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Viah (expense)
by Guest ^&^- 0 replies
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A question for the sangat. Generally speaking, who pays for the viah? Kuri wale or mundae wale? Is it split half-half? Main ceremony in the morning, reception (celebration) in the evening etc. I am clueless. Thks.
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Bandi-chhorh Divas (diwali)
by Guest Amrik Singh Grover- 3 replies
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Bandi-Chhorh Divas (Diwali) The story of Diwali for the Sikhs is a story of the Sikh struggle for freedom. From the time of Guru Nanak Dev Ji(1469 – 1539), the founder of Sikhism, popular seasonal or folk festivals like the harvest festival of Vaisakhi, or ancient mythological festivals like Holi and Diwali, or worship rituals like Aarti, began to take on a new significance for the Guru’s students, the Sikhs. The Guru used these festivals and special days e.g. first day of each lunar month, as symbols or pegs for his teaching themes. And so the Sikhs were slowly diverted from darkness of superstitious ritualism based on fear and ignorance to an enlightened ideology based…
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Yo is there anyone who would say that this is ok to find someone you care about that doesnt have to be a sikh???????????? :lol: @ Be in a relationship that you aint gonna be juged??? cos i know soem sikh who do this???
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Reading Bani 1 2
by Guest one that needs help- 10 replies
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Vjkk Vjkf! When doing amritvela and when doing Rehaas what do you think when reading the SGGS, like should i read it out load and what should i think when reading it like should i think about what i'm reading(can't do cause i don't understand it). Many amritdaris say read it out loud. I can't think about Guroo ji because he is formless. So What shall i think of? Sorry if i said anything wrong i am mainly a sikh in need.
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well so what ya think i read some sayn that havn a relationship before marriage is wrong????? ive gone out with sikh girls.does anyone else agree with me or do ya think this is wrong?????? Mod Note: Topic has been discussed before, please do a search. Topic Closed.
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Parents & Swearing 1 2 3
by Guest _simran_- 25 replies
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wjkkahlsa wjkfateh sangat jio, what do i do.. my mom constantly calls me a b****, and yells. my dad tells me im a bad daughter... ....................... ................. wahegurooo
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Benti To Forum Users
by Guest so longg- 9 replies
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can you please stop making useless topics with 95% of the posts are rubbish saying, i agree with him i agree with her agree with him her wot ever dont care and useless topics that mean nothing what so ever LOL its gettin annoying and there seems to be no quality in threads anymore
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Feeling Of Guilt
by Guest _GUPT_- 8 replies
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Has anyone had the feeling of guilt that they are not doing enough Naam Simran or reading of Banis?
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Confused Abt Rehat
by Guest Confused khalsa- 0 replies
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Edited : Please use search Option. We already had 10 pages of discussion on this topic.
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Gursikh Friends 1 2 3
by Guest gupt_singhni- 29 replies
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i just wanted to share my feelings with the sangat. i have been into sikhi for 5 years now when i first came into sikhi and was fortunate enough to wear a dastar i had so much hope in sangat that i didnt care that my 'tart friends' would abandon me because i thought i would make gursikh friends with bibian who wear dastaara and that they would welcome me with open arms. thats not the case i tried so hard to make friends with bibian in the uk i used too find out their emails and add them on msn or pm them. nothing worked most of the singhnia would talk to me on msn but then slowly just start blanking me as they don't have time and would rather talk to singhs (flirt), most…
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Waheguru...incident In Nottingham
by Guest *- 0 replies
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waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh sadhsangat ji,i would like to inform you about a incident that happened in nottingham about 2 weeks ago... A sikh and his wife went out to a restaurant to celebrate there wedding anniversary,which during this time a group of muslims (5) asked them to come to with them..**** MOD EDITED: Please provide solid proof to Admin @ contact@sikhsangat.com*****
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> > > Beware of 2-Way GLASS !!!!! > > > > > > Please share this information with your friends, family and all. > > > > > > Have you seen recent advertisement of M/S SAINTGOBAIN GLASSES shown in TELEVISION'S? - > > > > > > Then you must have known about 2 Way mirror & is > also shown in Hindi Movie HUMRAAZ) > > > How to determine if a mirror is 2 way or not > (Not a Joke!) Not to > > > scare you, but to make sure that you aware. > > > Many of the hotels and textile showrooms cheat > the customers this > > > way & watch priv…
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Lust
by Guest Guest- 5 replies
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wjkk wjkf, pyari sangat ji, cud ne1 help me. With guru ji's awesome blessings, i can say with confidence that i absolutely LOVE keertan. but wen in the outside world away from it my eyes wonder and lust kicks in. i need help bcus i know my guru is with me always and i'm ashamed after running my thoughts over. But lust gets the better of me and so i have little control ovr my thoughts during lust. snagat ji. i beeseech you...gimme advice to help change mylife
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Bobby Pins In Dastaar, Is It Okay 1 2
by Guest G-Ks- 10 replies
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I have a question Some singhnis use bobby pins to hold up their joora under their dastar. Everyone has different views on that, but the reality is that some girls do not want to tie a dumala and prefer a keski or small dastar but they need to use hair pins (3-4) to hold their joora in place so it does not fall around. Is this really horrible or awful or manmat based, or does Guru ji care more about the kureihts and about love? Is it REALLY bad for your sikhi if a girl does this for a little while, maybe until she wants to die a dumala or something? I think some singhnis from 3H0 do it and I know there are better alternatives but is it extreeemely wrong to do this? I he…
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How Has Taking Amrit Changed You? 1 2
by Guest Regular Sikhsangat Poster- 10 replies
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How has taking Amrit changed you? Share your experiences, as Gupt if need be.
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https://www.youtube.com/@TheWonderous1Channel I found this new channel on YouTube. Apparently they will be uploading a new video every week! Seems good, please subscribe and share with others. Thanks -
Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it. -
Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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