry has God in them anyways and we are just getting married to the light inside of that person so it doesn't realy matter who the person is? Why are some people so selective like I want taht singhnee I want this singhnee, or I want class A singh and if he doesn't fit in that category 100% then it …
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Im having a tough time finding my Amritdhari Singhni. Its hard enough finding someone who you are compatible with i.e. age, education, family background, height etc etc But what I have noticed a lot is you get asked the question as to what kind of sikh are you? which jatha do you belong to? It seems that the panth is divided even more esp amongst the youth.. Ive noticed that the youth only want to get married to someone within their own jathebandi due to the differences on opinion on things which differentiate the jathebandis as otherwise this may cause problems later in life. It really hurts me..... We are getting more and more divided instead of united and becomi…
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Does An Amritdhari Have To Marry An Amritdhari 1 2 3 4
by Guest _Gupt_- 36 replies
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Does an Amritdhari have to marry an Amritdhari - what if you cannot find an Amritdhari to marry, can you marry someone who is willing to take Amrit in the future after marriage?
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Turban
by Guest Guest- 1 reply
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WJKK WJKF I am having some trouble with my turban, is it possible to wear a dastaar for 24 hours and without your ears or head hurting??? Because I am havnig problems with my ears when putting the turban on for over a day. Can the sangat suggest me any tips or style of turban to tie? WJKK WJKF
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Help! What Shall I Do
by Guest _sharonjit_- 6 replies
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WJKK WJKF I don't know where to start. I shall try and start from the beginning and keep it brief. I am 25 years old.My family is amritdhari and I have been blessed to be born into a gursikh family But lately or should i say this past year i have gone so far far away from sikhi. Let me try to explain ever since i was little i was brought up to live a gursikh life. Always doing kirten and paht etc but all that has changed. Once upon a time i could not wait to to got to the gurdwara and see Guru Ji but now i struggle to go to the gurdwara, i can't or should it be won't go??When i do my nitnem in the morning and if i do get as far as sitting there with my gutka i don't get…
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Why?
by Guest Sad_man- 8 replies
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Hello,, satsriakal, i found this forum looking for sikh things on google. Im very happy to see somethign like this for young sikhs. Let me explain abit about me, I am alot younger than most members here. I have loved sikhi from a young age , i keep kesh and i love reading many books to learn as much as i can. I really love our heritage. Now my problem: Im generally very quite at my school i have only a few friends, but im happy with that because i dont want to keep bad sangat. I would love to be in company of gursikhs, thats why i go to many sikh youth groups and camps etc. but nones ever really taken any notice of me. I try to be as friendly as possibe,i don…
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Person U Like? 1 2
by Guest someone that needs advice...- 19 replies
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vjkk vjkf! I have a question say u like a person but the problem is their white... and if ur amrithdari can u still go out with them or even go as far as marrying them?
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I Like This Girls, But... 1 2 3
by Guest _Gupt Singh_- 27 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Wahe guru Ji Ki Fateh Sadh Sangat Ji, There is a girl that I like and I see her whenever we have SSA meeting. She is very very nice, does Paath, keertan, and is very very strong in Sikhi. I think she took Amrit when she was young and Guru Sahib blessed me with this daat about year and hafl ago. We sometimes call each other when we need somthing for the meeting, no personal talk or anything like that though. But the problem is whenver we talk, she refers me as "veerji" te mera sara mood off kar dindi aa. I don't look at her in a bad way. I respect her simplicity, calmness, and everything. I want to marry her, but I am afraid of telling her that I…
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Dasam Bani 1 2
by Guest na taate na maate na jaate na pa- 11 replies
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Well here is my gupt problem. Very often when I read dasam bani like akal ustat I get really really edgy and just feel like punching something or releasing my energy somehow. Im not talking about chandi di // Im saying normal dasam bani like akaal ustat. I have been told that even if you read jaap sahib 5 times a day you will notice increased levels of bir rus because all Dasam Bani can have this very powerful effect. Why do I get so edgy though, sometimes I get goosebumps too and get a tiny bit shaky, or internally I feel like reading it all again and again, like this endless burning pyaas that will only be fulfilled by Guru Gobind Singh jis bani. Sometimes I get hot, …
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Relationship
by Guest need advice- 7 replies
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So im thinkin I need to get outta this relationship im in, im with this girl, we r both amritdhari but I feel ma sikhi is beginning 2 slack behind, im not feelin as energetic and positive, dnt get me wrong I mean we aint done nothing wrong in terms of physical stuff, hell we aint even held hands or owt but its really drainin me just emotionally, I regret now not thinking bout it and just jumpin in head on so how do I tell her witout it breakin her? I mean we talked bout marriage and we wer both in it 4 the long haul but im jst not feelin it now, im bak at uni doing my final year and I need to concentrate and I wana bring ma sikhi bak up on form, past few months I bin feel…
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Attachment?
by Guest Me- 2 replies
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Vaaheguroo Ji Ka Khaalsaa Vaaheguroo Ji Ki Faateh Sangat Ji, I need help! I got this huge problem with attachment, where, everytime, I start speaking to someone I get attached....and when they go or leave, I get very upset and depressed . I know, I shouldnt get attached to this extent, but its what I do and everytime I promise myself I will not, it happens. I really hate this feeling, and was wondering if there was anything I could do to stop it happening in the future, short of turning my heart into stone . Vaaheguroo Ji Ka Khaalsaa Vaaheguroo Ji Ki Faateh
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Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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