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Bobby Pins In Dastaar, Is It Okay 1 2
by Guest G-Ks- 10 replies
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I have a question Some singhnis use bobby pins to hold up their joora under their dastar. Everyone has different views on that, but the reality is that some girls do not want to tie a dumala and prefer a keski or small dastar but they need to use hair pins (3-4) to hold their joora in place so it does not fall around. Is this really horrible or awful or manmat based, or does Guru ji care more about the kureihts and about love? Is it REALLY bad for your sikhi if a girl does this for a little while, maybe until she wants to die a dumala or something? I think some singhnis from 3H0 do it and I know there are better alternatives but is it extreeemely wrong to do this? I he…
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How Has Taking Amrit Changed You? 1 2
by Guest Regular Sikhsangat Poster- 10 replies
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How has taking Amrit changed you? Share your experiences, as Gupt if need be.
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Movement During Smran And Kirtan 1 2 3
by Guest ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||- 20 replies
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WJKK WJKF I see alot of people mainly the youth moving and head-banging alot during Simran and Kirtan and i was wondering if its wrong or right? can the Sangat answer this for me please? WJKK WJKF
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Stage Fright (help)! 1 2
by Guest gursikh girl- 11 replies
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Hello Sangat ji, I need help. I can't talk in front of groups (like doing presentations or when all the attention is on me) like at school and stuff Im always so nervous and jittery and I have to stop and take a deep breath and swallow and I get nervous when theres all these gorey around me who are all smarter and I feel like Ill look stupider than them I know im amritdhari daughter of guru gobind singh ji but I still get so scared and nervous it's like I can't be spontaneous and just hold my head up and be strong and talk in front of ppl If im talking about sikhi then i can tal kto anyone with so much pride but any school presentation i get so so so scared and nervous…
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What Doez He Want? 1 2
by Guest ~confused~- 19 replies
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ive bin seein this guy n he doesnt gve me any signs hes interested. i know he is. but sometimes i think we r jus friendz, nuthin else. weve bin together for a yr now. had ups n downs. i want more now, n i dunno if he does. he is bsy all da time with his fam n friendz. my folks r pressurin me to get married. i wanna marry him. how do i go bout tellin him?
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Wearin A Kachera If Ur Nt Amritdhari
by Guest *- 9 replies
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wjkk wjkf cn a non amritdhari wear a kachera if they dnt wear the kirpan like most sikhs wera a kara,kesh but jus wunderin cn u wear the kachera as its nt reeli common...
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Recordings 4rm Leeds Rensbai 2003
by Guest **- 0 replies
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any1 no wher i cn get them 4rm
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Im having a tough time finding my Amritdhari Singhni. Its hard enough finding someone who you are compatible with i.e. age, education, family background, height etc etc But what I have noticed a lot is you get asked the question as to what kind of sikh are you? which jatha do you belong to? It seems that the panth is divided even more esp amongst the youth.. Ive noticed that the youth only want to get married to someone within their own jathebandi due to the differences on opinion on things which differentiate the jathebandis as otherwise this may cause problems later in life. It really hurts me..... We are getting more and more divided instead of united and becomi…
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Wahegurooo Amazing Feeling Sangat Jio.
by Guest - in chardii kalaaa~!- 7 replies
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Waheguroo kauu sangat ji!!!!! How do i even begin to explain what i feel at the preasent moment. I feel as if my body has been penetrated, and been taken over. Guru ji, is holding me and talk to me, his child. As i was just telling another bhenji she replied with " Dont want to get ur hopes up, but you usually get those types of feelings right before you take amrit"- to that, i thought, no becuase i feel like there are a few more tests to go for me ( and yes, im a non-amritdhari), but it was like guru jis way of telling me im almost there.. jus hold on. Oh woww!! I jus feel amazing right now. The t.e.a.r.s falling down from my eyes, are not tears of pain, but t.e.a.r.s o…
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Khoob Tere Pagree Mitee Thayree Bol
by Guest _learner_- 4 replies
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my spellings reeli bad bt duz any1 of the audio keertan of dis shabd pweeeeez
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vjkk vjkf, i need help from the sangat! I need some pictures based around amrit sanchar: 1. A picture of someone kneeling down (wen u receive anything, like amrit) 2. Panj pyareh in different poses, situations. (excluding the typical and common picture of all 5 standing up next to each other) 3. pics of amrit being prepared. 4. pics of the batta, the khanda, one of the panj pyarehs hand stiring the amrit, etc. Note: i do realise that amrit sanchars are in a gupt location, so i do understand if they are rare to find!
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Does It Matter
by Guest we- 2 replies
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In the end Does it realyl matter who you marry... If you marry a good amritdhari person who is close to God, do the details really matter, like looks, background, family, the amount of seva she or he does, how involved she or he is in panthic matters, how big their name is how well known they are, do any of these things even matter in the end? Isn't it just like, whoever you marry has God in them anyways and we are just getting married to the light inside of that person so it doesn't realy matter who the person is? Why are some people so selective like I want taht singhnee I want this singhnee, or I want class A singh and if he doesn't fit in that category 100% then it …
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Tribute Video
by Guest pardeep- 6 replies
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sant baba takhur singh ji - tribute
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A good friend once told me that in the paath whenever it says "mehla 1/2/3 etc" it refers to a particular Guru in order and hence its scribed by that Guru. So here's my question, in Kirtan Sohila ... there is Mehela 1, 4, and 5. How comes its a collaboration of the 3 Guru's? Who made that decision? I'm just curious ...
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Sikhi In A Nutshell? 1 2
by Guest **- 12 replies
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hw wud u describe sikhi in a few words..for e.g...if sum1 gora asked u wt sikhi was?........ help please...
